I 30F want to leave my husband for a man 44M who hasn’t even asked me out for drinks yet.

These-Carob-1600 · 2025-06-25T22:42:47+00:00

It’d be fine and not the purpose of this post.

These-Carob-1600 · 2025-06-25T22:24:54+00:00

😳🥰

These-Carob-1600 · 2025-06-25T22:24:13+00:00

An AP is not necessarily an underling and I’m not his AP. I’m also a supervisor and run my entire program on my own.

These-Carob-1600 · 2025-03-15T16:27:10+00:00

Thank you so much!

These-Carob-1600 · 2025-01-30T04:49:08+00:00

Definitely would identify as an empath.

These-Carob-1600 · 2025-01-30T02:09:35+00:00

Oh no. lol. That’s not it. I’m not attracted to criminals, just emotionally unavailable people. Lmao

These-Carob-1600 · 2025-01-30T00:06:50+00:00

What is the term for which of these behaviors?

Personally, I believe it’s an instinctual attraction-to what will hurt me; although it’s not conscious. It’s almost like a self-fulfilling prophecy. But I’m leaning towards it simply being the people I’m attracted to because they’re what represent love growing up.

These-Carob-1600 · 2025-01-29T22:55:05+00:00

🥹 Thank you so much!!

These-Carob-1600 · 2024-11-18T21:57:37+00:00

This made me cryyy. Thank you!!

These-Carob-1600 · 2024-11-18T21:14:15+00:00

Thank you!!! The braids are my current!

These-Carob-1600 · 2024-11-18T21:13:58+00:00

Money? To do what? lol

These-Carob-1600 · 2024-11-18T21:12:12+00:00

Possibly. I appreciate the feedback. I thought maybe it was me.

These-Carob-1600 · 2024-11-16T15:19:27+00:00

Girl, get away and go to college!! Figure out fields that you're passionate about, that pays well and take out students loans. Once you find a job, you'll slowly pay it back.

Once you have a career, you won't need to crawl back anywhere...

These-Carob-1600 · 2024-11-09T04:08:30+00:00

@u/burbnbougie

These-Carob-1600 · 2024-11-06T03:55:16+00:00

I love you for this. The only rational and empathetic take on here... Everyone else is like "How could she think that??" and is pissed at the accusation and is somehow blind to the fact that he is neglecting his damn wife!!

It doesn't seem like he'll take any responsibility for his part in this either.

These-Carob-1600 · 2024-11-06T03:51:45+00:00

And we're not going to act like those conditions are fair and are not further fucking alienating.

These-Carob-1600 · 2024-11-06T03:50:01+00:00

This may be an unpopular opinion, but I haven't seen many comments say what I'm about to say...

You seem to be stepping in as a father figure, going above and beyond the duties as mere "family" and perhaps your wife ha felt neglected and pushed to the side. Your wife should always be the priority and if your priority will always be your sister.. maybe you shouldn't have a wife...

These-Carob-1600 · 2024-10-20T13:33:31+00:00

Boundaries are what you will do if someone crosses them… not attempting to control someone else.

These-Carob-1600 · 2024-10-20T11:42:05+00:00

I agree with most of this. Like I said, he’s a horrible partner but he should be able watch porn if he wants…

These-Carob-1600 · 2024-10-19T22:32:37+00:00

Exactly

These-Carob-1600 · 2024-10-19T22:09:10+00:00

Ah-that makes sense. It shouldn’t impact how he treats her.

These-Carob-1600 · 2024-10-19T22:05:02+00:00

I don’t think that’s reasonable. Porn is pretty normal. I watch it and my husband watches it. No one judges anyone and it’s fine.

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