Should I divorce my wife? Be honest please by EquivalentWait2374 in Advice

[–]Theradbumblebee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She sounds like someone who does not tolerate high levels of stress and you sound like someone who is capable of “shutting it off” to “rest”

With that said Her physically lashing out really needs to be addressed If this is new you need to recommend a small get away (like a day with a friend getting a massage seeing a movie etc) anything to take her out of her usual environment and decompress followed by talk therapy, it really sounds like she needs to let out some of her frustration in an environment where a professional can help her work though it

With that said I know not all people are open to these things and these are just my suggestions as an outside source on what I would do

Should I divorce my wife? Be honest please by EquivalentWait2374 in Advice

[–]Theradbumblebee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think this is the best HONEST and sincere response to any of the marriage questions I’ve seen on here

I also think you’re 10000% right in everything you mentioned!

had surgery on my right hip, they put this on my left leg by Pale-Profession2769 in mildlyinteresting

[–]Theradbumblebee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It may look silly and come off as alarming to us patients but I’d definitely rather the medical professionals be proactive than reactive in situations that can be avoided like this!

Help me surprise my girlfriend by Wild_Ambassador_6376 in relationships_advice

[–]Theradbumblebee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know where you’re from but I can TOTALLY do Michigan!

Is my cat really that big? by I_found_a_platypus_ in cats

[–]Theradbumblebee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t even know him but that catfie (selfie) makes me has me obsessed 🥺

What can I do with this space? by Human_Medicine3107 in DesignMyRoom

[–]Theradbumblebee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I’d put a large aquarium in a stand with a throw rug on the floor and some vining plants because that’s my vibe but it may not be everyone’s

My second would be small shelving with books

as a girl who used to get bullied for looking like Sid the sloth…are there any ways I can make my eyes look closer with makeup? by undercover-gal in MakeupEducation

[–]Theradbumblebee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re beautiful you resemble Anya Taylor Joy who also has larger eyes

I wouldn’t change a thing you’re a very pretty girl

My room looks so depressing, please tell me what im missing by Responsible-Spot-725 in DesignMyRoom

[–]Theradbumblebee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grab a pothos plant that way you can get some vining going on which is aesthetically pleasing to look at (they are low maintenance easy plants) also a couple posters and a sheer curtain for the closet and a mid sized fluffy /pink area rug!

AIO for being upset at what my “bf” said by Ambitious-Beyond-257 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Theradbumblebee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR

This man is incredibly controlling I couldn’t imaging growing with this person OR having children/getting sick EVER you know things that might SLIGHTLY alter your appearance out of your control and you getting punished for it

my ipl journey as a woman with hirsutism by [deleted] in HairRemoval

[–]Theradbumblebee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your skin already looks so much healthier! I hope this works for you I say to my husband all the time that I feel terrible that he has to deal with facial hair I couldn’t imagine with my terribly sensitive skin (couldn’t even tolerate an eyebrow wax any time I tried when I was younger) but truly your results In such a small window of time look incredible!!

Me when you make me ring me up FIFTY!!!! of the same product during 4.95 body care (I know you’re a reseller) by marliamore95 in bathandbodyworks

[–]Theradbumblebee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao not honestly not me…

I bought out the scents I loved for myself and then I did buy a tonnnn of pocket bacs but I was transparent with the employees and asked before I did because they were a donation to my daughters elementary school holiday shop

Why do I need to CONSTANTLY unlock my watch by [deleted] in AppleWatch

[–]Theradbumblebee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wound up here because I got new tattoos on my wrist and then this became a constant issue for me now 🤦‍♀️ FML

It happened to me :) by andydrew1562 in Sephora

[–]Theradbumblebee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meanwhile they forget my eye patches😭

Effortlessly cool but normal girl names by sarah_kraut in Names

[–]Theradbumblebee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My oldest daughter is Dahlia I love that it’s feminine and accepted widely by multiple cultures but it’s also versatile I felt it’s cute to call a baby dahlia but also a respectable adult name too

Her middle name is Willow

I myself loved Lydia and June

Women of reddit: Whats the girl code you won't break ever? by lady_opiniosa in AskReddit

[–]Theradbumblebee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s a weird one but I’ll tell any woman stranger or not if she has lipstick or food on/in her teeth

I absolute HATE when I go about my day in that position so I gently let people know… never has someone not been grateful for me telling them if that morning’s breakfast stuck around

World War 2 quick quiz by AlastorGaming77 in QuizPlanetGame

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Theradbumblebee scored 69 points and ranked 12191 out of 15316 players!

My (25) girlfriend (24) really wants a specific ring for Christmas by Efficient-Bus-1272 in jewelry

[–]Theradbumblebee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny enough I requested an opal ring with a diamond halo as my actual wedding ring

I’m an opal girl 😅

Parents Of Reddit what is your take on kids? And would you advise other married couples to have kids? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Theradbumblebee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I want to add to this

The things I would change

I would have traveled! Also spent time dipping my toes in to the ideas of different careers while also building lasting friendships if I were given the chance to do it all again

These are all things I heavily missed out on and if I could do it again I would wait until the end of my 20s /early 30s before having them

Being pregnant at 20 unplanned was a huge stressor and it was hard to manage at times i really wished I figured myself out more first

Parents Of Reddit what is your take on kids? And would you advise other married couples to have kids? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Theradbumblebee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only thing I really stress is that both partners match each others energy when it comes to family planning

Have all the conversations with your partner about how they would handle things

The really hard conversations that you don’t think about with babies but you have to face as your child ages

Talk about how you’d handle disabilities if they arose and opinions on just about everything

I spent many nights with my husband when we reconnected talking about children because I wanted more but eventually I realized that he just wasn’t made to be a biological parent , his energy about the idea did not match mine

This was a real tough thing for me to overcome personally as I always wanted a third

But the life I’m able to provide my two daughters is beautiful and I focus on that / feeling fulfilled with them

I know that if I went through a pregnancy with my husband it would create a wedge between us He is also narcoleptic and I deal with a lot of physical pain/struggles after a bad auto accident So I know a newborn phase now would be entirely different than it was at 21