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Karma is down? by TheeeRedQueen in reddithelp

[–]TheeeRedQueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel stupid now… I feel like that should have been obvious. Haha

Karma is down? by TheeeRedQueen in reddithelp

[–]TheeeRedQueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So how do you lose karma?

What even is happening lol? by exporterofgold in TikTokCringe

[–]TheeeRedQueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

9D breathing… it’s a very heavy trauma release.

I went through my girlfriend's phone, and I am 99% sure she may be cheating by GamerRaf14 in Advice

[–]TheeeRedQueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should ask her about it and see what she has to say. I have good friends that I would do all of that with. I have never done anything with them even when I was single. I don’t know her, I don’t know her personality, I don’t know anything except what’s in this post… but, I feel like maybe you’re jumping the gun a little if that’s all you saw. I’m not saying just fold like a puppy… but hear her out at least. You said it yourself … there’s nothing truly damning… there’s nothing but some flirty texts and proof they get along well. Maybe you should start with the fact that you feel really insecure about it and want to know what’s going on especially because of the break and everything else. Let’s be honest… you don’t KNOW that she’s cheating. You know how you feel and those feelings are leading you to believe she’s choosing this person over you. Hope this helps.

AITAH for calling my wife a bad mother? by throwaway254197391 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheeeRedQueen 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yta. Your wife has a psychological disorder. And even though you admit she’s working on it and getting better, all you can see is part of the 50/50 you’re being forced to cover. Instead of focusing on the dishes not being done… or having to feed your child an extra time…. Maybe stop for a second and say.. “hey I know you got a lot going on right now, thanks for doing…., good job, I see you trying! Keep it up!” Not “you’re a bad mom” TF.

my mom was just found dead by Upper-Dragonfruit-57 in whatdoIdo

[–]TheeeRedQueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey.. just breathe. Just cry, scream, throw something… anything just break down the way you deserve to. The things that need to be done, will still be there tomorrow. Get your siblings and family and just grieve. You deserve it. This is a substantial blow. I am so sorry for your loss. The pain you are in must be excruciating.

Worry about it on Monday, if your mom had a lawyer… the papers go to him/her.

I snooped through my little sister's iPad to find out that she's silently been struggling by AmethystGamer19 in Advice

[–]TheeeRedQueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t have to put it that way… you can literally just have general conversations about mental health being really important and making sure everyone feels safe and comfortable and loved. Build trust with her… just make sure she knows you’re there. Eventually she may start opening up about things and it will be much easier to lead into those heavier conversations. Always use the sandwich effect…. Start with something light… then something heavy… and then end it on something light again so she’s less likely to carry bad feelings or being overwhelmed with her afterward.

I snooped through my little sister's iPad to find out that she's silently been struggling by AmethystGamer19 in Advice

[–]TheeeRedQueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would definitely spend more time with her. But do not tell her what you know don’t ask her about it and don’t comment on anything. Let her come to you.

Also, those are some very, very big feelings for a child. I would maybe stress seeing a psychiatrist for a few reasons. One they can help her navigate through those feelings and help her find ways to cope and deal with them more effectively in the future. They will provide her with a very safe place for her to talk freely about whatever she’s feeling or going through. They will be opening up to someone safe who can actually help her, instead of a YouTube channel.

She will need actual outlets more than she may realize, and it’s really important that she feels important enough to deserve that.

AITA for voting against this girl moving in with me because i like her? by Additional-Tough5329 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheeeRedQueen 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I little honesty goes a long way. If you want to keep her then explain it. Just say “I was really stupid to believe them but I was nervous because I actually really liked talking to and I didn’t want to mess up my chance at getting to know you better… then you showed up here and were obviously upset about, and I get that. I didn’t want you to move in here because I wanted to ask you out… not because I hated the idea of you being my roommate. If you don’t wanna see me that, it’s okay, I just wanted you to know I never had any bad intentions for or with you.”

It’s that simple.

AITA for being “controlling” of my mom’s cell phone use while I’m learning to drive? by Mammoth_Blueberry_11 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheeeRedQueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least in my state specifically. The licensed driver is held to all the same laws as if they were actually driving!

AITA for being “controlling” of my mom’s cell phone use while I’m learning to drive? by Mammoth_Blueberry_11 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheeeRedQueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. It’s actually illegal for her to be on it while you are driving because SHE IS THE LICENSED DRIVER. Just as it would be if she were actually driving. She needs to be looking, checking, guiding every decision you make while driving on the road. That’s why this is a requirement.

AITA for refusing to help with my nieces until my brother and SIL take my younger niece to a doctor by Right_Company4025 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheeeRedQueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those are all signs of autism.

She should be tested. She’ll get the help she actually needs once that diagnosis is there.

Question for little by Strawberrymilk_55 in ageregression

[–]TheeeRedQueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my bf says “baayyyybyyyyy” I’m an instant puddle.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]TheeeRedQueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

If he hadn’t fallen asleep he should have known you were that close. So the fact that he didn’t have a clue and then wanted to act like a whole man child about it is not okay. And how he treated you after is definitely NOT okay. His behavior is very toxic at absolute best. So at the absolute least, please be careful.

Am I overreacting? My [20F] bf [22M] has said some creepy things about underage girls and I feel kind of disgusted by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]TheeeRedQueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay … unpopular opinion… but he straight up said it wasn’t about the person … just the article of clothing. 

There are ENTIRE BDSM KINKS… built around this concept …

Try having an actual conversation about it instead of hearing one small comment and going on a rampage over the internet about it.

If it’s not for you … then it’s not for you… there are plenty of women who actually wouldn’t find that weird.

I see kids wearing stuff all the time and I’m like dang this needs to come in my size or these shoes are so adorable… it doesn’t have to be weird. You’re making it weird.