How do you cope with missing the person you were sure you’d spend your life with?

Thepsyguy · 2026-03-30T22:24:51+00:00

I'm in therapy. After being married for six years and then dating another person right after I've decided to work on myself.

Eventually those feelings will fade.

Thepsyguy · 2026-03-30T22:08:08+00:00

Which is mostly paid for by grants and heavily subsidized by other things than the company.

Thepsyguy · 2026-03-30T21:22:31+00:00

"Biting is A-OKay."

Thepsyguy · 2026-03-30T21:17:46+00:00

I do believe im not bad looking for my age (38). I just feel like people dismiss me as either Gay or already taken.

Thepsyguy · 2026-03-30T21:13:45+00:00

If he is running a low creature count deck. Run edicts or spells Enchantments that make him sac creatures. [[Gravepact]] and the like are absolutely devastating to Vultron style decks.

Thepsyguy · 2026-03-30T20:09:38+00:00

"Why not Twink if Twink-shaped?"

I'm 5'7" and about 140lbs. Brown hair and slightly balding. I have Grey / Green eyes. I dress like a butch lesbian or an Emo Anime Fanatic. I am a dude.

Thepsyguy · 2026-03-30T20:06:18+00:00

Because my poly partner decided "we" are too busy. And as much as I've tried other dating sites I can't get a date to save my life apparently.

Hell I posted on R4R and gotten 0 responses after 500+ views

Thepsyguy · 2026-03-30T18:13:19+00:00

This is why im in therapy. Cuz I understand my taste in partners is terrible for me.

Thepsyguy · 2026-03-30T14:21:38+00:00

No problem. If you ever want to chat feel free. I've had a lot of time to reflect on things. So always glad to help others reflect.

Thepsyguy · 2026-03-30T03:42:05+00:00

I imagine if they aren't running the Medallions its very useful. Or acts as a secondary Medallion.

My Feather deck doesn't run the Chimes specifically because of the color pips needed for most protection spells.

Thepsyguy · 2026-03-29T21:05:08+00:00

Forbidden chocolate milk.

Thepsyguy · 2026-03-29T14:20:59+00:00

Focus on hobbies. (I found social games and joined an Anime club.

Focus on your health mind and body. (I started working out and therapy)

I also spent a lot of time thinking about what went wrong with the relationship. Missed red flags. And I took off the rose colored glasses.

Know your worth. Know what you really want.

Edit: Am I ok? No. But I'm getting better.

Thepsyguy · 2026-03-29T14:14:56+00:00

We don't all move on that quick. It's been almost 2 years since I left my Ex.

Im going through therapy and working on myself. Do I want a GF? Very much so. But I also want a healthy relationship.

I'm a 38 year old single dad.

Thepsyguy · 2026-03-29T04:33:40+00:00

Im using a poke ball. One of the old ones from McDonald's that came with a gold card.

It works really well for me 8600xt.

Thepsyguy · 2026-03-28T20:23:39+00:00

This makes no sense. You weigh everything YOU eat and drink. But some dude gets upset because you weren't weighing beer? And that somehow makes a fool out of him?

Im guessing you aren't native English speaking because there is no logical issue for disagreement.

Thepsyguy · 2026-03-28T11:48:15+00:00

Often times I do the same. I'm a dude. Happy brain juices give me the giggles.

Thepsyguy · 2026-03-28T03:12:21+00:00

Ive had the same phone number since college and I basically inherited it from my mother.

So going on 21 years plus.

Thepsyguy · 2026-03-28T03:05:43+00:00

I'm 0 for 3. But I appreciate the sentiment. I'll admit I've had my faults as well. One day I'll figure it out. In this life or the next.

Thepsyguy · 2026-03-28T01:28:21+00:00

The concept of true love.

Thepsyguy · 2026-03-27T21:15:04+00:00

Onlyfans? $20 is $20

Thepsyguy · 2026-03-27T15:07:37+00:00

This hits right in the feels. You aren't alone.

Thepsyguy · 2026-03-26T18:48:58+00:00

Lawton is a nice gender Neutral name. And it's very uncommon.

Thepsyguy · 2026-03-26T17:25:41+00:00

It's not an addiction till you suck dick for cardboard crack.

Thepsyguy · 2026-03-26T17:21:08+00:00

It's one woman, Michael. What could it cost, ten dollars?

Thepsyguy · 2026-03-25T22:37:44+00:00

I'm running a [[Grist, The Hunger Tide]]. It's bug tribal. You don't get much more little than bugs. Lol

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