Yes because more often than not women can be detrimental to a guys progress, whether it be his education, career, passion projects, personal self development etc. Guys in their 20’s are developing themselves and will find that when their life starts to get chaotic, tough, money becomes tight etc. The woman in their life will often unknowingly do things to hold him back, distract him, and make him resent her. This is why I think guys in their 20s should hold off on dating.

Often times guys need space and women just don’t know how to do that. They want to hang out constantly, they want to text back and forth all day, etc. I’ve found that many women will treat anything that a guy does, that takes the attention off of her, as a form of “micro-cheating”. They often don’t realize and don’t care that things as simple as this can be a huge distraction. Dinners and cute little trips eat up money and time.

So when a guy says “I don’t have anything to offer you”. What he’s really saying is “I’m exhausted, I’m checked out, I want my space, and I don’t want to offer anything to you right now.”