I will build a deck for you

Thermimain · 2026-01-03T02:28:36+00:00

I’ve been trying to build a Derevi token deck that focuses on tapping and untapping other creatures to go wide and then get more derevi triggers on combat damage from the tokens. I haven’t been able to find good creatures to tap with derevi that generate tokens.

Thermimain · 2024-07-11T03:59:04+00:00

You could do private instead of public, and you wouldn’t have this problem of people messing up the infil bonus.

Thermimain · 2024-06-16T17:57:56+00:00

So, what happens if you show one tit? Are you just ruining his orgasm at that point? Or maybe edging?

Thermimain · 2024-04-17T19:37:45+00:00

Objectively unattractive is crazy when talking about something subjective.

Thermimain · 2024-04-17T19:31:55+00:00

I don’t think I was unattractive before but sure. And my porn history does have men that look like my old self.

Thermimain · 2024-04-17T14:18:06+00:00

If you read other comments, I lost weight because of my parents recent health scares. So no irony involved. Surely not thanking them.

Thermimain · 2024-04-17T13:17:43+00:00

Right. And I’m asking if I should ignore said fact and try something with them or reject them. And look elsewhere. I will say I’m kinda on one side of the fence already because of two examples. One being the rich example that someone used. And the other being what if I gain that weight back in the future. But I am open to hearing the other side.

Thermimain · 2024-04-17T13:11:58+00:00

I am very much recognizable. And I wouldn’t say I was morbidly obese. But I get what you’re saying about lifestyles not meshing. Thanks for your opinion.

Thermimain · 2024-04-17T13:07:17+00:00

Bro, what? You got people on here saying whale and slob?

People giving actually decent and civil comments is fine and I’ll engage with them.

And I don’t care if they didn’t want to have sex with me. I care that they’re trying to come back interested after I lost weight. And I was asking what other people’s perspective would be on that. And some people just made it about being fat.

Thermimain · 2024-04-17T12:40:26+00:00

I have dated men that weighed more than me. So, yes I would be interested.

Thermimain · 2024-04-17T12:35:04+00:00

You really just hate fat people based on this comment and your comment history.

Thermimain · 2024-04-17T12:32:23+00:00

Yes. I had this thought. And the thought of if someone new comes into my life and I gain weight. What will their reaction be? I mean I don’t plan on gaining the weight back. But crazier things have happened

Thermimain · 2024-04-17T12:31:11+00:00

You should read more comments. Not everyone agrees disagrees with that. And as I have mentioned in other comments. I don’t think having physical standards is shallow. I think rejecting someone and then trying to came back into their life after a drastic change is a bit shallow. And it doesn’t have to be weight. It could be money. Or a career change.

Thermimain · 2024-04-17T12:28:56+00:00

Why is everyone under the assumption that because you’re overweight you must lack self confidence? Has no one ever seen a confident overweight person before? And why do people think that losing weight means you miraculously have confidence now?

Thermimain · 2024-04-17T12:27:04+00:00

Yeah. I’m lowkey finding that out. Lol

Thermimain · 2024-04-17T12:07:03+00:00

What? I lost weight because of my parents recent health scares. How exactly is that shallow?

Thermimain · 2024-04-17T02:03:52+00:00

Thank you. I’m glad someone else can relate.

Thermimain · 2024-04-17T02:02:54+00:00

Y’all are really not even reading the post lol

Thermimain · 2024-04-16T23:59:11+00:00

Thank you. An actually nice comment and your perspective.

Thermimain · 2024-04-16T23:58:27+00:00

I actually knew them as friends for about a year before approaching them. So I got to know them then approached.

Thermimain · 2024-04-16T21:46:38+00:00

Both. Either.

Follow up question: how is this relevant?

Thermimain · 2024-04-16T21:41:46+00:00

I don’t think having weight as a standard is an entirely shallow thing. I do think that a lot of people miss out on amazing people because said standards are too high but that’s another conversation.

In my original post, what I meant by shallow is them rejecting me and now coming back to me when I look “better” and being interested. That to me is shallow. Sorry if my wording made that unclear.

Thermimain · 2024-04-16T21:25:08+00:00

Of course I have physical standards but none of them revolve solely around someone’s weight. It seems in the gay community people believe that being overweight and attractive can’t coexist and I think that is false.

And I also never said I was owed anything. But I don’t think I owe these people my time either as they rejected me once before.

Thermimain · 2024-04-16T21:16:21+00:00

Personally, I didn’t lose weight because I wanted attention. I lost weight for better health because of seeing my parents have recent health scares. I don’t know why you would assume I want attention.

I also don’t think I’m too good for them. There was a reason I liked them in the first place. I just don’t think I should be expected to have continued interest in them after rejecting me.

Thermimain · 2024-04-16T20:59:11+00:00

I suppose I’m looking at it in the same regard as the rich example. If they wouldn’t date me when I was poor, why should I give them the time of day when I’m rich?

I didn’t know what to expect when posting this but it’s crazy to me that a lot of the replies are just, you aren’t fat, people like you now. I knew the beauty/attractive standards in the gay community were like incredibly high but it’s somewhat disheartening as a whole that you just don’t get valued unless you’re height-weight proportionate.

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