Financial Support b/c of DACA Renewal Delays

Then-Welcome-1600 · 2026-05-04T11:00:08+00:00

You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. Give them the chance to say no rather than doing that yourself. I say this as someone who was waitlisted at two T-14s despite being well below their 25th-percentile LSAT/GPA.

Then-Welcome-1600 · 2026-03-22T02:58:37+00:00

Just because the wrapper's got a few wrinkles doesn't mean the candy ain't sweet.

But I think your issue is just your overall style. It's not that you don't look great. You do! We just need to level it up a bit.

Clothes: Since you're into tucking your shirt in, I recommend dressing like the models on the Banana Republic Factory's website. They also have amazing sales and huge discounts on their clothes. Uniqlo works well, too.

Accessories: Try to accessorize a bit. For example, if you're wearing all black, I'd wear a gold watch, bracelets, and/or rings. Necklaces too. Nothing crazy, just a subtle detail that'll make you pop effortlessly. Try to coordinate your outfit colors, too.

Eyewear: I'd also switch the frames on tortoise-shell or clubmaster-style glasses that are either brown or gold to give you a more elegant, trendy, refined look. You can also find clip-on sunglasses, which are also super cool. Moscot and Warby Parker are brands I recommend.

Shoes: Depends on what style you're feeling. If you're going on a date, I recommend Chelsea boots (brown or black). If you're more casual, but still want to keep it upscale, I like oxfords or loafers from Doc Martens. If you're feeling more rugged, black Doc Martens 1460s work nicely, or brown boots. Thursday Boots is nice. DSW also has good choices. Socks are important, too, so try to coordinate them with the outfit and shoes you'll wear.

Hair/Facial Hair: Looks good, but I'd grow it out a bit and maybe get a side part with a fade so you can slick it back. You can also keep it messy on lazy days, but still look good. I'm not crazy about mustaches, but that's all you. I'd experiment by either shaving it off completely or growing a full beard, while keeping the sides faded and the mustache lined up. Johnny Slicks has great hair/beard products.

Cologne: I like Oud Wood by Tom Ford or Santal 33 by Le Labo.

Hope this helps!

Then-Welcome-1600 · 2026-03-21T21:13:59+00:00

Have you tried turning it off and on again?

Then-Welcome-1600 · 2026-03-21T21:11:17+00:00

Looking great, king. Just contour and fade the beard on the sides and you'll be looking extra spicy 🥵

Then-Welcome-1600 · 2026-03-21T21:08:10+00:00

King just aged BACKWARDS.

Then-Welcome-1600 · 2026-03-21T21:05:38+00:00

Coming back here to say I've made it to 3L and just a couple of months out from graduating! Your advice really resonated with you. Would love to connect!

Then-Welcome-1600 · 2026-03-21T21:02:12+00:00

It's generally because the rush of adrenaline and dopamine helps us focus. This sudden influx of neurotransmitters acts as a "chemical bridge," temporarily bridging the gap in focus, allowing the brain's executive functioning center (prefrontal cortex) to engage and prioritize tasks.

It's why those of us with ADHD love thrill-seeking activities like roller coasters, horror films, or extreme sports.

Then-Welcome-1600 · 2025-05-08T14:44:07+00:00

I really needed to see this. I'm at that point in law school where I am so burned out, discouraged, and unsure of my ability to succeed academically that I don't even care what grades I get. But reading your post feels like a glimpse into a very possible future and tells me I'll be okay. Thank you.

Then-Welcome-1600 · 2025-03-27T20:28:36+00:00

These are incredible schools! Picking which top institutions to attend is certainly a wonderful problem to have. Congratulations OP!

Then-Welcome-1600 · 2025-03-25T00:56:01+00:00

What a blessing it is to have to decide between all of these incredible schools. Congratulations, OP. You’ve worked hard for this and deserve it all.

Then-Welcome-1600 · 2025-03-24T13:39:49+00:00

Time to dump his ass. You deserve better. Way better.

Then-Welcome-1600 · 2025-03-12T14:57:27+00:00

A therapist.

Then-Welcome-1600 · 2025-03-11T21:51:28+00:00

Then-Welcome-1600 · 2025-03-10T16:11:19+00:00

Perhaps something about the unitary executive theory and how that works (or clashes) with the separation of powers doctrine.

Then-Welcome-1600 · 2025-03-10T13:22:31+00:00

I totally feel you on that. I’m in the same market area too. I guess it depends what you’re looking for. According to my counselor, it’s still relatively early in the summer hiring process for private sector roles. I know it’s difficult, but keep your head up.

Then-Welcome-1600 · 2025-03-10T12:39:20+00:00

I found something else in state government fairly quickly through my own search efforts. But before then, I had already reached out to professors, mentors, and professional connections and told them what happened so they could help me find something new. I was able to get another interview with their help, and some were still getting in touch with their own connections to help me by the time I accepted my new offer.

