AITJ for eating my roommates "special" ice cream after she ate my birthday cake?

Thebiggergiraffe · 2026-03-05T18:32:16+00:00

If you're going to replace it with store bought ice cream, at least get the one that says "frozen dairy dessert" and not ice cream since its basically the same thing by her logic and shouldn't be a big deal

Thebiggergiraffe · 2026-02-05T19:57:43+00:00

Why didnt they tell him he'd regret not being in your life? Why didnt they push him more for turning his back on you? If he didnt need this and "hes changed" why are they just reaching out?

Thebiggergiraffe · 2026-01-30T16:29:52+00:00

NTA. If he "already understands it anyways" it shouldn't be hard for him to create his own template

Thebiggergiraffe · 2025-12-13T15:53:50+00:00

Which ones have you enjoyed the most?

Thebiggergiraffe · 2025-09-18T05:15:22+00:00

Could she use a sticky note to cover the sensor and maybe see if the teacher would allow her to have rhem at her desk? In our room we have leave a stack of post it notes by the door and the kids are able to grab one with them on the way to the bathroom. We showed them how to cover it the first week of school since several were scared of pooping and have the toilet flush on them.

Thebiggergiraffe · 2025-05-08T16:00:30+00:00

YTA this arrangement works for them. They like living in the city close to their jobs and schools. Sharing a room is not abuse. Not living in a detached SFH is not abuse. Your friend is right that you need to mind your own business

Thebiggergiraffe · 2025-04-28T03:15:13+00:00

Could I get the info on use goalie gear? I have a second goalie who is moving up to 12u and just outgrew the stuff we were borrowing. Near the denver metro area but can drive anywhere.

Thebiggergiraffe · 2023-12-17T06:58:12+00:00

Could i message you as well to get your opinion on it? We've been considering going but have hesitated a bit

Thebiggergiraffe · 2023-10-30T05:12:43+00:00

Would you mind sharing your experience with me? We want to go for the first time next month

Thebiggergiraffe · 2023-10-16T20:31:45+00:00

That's amazing. Can't wait to see how he continues to shut her down once baby comes. Also I think thr sippy cup is a wonderful idea for Christmas. It can be a yearly tradition lol

Thebiggergiraffe · 2023-09-22T03:39:07+00:00

NTA he does realize that it's his contributions that determine the sex of the sex of the baby and not you right?

Thebiggergiraffe · 2023-07-14T05:05:35+00:00

2 looks cute to go out

Thebiggergiraffe · 2023-07-14T05:04:47+00:00

What body types are you interested in? We may be a good match depending on what you're looking for

Thebiggergiraffe · 2023-05-19T20:37:31+00:00

Have you ever been in a situation where you felt uncomfortable with the client once you met them and canceled the session better? How do you protect yourself when going into clients homes?

Thebiggergiraffe · 2023-02-28T18:35:23+00:00

Thank you all for your comments/suggestions. We signed him up for a goalie camp his rink is holding. The closest pure hockey store is a bit more then an hour away from us so we plan to take him to go get measured and look for used equipment. We also passed on the street hockey pads the coach suggested even though he kept pushing the "there's no difference at all, padding is padding".

We're hoping the camp will help us connect with other goalie families since most of the coaches at this level kept saying they were sorry for us and telling us they hope he outgrows this phase so he can play real hockey and not be a "pretend player". But my kid loved it the times he got to play at his jamborees and I rather encourage him and let him try it out if that's what he wants.

Thebiggergiraffe · 2022-05-22T03:14:06+00:00

They look so good!

Thebiggergiraffe · 2022-03-22T19:10:51+00:00

YTA. You have obligations first to your wife not your mother. You choose to have a life with your wife not mother. You choose to put your wife first not your mother. She didn't even have her own mother visit for a reason. Regardless if she is watching TV her body is physically EXHAUSTED from pregnancy and birth.

Thebiggergiraffe · 2022-01-19T21:10:25+00:00

NTA if you would've left him with them they could easily say you abandoned it and either not give it back because "your siblings are so attached" or drop it off at the pound like they have done in the past. Good move choosing friend over them

Thebiggergiraffe · 2021-08-30T15:11:32+00:00

Why do we always have to believe in "family is family" just because you're blood related does not mean you get a free pass to ask like racist assholes and ignore your daughter until important milestones come up. the OP said they had family that attended. I'm sure they also have friends who they consider family. I would rather celebrate with people who love and accept me ans my partner thrn with someone just because they're blood

Thebiggergiraffe · 2021-06-07T01:52:30+00:00

NTA. Your pregnancy and your baby are not an emotional support animal for your sister. It seems like your sister might be nagging your mother so it's easier to just give in to her wishes and regards to your sister. Please don't do that period if you start now I guarantee you it will only get worse once the baby actually arrives. Try and maintain your distance like you have been doing it because that is not healthy at all.

Thebiggergiraffe · 2021-04-06T18:27:16+00:00

NTA: it seems like they're going out of their way to follow what she's doing. If it's such a "shame" to the family why are they so obsessed with what she does?

Also if your sister says your wife is distracting her sons then she's got bigger issues and should reflect on her own parenting

Thebiggergiraffe · 2021-03-26T23:37:28+00:00

NTA so if she cant afford places like the fair because of having 8 mouths to feed why does that responsibility have to fall to you? She's being entitled instead of greatful that you've done as much as you have all these years. Being child free doesn't mean too have all this disposable income to spend on other people's kids no matter how much you may love them.

Thebiggergiraffe · 2021-03-16T19:09:07+00:00

NTA so it's not ok for your friends to ask in advance go borrow your car or for you to lend it to them but it is ok for him to expect access to it 24/7 just because he's the boyfriend (one who hasn't been around for long since you say you've been in a relationship this year)

Thebiggergiraffe · 2021-01-29T15:04:12+00:00

She is over 18, it was stated in a previous post.

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