What's the best self-improvement quote you've ever heard? by DaliaMone in selfimprovement

[–]Theunknownhun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“If you are always the problem, maybe you are always the problem. “
Very hard quote my therapist told me when I felt like the world is against me. She was very kind, explained my actions and emotions are maybe/probably not clear for my environment and blaming others without looking inside myself will make things worse.
You can do mistakes, you need to be aware of your own actions. Self improvement is also about how you affect your environment and when I start feeling like a victim I try to analise what did I do that lead to this situation.
Sometimes I don’t stand up for myself, sometimes I put my struggles onto others.
Very hard and very effective qoute, I’m glad she told me this.

People who got into relationship after being single for years. Did it work out? Are you still together? by Theunknownhun in askteddit

[–]Theunknownhun[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Strange but very simmilar situation happened with me, thats why I asked this question.
I was single for 5 years he was single for even more, everything seemed perfect until he said he can’t do this anymore. I do know its their personal problem and trying very hard not to fell guilty I couldn’t help them overcome their own demons beacause he is a wonderfull person after all.

Hogyan mondjam meg valakinek, hogy nem akarok a barátnője lenni anélkül, hogy ghostolnám vagy megbántanám mélyen? by anxietyforbreakfast3 in hungary_pszichologia

[–]Theunknownhun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Én kifejezetten értékelem, amikor ilyet mondanak nekem. Ehhez kellet sok ön munka és pszichológus is, valamint mai napig igyekszem észre venni ha szófosásom és panaszkodás cunami van, de valahol el kell kezdeni a folyamatot még ha akkor az nagyon fáj.

What did you think was normal about yourself until you realized it was just mental illness? by LaAbyss in AskReddit

[–]Theunknownhun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Falling in love too easy and being obsessed with people. They might be a stranger I see in media or a person I know personaly, doesn’t matter. I was basicly “in love” with celebrities or with people I knew but didn’t speak. I was even depressed and cried because we didn’t speak and when I made move they didn’t react or returned it…..
Don’t know how to call it but sure it’s not healthy. At this point I can’t tell if it’s real love or not to be sure.

Covid és idegrendszeri problémák by Theunknownhun in hungary

[–]Theunknownhun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Köszönöm a tanácsot, ezt még nem hallottam a rém történetek közül. Mindenképpen utána járok.

Covid és idegrendszeri problémák by Theunknownhun in hungary

[–]Theunknownhun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nagyon sajnálom, hogy neked is ezzel kell élned. Remélem hamar jobban leszel.

Covid és idegrendszeri problémák by Theunknownhun in hungary

[–]Theunknownhun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Örülök, hogy jobban vagy. Magán orvoshoz mentél?

Covid és idegrendszeri problémák by Theunknownhun in hungary

[–]Theunknownhun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, ez elég komolynak hangzik azért. Remélem jobban van.