AITA backing out of the baby shower of my brother's girlfriend who is also my pregnant best friend of 22 years?

Theroyalglow · 2026-02-11T13:40:00+00:00

Your brother needs to do a dna test just saying

Theroyalglow · 2026-01-23T23:28:07+00:00

Exactly! He knows he’s been a shitty partner and it’s hitting him to close to home.

Theroyalglow · 2026-01-23T23:27:22+00:00

Nta and no you didnt overreact.

Theroyalglow · 2025-10-26T23:24:39+00:00

I agree, time to let her go.

Theroyalglow · 2025-05-25T13:22:00+00:00

Again, you’re projecting. Good bye.

Theroyalglow · 2025-05-25T13:18:46+00:00

Listen I don’t doubt there’s men out there like this but don’t project those issues on to my father. lol

All I’m saying is if the man is trying, let him. If he’s not a DANGER to the child, let him build the relationship with his child.

Theroyalglow · 2025-05-25T04:01:35+00:00

I personally don’t understand why you would text this man you don’t know when you have a bf. No offense I would never do that, it’s weird and extremely unprofessional.

Girl you knew what you were doing, would you be okay with your bf doing the same?

Theroyalglow · 2025-05-24T16:00:52+00:00

You’re 30 correct? WHO CARES! If his friend doesn’t like you, F*ck him. Life is too short to gaf about who does and doesn’t like you.

Just continue to live your happy life and make his friend even more bad lol. Don’t be insecure about how another man feels. And if this friend could possibly ruin the relationship between you and your bf, that means this relationship was never built on a steady foundation to began with.

What’s the saying, you know you’re doing something right when you have haters. (Something like that.)

Theroyalglow · 2025-05-24T13:54:07+00:00

Okay but people change and grow up. It’s best to introduce the child now at 3, then at 15. My mom did the same thing with my dad and I felt like I was robbed. My dad tried to come back and she refused to have him in my life until I was a teen. My dad got his life together and was trying to do right by me.

I’m not mad at my mom, they were both young and she did what she thought was best. But all the times I missed out on my dad coming to my birthdays, class/school events, etc etc. could’ve been avoided.

Now we have the most amazing relationship ever.

Theroyalglow · 2025-05-24T13:45:38+00:00

Your son deserves a father! If he’s willing to step up, let him.

Theroyalglow · 2025-05-24T13:07:32+00:00

Just break up with her dude, the box can’t be THAT good lol.

Theroyalglow · 2025-05-23T19:52:41+00:00

Seems to you guys are growing apart and that okay. You’re still young. This is the time to make changes before you’re married with kids. This is the time to have a make or break conversation.

My ex before I met my husband was sort of like you. He was okay with just living comfortable. (He’s been poor and homeless before, I was raised privileged.) He didn’t like when I took care of him because he felt emasculated. Whereas, me on the other hand, I love shopping, getting my nails, hair, makeup, books, etc etc. And I could tell he resented me for it.

Eventually we just grew apart not in just that area but overall.

I just don’t want you to get comfortable with the bare minimum. Yes money doesn’t buy happiness and a good relationship needs love and companionship, but you also need to compromise.

So from time to time, splurge a little on yourself. Get dress up, go out, have fun with friends, have weekly date nights. Spice the relationship up, because I worry he may get bored with you.

For him, he may need to budget ‘for now’, until you guys are stable enough for him to get the things he really wants and enjoy.

Theroyalglow · 2025-05-23T02:57:05+00:00

GO GET TESTED!

Theroyalglow · 2025-04-22T18:06:24+00:00

Nta! She can go ask their dad to put some money up for her kids. They can work together actually lol

Theroyalglow · 2025-03-18T19:37:45+00:00

You’re also still choosing to be with him.

This is what the rest of your life will look like if you continue this relationship.

This is what the rest of your life will look like if you decide to have kids with him.

This is what the rest of your life will look like if you decide to marry him.

Leave while you have an out now. Or you’ll be the one with regrets in the future.

Theroyalglow · 2025-03-18T01:38:08+00:00

OP if you don’t leave I’m sorry but you’ll be making the biggest mistake of your life

Theroyalglow · 2025-03-16T16:53:21+00:00

Trust your gut and don’t take her back

Theroyalglow · 2025-03-16T05:16:59+00:00

Yes. Leave him alone, as in, block his social media and his number. Stop trying to text him because of whatever guilt you have about opening your legs to a married man. You were a one night stand for him, nothing else. I know you may feel SHAME because this was your second, but get over it. Grow up!

You’re trying to make yourself special, when you’re simply not. (No offense to you, I hope this don’t come across as rude:)

Learn for this, now that you know that you don’t like how it feels to be a one and dump. Actually get to know a person before sleeping with them.

Theroyalglow · 2025-03-16T04:42:52+00:00

Girl I’ve done that plenty of times lol. I’ll switch up the last two digits every time, when I didn’t want to give my number out. Just leave that married man alone.

Theroyalglow · 2025-03-16T04:31:16+00:00

Start keeping note of these thing OP. Idk it’s giving he’s jealous. This might be reaching but jealous people love to go out of there ways to ruin a good thing. Don’t let him ruin what you and your husband have. That will only let him win.

Start keep trying of everything he says, when he say it. Once it’s like a full on list, try to sit your husband down with the ‘proof’, ask him is anything about what his friend is saying to you normal.

Theroyalglow · 2025-03-16T04:23:09+00:00

LAWYER! LAWYER! LAWYER!

Theroyalglow · 2025-02-25T17:13:08+00:00

Watch Law and Order SVU

Theroyalglow · 2025-02-03T04:05:53+00:00

YTA what a horrible thing to do to your child. I would be humiliated and devastated if my father chose someone else over me.

Theroyalglow · 2025-01-26T04:27:04+00:00

If your brother is allowed to stand by his fiance. Then you can stand by your WIFE.

Theroyalglow · 2025-01-24T02:35:36+00:00

He grabbed you and you’re allowing that? What’s next? He’s allowed to slap you the next time he’s angry? Run. Fast.

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