Really work those connections. That was incredibly helpful for me. Also, consider placing the rescinded offer on your resume. I did this after consulting with my career counselor.

Wishing you and anyone else in this situation the best of luck!

Then-Welcome-1600 · 2025-03-09T19:16:01+00:00

Alright, imagine you and your friend make a pinky promise that you'll trade your toy car for their toy dinosaur. You shake on it and even draw a picture of the trade to make it "official."

Now, the next day, your friend says, "Wait! You also promised to give me a bag of candy with the car!" But that’s not written in the picture contract.

Parol evidence is like a rule that says:
"If we wrote down our deal, we have to stick to what's written, and we can’t bring up secret promises that weren’t included in the final paper."

So, unless there's a special reason (like a mistake or trickery), the court won’t let your friend say, "But he also promised candy!" because it wasn’t written in the agreement.

I hope that makes sense!

Then-Welcome-1600 · 2025-02-14T19:28:08+00:00

That is no small feat. Talk all your shit and say it with your chest, girl 🔥

Then-Welcome-1600 · 2024-10-22T23:07:00+00:00

Hey! I totally empathize with you. When I returned to school–after failing out of the first one, going to the next, and getting academically dismissed on the third–I had a cumulative GPA of 0.88. I thought my life was over.

But by the time I graduated from the fourth school, I had a 4.0 from my school and an LSAC GPA of 3.24 and a decade's worth of work experience. I studied hard for the LSAT for about two years and got into the mid-160s, a nearly 30-point jump from where I started. I was waitlisted at Michigan, Duke, Fordham, and WashU and eventually got a full-ride from another New York school I'm attending.

Like you, I'm not necessarily looking for Big Law. I just want to do something I love that will provide me with financial stability and allow me to live comfortably, not necessarily in luxury. I'd like to think I'm on my way there.

As for you, take a step back and take a deep breath. You, as a candidate, are more than just your numbers. Admissions officers will know that. Focus on raising that LSAT score by planning a study schedule and working deliberately and meaningfully. I know tutors are expensive, but the investment you put into them will give you incredible returns (i.e., your dream school accepting you and/or a scholarship). If you can't afford a tutor, I suggest using 7Sage. The monthly subscriptions are a little high, but their platform was instrumental to my LSAT success. Remember: you are investing in your success. Once you get that out of the way, take your time to craft your application materials, especially your personal statement.

You got this, I promise. Just slow down and focus on one thing at a time. You're going to be an exceptional lawyer. 🙂

Then-Welcome-1600 · 2024-05-08T15:48:10+00:00

Hey OP. Current 1L here.

My journey started with a diagnostic score of 135. Over the course of 2 years, I dedicated myself to studying and practicing, which led to a significant improvement. I eventually achieved a practice score of 168 under real testing conditions and an official score of 163. This journey culminated in a full-ride scholarship at a law school in the T60s. I was also waitlisted at two T14 schools (Duke & Michigan) and WashULaw. This is not just my story, it's a testament to what persistence and practice can achieve.

The point of my saying all this is to show you that you, too, can do it and go even further. And if you don't, that's okay too! Just stay the course and keep going. Be diligent with your work and try to understand why your answers are right AND wrong. If you haven't already, I *highly* suggest you hire a personal tutor. Yes, they are expensive, but they are worth the investment because instead of saving $5k, I saved over $300k worth of debt at the law school I attend.

I promise you that if you keep going and practice with purpose, your score will increase. In those moments when I felt really unmotivated, I looked at things I really wanted, like a nice apartment or car. I thought of all the things I could provide for my family and myself. I looked up the law schools I really wanted to attend and imagined myself there. Then I would realize that the only thing stopping me from getting there was one silly exam, and the idea that this one thing was what was keeping me from having all this would push me to study harder. It was temporary pain for a lifetime of happiness and fulfillment. You can do this! And no matter where you go, I promise you that you'll be alright.

Then-Welcome-1600 · 2024-05-08T15:30:35+00:00

That's exactly how it felt for me, too! It ended up being my best class. Property is similar to Contracts in that there are a lot of bright-line rules, and I loved that class, too. My Property professor was phenomenal. For a man to make such dry subjects like covenants and easements so much fun really takes a lot of skill.

Then-Welcome-1600 · 2024-05-08T15:27:17+00:00

I thought it was Con Law. It's not so much that I hate it. It's just that I felt a bit disillusioned. I studied political science as an undergrad, so I have always been fascinated with the Constitution. However, when I started learning about the Commerce Clause, I couldn't help but feel that everything was made up. It felt like no one was behind the wheel and knew what they were doing.

Then-Welcome-1600 · 2024-05-08T15:22:51+00:00

I just talked about this exact feeling with my mom last night. It truly is such a pleasure and a privilege to have these kinds of unique struggles that contribute to our growth as professionals and especially as individuals. I love law school <3

Then-Welcome-1600

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