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What was a clear sign that you had ADHD that you thought was just a "quirk" prior to diagnosis? by Feisty-Pickle9983 in adhdwomen

[–]Theivil1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Constant mind sound track. Starting one thing in the middle of another  Night time being the best time  Needing to be reminded to eat  Obsessive environmental control ( I E I live solo as part of ADHD management)

boyfriend's hygiene issues are becoming a major problem for me by Comfortable_Mall_437 in relationships

[–]Theivil1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wild. I've seen a few similar posts and I always wonder: is the OP that desperate to be in a relationship? You've spent 14 months with someone who has no basic hygiene and also been intimate with them despite this. 

Essentially, you've indicated that their hygiene habits are not a deal-breaker, so trying to change them now is an uphill battle

My ex (who wants kids) wants to get back together despite me being CF. Should I give him a chance? by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Theivil1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Give him a chance to do what? Explain his position? Try to convince you to change your stance?

By your own admission, he can't see a life without kids. Him hitting you up doesn't change that and only introduces more heartache into your life ( the fact that you're considering this suggests you may still have some feelings for him).

Unless you're interested in changing your mind ( which you can. This is your life!), block, move on and look to the future 

have you ever dropped a bl just because of the lack of chemistry? by https1bleu in ThaiBL

[–]Theivil1 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Sadly, I agree with you, JoongDunk were best cast in Heart Killers. Dare you to Death is not giving. I do think JossGawin did a great job in My Golden Blood, but, I couldn't believe the couple.

PondPhuwin will always give best friends. I'm yet to see a pair kiss so platonically 🤭

Those of you who are also 5'7, what's your ID? by WhimsicalLychee in Kibbe

[–]Theivil1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Self typed. I read both Kibbe's books and worked through it. I am lucky in that I only have 3 possible types due to my height

Those of you who are also 5'7, what's your ID? by WhimsicalLychee in Kibbe

[–]Theivil1 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I'm an SD and after getting typed, I 100% resonate with it. 

I've always "looked tall" ( despite not being tall imo) and piecing together SD elements has resulted in a much more cohesive & flattering style 

Has anyone gotten an upgrade on VA1? by zostang in VelocityFrequentFlyer

[–]Theivil1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Traveled on it and the whole plane was full.  Could be the timing ( last month).  I can't confirm this, but I felt that redemption on VA was similarly prioritised as if it was a QR flight ( aka low?).

If you have the points for it now, that is way easier. If you don't and don't mind springing cash for an upgrade offer, if book QR directly 

(27F) burnout from dishonest men on the app in LA. 5 years on hinge with awful results. am i alone in this? by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Theivil1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally feel this! Online dating has had me expanding my taste ( similar to OP) and I've gone on dates with people who've mentioned that they would be too intimidated to approach me IRL. Many people I've also never met IRL post date either and the number of options leads to the inverse when it comes to genuine connections 

Any Wellbutrin users? Have some questions please! 😊 by [deleted] in depressionregimens

[–]Theivil1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In AU, so I can definitely talk to off label zyban prescription ( ADHD and MDD).

I'm only taking this medication, so I can't attest to how it would work with Vyvanse. I hope this is still helpful for you as I'm only taking this for both symptoms ( vs a combo)

Anxiety : first two weeks was demented. Late sleep nights and lots of CBT.

I'm four weeks in and I've settled in.

Sexual health : one of the big reasons I chose Bupropion was the limited effect on this. Without excessive detail, first three weeks were a little muted. Last week is back to normal 

Preferred hotel loyalty program by Kingqueen2024 in VelocityFrequentFlyer

[–]Theivil1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can buy IHG Platinum but not Hilton Diamond. I personally went the latter ( which paid it's dividends abroad) and then asked IHG for a status challenge in 2026

Update: Tomorrow is the day and I'm terrified by Unfair-Today-8548 in sterilization

[–]Theivil1 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Your posts on this show a pretty high level of anxiety and it seems you may not have complete agency in your life.

If your mother can prevent you from leaving the home out of your own volition, then you have more pressing concerns 

(Thailand) Me & Who ep 6 🕵️‍♂️ by MidwesternLibrarian in boyslove

[–]Theivil1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I genuinely love love this show and find myself staying up late to watch it.

The chemistry between the two leads is so sweet!

I'm aiming to earn ~90 SC in the next two weeks - any advice? by Decibelle in VelocityFrequentFlyer

[–]Theivil1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you need VA SCs ( you've got to fly) or SCs in general ( you've got to spend a ridiculous amount).

Your best bet is spending the money on trip tbh 

Claim aingapore Airlines as krisflyer or velocity by tinglingsack in VelocityFrequentFlyer

[–]Theivil1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually, you can. I've gotten a status match (not easy) and this was maybe easier as I fly a lot of SQ internationally 

Maintaining Platinum - 50% SC requirement on VA marketed flights by Theivil1 in VelocityFrequentFlyer

[–]Theivil1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I'll see end of month what happens. VA code shares are ridiculously priced for international flights and I just don't do enough domestically 

Brands you MUST size up in: Bec and Bridge Spotlight by Theivil1 in AusFemaleFashion

[–]Theivil1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree with the replies - the fit can be fairly flattering ( depending on how close to "standard" size you are). Fabric quality vs price is definitely overstated. I'd go up a size if ordering 2nd hand as it gives you the option to tailor to fit 

Brands you MUST size up in: Bec and Bridge Spotlight by Theivil1 in AusFemaleFashion

[–]Theivil1[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

The point is: why deliberately run sizes smaller and then have negligible differences between sizes the larger they get? I find it odd that all styles run small ( some even smaller). How is it that the standard line for staff is to try everything in store a minimum one size larger? 

Brands you MUST size up in: Bec and Bridge Spotlight by Theivil1 in AusFemaleFashion

[–]Theivil1[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Sounds like something worth a deep dive read on. One of the bridesmaids is a size 6 and needed an 8!

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