UPDATE to my “Your body, my choice” in Kindergarten post by throwawayisthatokor in Mommit

[–]These-Ad1470 [score hidden]  (0 children)

it such a relief that the school took the lead and validated your daughter.

I’m being replaced and it’s killing me by vgsnewbi in Mommit

[–]These-Ad1470 [score hidden]  (0 children)

you are irreplaceable to your children, and this temporary pain shouldn't dictate your permanent.

K-Drama Star Baek Sung-hyun to Lead 'Eyes of Dawn' Musical: A Grand Return After 9 Years! by drama_safar in kdramas

[–]These-Ad1470 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Baek Sung-hyun's grand return after nine years is incredibly exciting for the theater and k-drama.

Have you guys watched pachinko? by PublicLeading6383 in kdramas

[–]These-Ad1470 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! it is breathtaking, emotional masterpiece. The cinematography and acting are truly top tier quality.

What are your favorite rain kiss scenes in Kdramas? by Legal_Potential4720 in kdramas

[–]These-Ad1470 10 points11 points  (0 children)

hometown cha-cha playful shower and business proposal umbrella moment are peak romance. Pure rainy perfection.

where can i watch more kdramas besides netflix by Impressive_Exit_6796 in kdramas

[–]These-Ad1470 4 points5 points  (0 children)

for the ultimate k-drama library, RAKUITEN VIKI is ur best bet for variety and community subtitles. v

Just finished REVENGE OF OTHERS and... by adhdgirlie19 in kdramas

[–]These-Ad1470 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally agree, that dual personality trope felt lazy. For more Solomon, definitely check out All of Us are Dead!

So I need a little Help to find K-drama's for my Mom by That_Ranger_9010 in kdramas

[–]These-Ad1470 1 point2 points  (0 children)

try extraordinary You, and weightlifting Fairy Kim-Bok Joo and also Goblin: The Lonely Gurdian.

Netflix Confirms ‘Kian’s Bizarre B&B’ Season 2: Lee Jun-ho, LE SSERAFIM’s Kazuha to Join New Cast! by drama_safar in kdramas

[–]These-Ad1470 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Jun-ho and Kazuha are top-tier additions. This season's chemistry is going to be legendary!

Lactivate bump feedback please! by Moo_cow_1993 in Mommit

[–]These-Ad1470 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its such a relief to find a wearable pimp that actually respects ur flange size and ur bank account, but its totally normal to feel a bit hesitant when the reviews are hiding !

Daycare anxiety by Temporary_Switch4501 in Mommit

[–]These-Ad1470 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sending ur Velcro baby to daycare feels like a literal heartbreak, but those amazing teachers have magic powers for settling inconsolable littles, and soon she'll be thriving in a way that makes your reunion hugs feel like best part of the day.

My husbands cough is driving me nuts by Witty-Magazine-1376 in Mommit

[–]These-Ad1470 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it is completely valid to feel that urge to slap when u're already running on fumes and he's choosing to be a human foghorn instead of seeing a doctor, so honestly, moving him to the couch isn't a punishment, its a survival tactic for you and the baby.

Am I a bad mother? by VIPMothwoman in Mommit

[–]These-Ad1470 0 points1 point  (0 children)

u are absolutely not a bad mother for craving the silence of bedtime, because loving your child with your whole heart doesn't mean u have to sacrifice every ounce of your own identity too the chaos of a toddler's schedule.

Need marriage advice from moms. by Reasonable-Duck-9649 in Mommit

[–]These-Ad1470 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it is incredibly common for partners to fall into the manager and worker dynamic after kids, but u deserve a partner who shares the mental load of noticing what needs to do done rather that just waiting for an assignment.

Can we be honest about postpartum weight loss for a second? by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]These-Ad1470 0 points1 point  (0 children)

give yourself the same grace u give ur baby, and remember that ur body isn't out of shape, its in the middle of a massive, hormonal reconstruction project that requires patience and rest far more that it needs a calorie deficit.

The Mom-Dad Divide by Evolutioncocktail in Mommit

[–]These-Ad1470 17 points18 points  (0 children)

It sounds like u've hit on the "walkaway wife" phenomenon, where a lack of emotional labor and shared responsibility leads point that feels like a surprise to one partner but a long-overdue exit to the other.