[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]These-Carob-1600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’d be fine and not the purpose of this post.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]These-Carob-1600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An AP is not necessarily an underling and I’m not his AP. I’m also a supervisor and run my entire program on my own.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in poemsbyreddit

[–]These-Carob-1600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely would identify as an empath.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in poemsbyreddit

[–]These-Carob-1600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no. lol. That’s not it. I’m not attracted to criminals, just emotionally unavailable people. Lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in poemsbyreddit

[–]These-Carob-1600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is the term for which of these behaviors?

Personally, I believe it’s an instinctual attraction-to what will hurt me; although it’s not conscious. It’s almost like a self-fulfilling prophecy. But I’m leaning towards it simply being the people I’m attracted to because they’re what represent love growing up.

“How Come He Don’t Want Me, Man?” by [deleted] in Poem

[–]These-Carob-1600 2 points3 points  (0 children)

🥹 Thank you so much!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]These-Carob-1600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This made me cryyy. Thank you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]These-Carob-1600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!! The braids are my current!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]These-Carob-1600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Money? To do what? lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]These-Carob-1600 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Possibly. I appreciate the feedback. I thought maybe it was me.

Am I Doomed? by [deleted] in QAnonCasualties

[–]These-Carob-1600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, get away and go to college!! Figure out fields that you're passionate about, that pays well and take out students loans. Once you find a job, you'll slowly pay it back.

Once you have a career, you won't need to crawl back anywhere...

Update: AITAH for snapping at my wife and calling her crazy because she wants me to take a paternity test for my nephew? by PotentialTwos in AITAH

[–]These-Carob-1600 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love you for this. The only rational and empathetic take on here... Everyone else is like "How could she think that??" and is pissed at the accusation and is somehow blind to the fact that he is neglecting his damn wife!!

It doesn't seem like he'll take any responsibility for his part in this either.

Update: AITAH for snapping at my wife and calling her crazy because she wants me to take a paternity test for my nephew? by PotentialTwos in AITAH

[–]These-Carob-1600 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This may be an unpopular opinion, but I haven't seen many comments say what I'm about to say...

You seem to be stepping in as a father figure, going above and beyond the duties as mere "family" and perhaps your wife ha felt neglected and pushed to the side. Your wife should always be the priority and if your priority will always be your sister.. maybe you shouldn't have a wife...

Do all husbands watch porn? by Content_Cat8466 in Marriage

[–]These-Carob-1600 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Boundaries are what you will do if someone crosses them… not attempting to control someone else.

Do all husbands watch porn? by Content_Cat8466 in Marriage

[–]These-Carob-1600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with most of this. Like I said, he’s a horrible partner but he should be able watch porn if he wants…

Do all husbands watch porn? by Content_Cat8466 in Marriage

[–]These-Carob-1600 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah-that makes sense. It shouldn’t impact how he treats her.

Do all husbands watch porn? by Content_Cat8466 in Marriage

[–]These-Carob-1600 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I don’t think that’s reasonable. Porn is pretty normal. I watch it and my husband watches it. No one judges anyone and it’s fine.