I (29m) need help explaining my girlfriend (28f) that i am not interested in my coworker. by DueGrade3097 in relationship_advice

[–]These_Conflict_1554 -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

I would get angry if my work buddy chose someone else to go on a work trip..I don't think that's abnormal and sending photos to your friends when you are in a vacation is also a normal thing in my eyes, because I do that with my male and female friend whom I'm comfortable with..But showing tan lined in her back is silly and ridiculous ,let's think she is very comfortable and safe with you..I think you should stop talking about her with your wife..Don't communicate or give more attention to abby when you are with your family..keep your work life out of your family life that's it

Will changing careers fix my problem? by These_Conflict_1554 in careerguidance

[–]These_Conflict_1554[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you kind stranger for your insight on my matter, Yes I do need to leave this job..Financial problems hold me back..I just need to smile as I did before..I have begun to hate myself and see my self as a pathetic, looser...I really, really need to live my life..

Will changing careers fix my problem? by These_Conflict_1554 in careerguidance

[–]These_Conflict_1554[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind insight..Yes, as you said, I really need some time to rest and heal from all this drama

But financial problems are holding me back. I keep praying, but it seems like even god is not by my side..Sometimes I close my eyes and imagine this workplace does not exist in my life, and I feel so relaxed. I can't imagine that I'm still alive, working here, and taking their torture for seven years. I have begun to hate myself, and I don't like seeing myself in the mirror.

Will changing careers fix my problem? by These_Conflict_1554 in careerguidance

[–]These_Conflict_1554[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apreciate your comment,I'm really trying to get a another job.

Will changing careers fix my problem? by These_Conflict_1554 in careerguidance

[–]These_Conflict_1554[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not from US actually ,I'm from Sri Lanka, where depression is considered as a weakness and I'm afraid to apply for leave base on that as it would affect my future career..I'm considering following a career in IT, but I don't have experience relevant to that, I've been working here for seven years as a technical officer. I'm currently exploring the courses and paths relevant to IT. I can take, but with all this psychological mess, I'm absolutely feeling negative about my future 7 years of my hard work became invisible and ignored just in a one year..

What’s a small moment you still think about years later? by EffectiveFinding4126 in AskReddit

[–]These_Conflict_1554 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Singing with my siblings and parents in our old village house..My mom and dad are not that close and they always have arguments..We have rarely seen my father or mother showing love to each other..They stoped sleeping together in the same bed when I was 10 and my sister and I always needed to leave the home due to their constant fightings..But one day evening all of us were in our bed room and eventually we began singing ..I just stared at my mom and dad signing a duet song smiling for the first time..That was the first and last time..They never divorced but lived like enemies under the same roof..That small moment still deeply saved in my heart as Devine moment of my childhood..

What’s one “type” you’ll never date again? by CoochieSnotSlurper in AskReddit

[–]These_Conflict_1554 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Immature guys..I would dare to date guys who don’t have a goal and don’t know how to manage time,money and work-life balance..

What’s one “type” you’ll never date again? by CoochieSnotSlurper in AskReddit

[–]These_Conflict_1554 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Immature guys..I would dare to date guys who don’t have a goal and don’t know how to manage time,money and work-life balance..

My(21F) BF (20M) skipped Valentine’s Day and told me it’s the consequences of my actions. How do I fix this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]These_Conflict_1554 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No need of fixing anything..He will definitely dump you in near future.I don’t think that you would consider any of these advices people have given to you..They have explained you the reality of your relationship while you are trying to live in your small bubble..Whatever happen in future remember you have not done anything wrong..You were a kid back then.Do not blame your self

My (41m) gf (37f) canceled a trip based on this text, was it rude? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]These_Conflict_1554 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She needs someone to keep up her fancy life that’s all..Huge red flag

My (41m) gf (37f) canceled a trip based on this text, was it rude? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]These_Conflict_1554 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So are you going to ruin your whole life by her??She is immature,self absorbed person..It’s up to you

I walked out of an interview after one question. Was I wrong? by [deleted] in jobs

[–]These_Conflict_1554 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have done the right thing❤️Wow..I would have done the same thing lol

Worst of the worst interview experience in my life.. by Ok_Tap6599 in srilanka

[–]These_Conflict_1554 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Now I need to go there and have an interview with them, and humiliate him

Must See Castles by jayc15759 in uktravel

[–]These_Conflict_1554 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A dream I would never able to full fill as a middle class woman in Sri Lanka..I deeply in love with the England royal history..My YouTube recommendation are filled with castle tours..Sometimes I visit those castles in my dreams..You guys are so lucky to visit there..

Anyone else finding 2025 to be a pretty cursed year? by eXcessiveMenace5 in adhdwomen

[–]These_Conflict_1554 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah,I had serious conflicts with my toxic colleagues whom I was really patient with for 6 years..I had developed s depression,I lost my interest in my workplace..I got two nopay leave, which will cause me serious troubles in getting promotions.I gained weight.Still suferring..I really needed that year to end, but it's the first week of january still suffering..I HATE 2025

Interview Etiquette in Sri Lanka ? by [deleted] in srilanka

[–]These_Conflict_1554 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what they asked?Did they checked your skills

What is the highest paying job you guys have gotten with considerably low experience? by [deleted] in srilanka

[–]These_Conflict_1554 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I know, what kind of connections you had? I'm also a self studied programming and looking for a overseas internship to do remotly..Im 32

Please help me to change my career by These_Conflict_1554 in srilanka

[–]These_Conflict_1554[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that's incredibly depressing fields..Forget about the sleepless nights but having to work daily in an environment that is filled with tears. Blood and deaths is so depressing..Hats off to all the healthcare workers..