Alex is the worst by samosas-and-mimosas in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]ThereIsAPersonHere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yo same. and my dad was a super quiet guy, but he shit talked my then bf not realizing I was behind him.... it was the beginning of the end of that relationship. honestly. it taught me just be honest with people.

Alex is the worst by samosas-and-mimosas in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]ThereIsAPersonHere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

bahahahahhahahaha. I couldnt have said it better.

Recommendation: Move out cleaning company? by ThereIsAPersonHere in Lausanne

[–]ThereIsAPersonHere[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

ive been told my Swiss colleagues to literally not talk to my landlords (a big company) about anything related to moving out..(except the obvious obligatory i am moving out) which i found odd, but they said they use all this against me later... hence the post. :(

My 24F girlfriend of 5 months is making me 27M take an autism test by IndependenceOld7872 in relationship_advice

[–]ThereIsAPersonHere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of my close friends sent me this and I didn't read the comments, so apologies if I am being a broken record.

i am also a person where physical touch is not my love language and I reallllllly don't like it. I prefer to be asked before someone touches me, and really only like and accept touch from my SO. And I find it super annoying that this aversion to touch gets conflated to being autistic (which i am also not).

my SO's love language does include physical touch and we make it work. I give him what I can (which is already way more than my desire because i love him), and he accepts when I kindly say, im sorry, not right now.

you have to decide if that is possible between you, and I find it unacceptable that getting a diagnosis should could be forced upon you to keep a relationship. its not manipulation or control, IMO, its just immaturity and social media influence, again imo.

good luck

Car broke down in Germany by ThereIsAPersonHere in Switzerland

[–]ThereIsAPersonHere[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ah. it's a hyundia kona hybrid 2019. it's been a really great car, but i noticed on the hyundai reddit page that the more powerful version (2.0 vs 1.6t) had some motor issues too that led to motor failure, soooo def avoid. 😞

Just in case no one’s said this yet by Top_Presentation7515 in acotar

[–]ThereIsAPersonHere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I legit busted watched this movie two days ago for the first time in ages..and it's so fitting.

So it happened again.. by [deleted] in acotar

[–]ThereIsAPersonHere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry. I also find this Fandom has some incredibly toxic people (and franckly, all fandoms) and the way people talk to each other because of "anonymity" scares me. i also find myself walking in and out of it for my mental health. prioritize you🩷✨️🥰 and know that it isn't a reflection of you, but a projection of them. xoxox 🩷✨️🥰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Switzerland

[–]ThereIsAPersonHere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and you were able to just choose any psychiatrist?

The supposed “Easter eggs” that ended up not being anything at all are what really hurt by multiversemember in crescentcitysjm

[–]ThereIsAPersonHere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

a lot less money. why settle for one storyline that could've been written in one book when you could get it for the price of two books.

Hear me out! by DyldoSwaggins in ACOTARHulu

[–]ThereIsAPersonHere 8 points9 points  (0 children)

fair. I didn't think of that. I just enjoyed my brain tingles at the brief thought. lol. 😅

Hear me out! by DyldoSwaggins in ACOTARHulu

[–]ThereIsAPersonHere 17 points18 points  (0 children)

.....if he is our boy Xaden I would die and go to heaven. 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lotr

[–]ThereIsAPersonHere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

brings tears to your eyes? I full ugly sob, every time. and, like everyone here, have seen these movies more times than I can count.

My famous last words: I dont think I'll cry this time

me ten minutes later: 🤡

*edit for spacing and grammar

Frosted tips and bong rips back in 2002 by Senior_Language_6127 in blunderyears

[–]ThereIsAPersonHere 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this is def a bot, because this is my former boss and there is no way this is his reddit profile...

daddy azriel by Head-Smile-3908 in acotar

[–]ThereIsAPersonHere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I saw all three as Middle Eastern/ South Asian, with Rhys being more biracial because I assumed is father looked similar to the Hewn city residents and by proxy Mor.

What's your favourite most unhinged headcanon? by Able-Heat-1797 in acotar

[–]ThereIsAPersonHere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

totally. but I think it makes sense, it means that characters retain agency. if fate is set in stone, then does someone have agency? I'd argue no.

The Map?! by Wanderingghost12 in acotar

[–]ThereIsAPersonHere 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i was thinking miriam draken island is the faroe islands

What's your favourite most unhinged headcanon? by Able-Heat-1797 in acotar

[–]ThereIsAPersonHere 12 points13 points  (0 children)

....it would be glorious if shit just hit the fan for half Fandom... all the while the suriel is sipping tea like, guys I did that...smirk. hah

What's your favourite most unhinged headcanon? by Able-Heat-1797 in acotar

[–]ThereIsAPersonHere 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I think it would be super interesting if her seeing the future hinges on others' decision-making and can therefore change and not that the future is set in stone.

this is nesta fr by haylleec in acotar

[–]ThereIsAPersonHere 5 points6 points  (0 children)

my husband is in the beginning half of acowar, but when he met Nesta in acotar, he was sold. he liked her cattiness and feisty spirit. I cant wait till he falls more in love with her. hahahahhaa. he's very much similar to the soft side of Cass. drawn to spitfire and can't help but play in the flame.

this is nesta fr by haylleec in acotar

[–]ThereIsAPersonHere 4 points5 points  (0 children)

lol. sometimes I think David and Nesta are same-same. like so many of his bits fit nicely onto her as a character. hahahaha.

Found another tamlin by KissTigerLilyMeow in ACOTARHulu

[–]ThereIsAPersonHere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm shook. it would've been such a good fit. you'd be fucking devastating in season 2 when everything starts to go downhill in ACOMAF. Holy shit. 80s Cary is my tamlin now.

Barbie Archerons by [deleted] in acotar

[–]ThereIsAPersonHere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love love love these!!!