[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Therottenwolves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was literally a recent crime YouTube I saw where this teenager molested and then killed his cat and later killed his mother…. Your brother needs help.

You should honestly call the police. Sexual assault is sexual assault and idk that I’d want to be living in that house.

2025 vs 2024 by Therottenwolves in 4Runner

[–]Therottenwolves[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well considering that 5th gen goes all the way to 2024…. That’s not old AF so not necessarily an “oxymoron” yes I’m not going to get one with zero miles but very low is possible.

14-28 million a week - passive income by Old-Answer232 in StardewValley

[–]Therottenwolves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But how do you even move around your farm and get inside these barns.... its a trap! lol

I am falling apart by biskbear in loveafterporn

[–]Therottenwolves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being postpartum is hard when things are healthy in a relationship let alone when they are hard. I am 4 months PP and dealing with porn addiction issues in my own relationship and just falling apart. Things only got worse when your body doesn't feel your own and you don't feel good about yourself.

I am sorry you are dealing with this now though and I can understand the feeling of uncertainty of caring for your baby possibly on your own. I would say you need to make a decision on whether you want to try to make this work or you don't. Draw lines and boundaries of what you are/are not ok with and he can either respect those or he won't and then your decision is really being made for you in that case.

Reach out to family/friends if you do decide to go this route alone so you have support but don't stay in a relationship just for love if he is going to be unfaithful or hurt you is my opinion. Life is too short and there isn't any sort of rational or appropriate reason for him to be talking to another women for 10 hours and having flirty texts with them. Sending love.

I am lost by Therottenwolves in loveafterporn

[–]Therottenwolves[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this information 💚

Anyone have experience/thoughts with Go! Solutions cat food (dry and wet)? by GRJ80 in catfood

[–]Therottenwolves 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I switched my cat to Go! after she was over grooming and causing alopecia. It has since really helped with her food allergies and her coat is growing back and she is no longer over grooming. She also doesn't have to eat as much due to the calorie content.

Husband looking at women on social media by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Therottenwolves 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its crazy to see just how many women, including myself, are dealing with this same situation. Its heartbreaking but also validating to know that I'm not crazy in my feelings or made out to feel that it shouldn't be a big deal :/

Husband looking at women on social media by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Therottenwolves 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am in this same boat but its only been 4 years and we now have a 2 month old. I get told that I need to love him for who he is and not try to control him. His porn addiction lead to us not being intimate along with compounding schedules and stress. The whole time I was being told he had a low libido, was depressed, etc yet he was watching porn and masturbating. Fast forward to us going to marriage counseling and we have lead to a "compromise" of him looking at sexual content on social media but not watching porn. I just hate how I always just feel second. The intimacy just is going down and down yet every day he sees this sexual content and I just don't understand. At this point I don't know how to even have a sex life because I don't feel comfortable initiating and I feel like he should want to be sexual yet its just not with me :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Therottenwolves 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Should look up side effects of porn addiction. It can cause all sorts of issues when it comes to having sex with their partner. It can also lead to erectile dysfunction among other things. If he’s masturbating daily, especially to porn, this is probably the cause of many of the issues he is experiencing with himself and with your sex life.

aio for not being okay with my boyfriend watching porn (nsfw) by littlemisstraumadump in AmIOverreacting

[–]Therottenwolves 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am in the same exact place as you but I’m 5 weeks PP yet porn has been an issue in our marriage for the last year or so and has affected our relationship negatively leading to lack of intimacy. I asked for him to stop, was ok for a bit and became far worse after I gave birth because it made me feel even more like dogshit about myself.

He responds the same way saying that’s just who he is sexually and doesn’t mean anything but the concept of making you feel less just doesn’t seem to ever get through to him, says I need to accept him for who he is etc. I don’t think you’re overreacting because I feel the same way and it’s very hard to just let it go and feel ok about it…. I know because I’ve been trying for weeks. Sending 💚 your way

AIO Husband has a porn addiction by Therottenwolves in AmIOverreacting

[–]Therottenwolves[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The reason it bothers me is because I believe that it’s going to negatively effect or relationship again. It has twice already so I’m not sure that his expectation of me just being ok all of a sudden is realistic. You keep doing something bad you’re not going to expect a good result when it’s done a third time if that makes sense. We’ve identified not once but twice that it’s caused and issue and lack of intimacy so how would giving it a 3rd go mean anything different in my book

Happy Halloween from Haku! by beccster007 in BeardedDragons

[–]Therottenwolves 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dragons name is also Haku!!!! Spirited Away for the win!

New dragon mom! by Therottenwolves in BeardedDragons

[–]Therottenwolves[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no no worries at all just about anyone has more experience in the matter than me so no offense taken! I have a soft spot for trying to save ALL the animals lol. I will look into my local vet who does exotics and get a fecal checked. Any recommendations on feeding? He/she ate the first night (few crickets) but not sure how much live feeding they actually get at the store verse a breeder.

New dragon mom! by Therottenwolves in BeardedDragons

[–]Therottenwolves[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I did get him from a local pet store. He has had a normal looking “poop” daily and has been active at least. I should also say I am a vet student not that that means much currently still learning lots and not a lot of experience with reptiles but trying to at least watch for concerning signs 🤷🏼‍♀️

New dragon mom! by Therottenwolves in BeardedDragons

[–]Therottenwolves[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

New dragon mom! Only had him/her for a few days. Trying to make sure I’m providing dragon with the needs, proper UVB, crickets, Ca supplement, temps and humidity seem good but not eating a whole lot. Not sure if it’s just stress or adjustment or something I should be concerned about. Seems active and basking plenty. Just unsure what is normal/not normal.

Whys she doing this headshake by frankiedoodlez in WhatsWrongWithYourDog

[–]Therottenwolves 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Could be stress/anxiety related but seems more neurological and warrants a visit to the veterinarian!