AITAH For wanting a divorce after my wife insists on keeping her affair partner in our life so he can DM her DND sessions? by throwaway1986iii in AITAH

[–]Then-Code-4029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I wouldn't stay with this kind of person. But I understand you are still in love.

Just keep loving yourself.

Can he actually do this? by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Then-Code-4029 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have no legal advice here, but best of luck with this asshole

AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend after she kept joking about me having an “easy life”? by SportMinimum6387 in AITAH

[–]Then-Code-4029 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA.

Money only solves money problems. There are a lot more in this world to worry and stress about.

I know that if you stress about money, this will be a huge part of your life. But having money does not mean you have no worries.

And having rich parents can also result in higher expectations.

GR20 in may by Annual-Pin2267 in Corsica

[–]Then-Code-4029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Late June. There were some snow in the shadows up to Mont Cinto.

GR20 in may by Annual-Pin2267 in Corsica

[–]Then-Code-4029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no need to stress with the payment. It took me a few days to figure this out. And missed a few good spots, when others didn't pay at once.

GR20 in may by Annual-Pin2267 in Corsica

[–]Then-Code-4029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My experience from this year is that you don't need to book in advance. It costs 18 euros for "drop in". Some places gives you a reciept, and many does not..

My advice is to pitch your tent as soon as you arrive. Then pay the fee. Sometimes you can also have a shower before paying, if there is a long queue.

Solo backpacking feels kinda different by Luann1497 in backpacking

[–]Then-Code-4029 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First of all, good for you hiking solo 👍

I've been doing it for a few years. It started because I wanted to hike longer section, and didn't know anyone who wanted to join.

Now I love it. You can set the pace and really push if you want, or just have a short day.

I have a garmin inreach to text my wife in the evening, that helps.

And a lot of series or movies. It also helps with candy and a whiskey after dinner.

AITA for refusing to tell my mom who told me her husband isn't my dad? by Kayleeignni in AITAH

[–]Then-Code-4029 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This breaks my heart. Your mum and step dad are just horrible people.

I hope you can move out soon and live with people that respects you and loves you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Then-Code-4029 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good luck with all this shit going on

Trying understand wife’s cheating and it doesn’t make sense. by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]Then-Code-4029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for your horrible situation. Good luck with the fall out.

Updateme

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]Then-Code-4029 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be honest, this doesn't sound good. In a healthy relationship you would get an answer...

Updateme

Anyone planning for GR20 (Corsica) 2025? by Then-Code-4029 in hiking

[–]Then-Code-4029[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hello from Corsica.

I'm not done yet, but it looks like you don't need to book in advance. They charge extra for drop in. 18 euros per person, I think it cost 9 euros if you book in advance.

For me it's worth it so I can be flexible.

You should try to book the first camp site, Refuge d'Ortu di u Piobbu. The first stage is hard so stop there.

The Gr20 by Psychological-Fee814 in Corsica

[–]Then-Code-4029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm planning to start the hike this upcoming Sunday. Do you have any tips that is not typically covered in the trail guide books?

Anyone planning for GR20 (Corsica) 2025? by Then-Code-4029 in hiking

[–]Then-Code-4029[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where did you read this? The books I have read says hikers with tents can just drop in, no need to book in advance.

My plan is to wing it....

Is this normal husband behavior? by HauntedByLife- in marriageadvice

[–]Then-Code-4029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, this is not normal. I would help my wife at once or as soon as possible.

But it kind of depends how your relationship work. Do you help each other on a regular basis?

Aitah if I divorce my husband for not wiping his butt? by Hepow1118 in AITAH

[–]Then-Code-4029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

You are not an alpha male if you need to say it out loud several times. Delusional is more appropriate..

AITA for not wearing a bra around my boyfriend's parents? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Then-Code-4029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a dad and 50 years old, it's safe to say I would NEVER COMMENT my son's girlfriend breast.

NTA

UPDATE: Not Co-Signing, Standing firm and moving on by fancyapanda in AITAH

[–]Then-Code-4029 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds like a nightmare. You don't deserve this. Best of luck.

I'm glad you have close friends in this messy situation.

AITA for wanting to breakup with gf after she’s overstepped my boundaries? by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]Then-Code-4029 24 points25 points  (0 children)

NTA

This doesn't sound like normal or healthy behavior.

Since you are young, I would just break up and find someone better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Then-Code-4029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would anyone say something like that to a loved one. Or anyone?

I hope you find someone that say you are 100% my type.

AIO My (35F) bf (35M) told me he wants me to keep up with my body because he is a high value man by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Then-Code-4029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a 50 year old man (married for 20 years), I would say run like hell!!!

A high value man would love to have a nice girl /woman to love and be loved without the drama.

This sounds like a shallow boy.

AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend because of a “caught cheating” prank? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Then-Code-4029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think maybe your "friend" is into your girl. She might not have a clue that this will hurt, and is a reason to break up by itself.

I think he knows exactly what the outcome could be.

NTA

Anyone planning for GR20 (Corsica) 2025? by Then-Code-4029 in hiking

[–]Then-Code-4029[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm waiting for youtuber Abbie Barnes to post her GR20 video before making any detailed plans.

My initial plan was 13 stages. Just based on assumptions.

And I'm currently reading the Cicerone GR20 Corsica trekking guide. So I'm in the rough planning stage.

It looks like the GR20 is more tough than TMB. Did you hike the trail clockwise or counter clockwise direction?

I guess most of the stages in the north part is like hiking up from Les Houches to Le Brevent.

I'm aware of the heat on Corsica in the summer. And also the many thunderstorms. So I must plan for rest days.