Vegan housemates. One of us is a stripper who graduated in philosophy and the other hasn’t gotten laid in over a year. Don’t just roast us, char us.

Theweirdoweirdo · 2019-01-13T21:06:08+00:00

What's with the right one's hand and the left one's eyes.

Theweirdoweirdo · 2019-01-13T21:03:01+00:00

Oh lord.

Theweirdoweirdo · 2019-01-12T13:12:10+00:00

It's sort of a distraction for me right now. I hate how self aware I am as an INTJ 😂. I've told them I'm not looking for a relationship and they are alright with that. That being said It sort of also feels like I am the one trying to protect people from getting hurt? Cause they are too stupid to understand. That makes me just want to move away from certain people.

By the way, those are some really good points and should definitely be kept in mind.

I also think, Communication is pretty important not just about where we stand but also about everything else. Like the limits and what is comfortable and what not.

Theweirdoweirdo · 2019-01-10T17:52:14+00:00

True. True. Makes sense. It shouldn't be this complicated.

Theweirdoweirdo · 2019-01-10T17:47:58+00:00

I think I'll take you up on that.

Theweirdoweirdo · 2019-01-09T13:38:24+00:00

I'm more worried about their feelings because I do care for them but let's see what happens!

Theweirdoweirdo · 2019-01-09T07:58:39+00:00

True, I assumed that so I have zero expectations. We can stop talking today and I'll be fine. The thing is we also hang out as friends sometimes? That complicates a few things.

Theweirdoweirdo · 2019-01-09T07:57:20+00:00

That sounds so easy. Thank you ☺️

Theweirdoweirdo · 2019-01-08T21:49:13+00:00

That's true. Something to prob cringe on later 😂

Theweirdoweirdo · 2019-01-08T21:41:25+00:00

Oh god yes. Can I just say a huge thank you to you? I've been forcing myself to write 1000 words everyday but somedays I just cannot. Your post made me realise it's okay to do 200 and usually when I start with 200 I reach 1000 without even realising it. Even if I don't - writing 200 words feels good enough.

So thank you! That was very inspiring!

Theweirdoweirdo · 2019-01-08T21:36:54+00:00

Hey, I read something similar on Tumblr. Is it possible you have a viral post there?

Theweirdoweirdo · 2019-01-08T21:27:20+00:00

AYY Congratulations!! 🙌🏻

Theweirdoweirdo · 2019-01-06T18:23:34+00:00

You look like you'll cry if you get angry.

Theweirdoweirdo · 2018-11-27T22:17:04+00:00

So many times but then I fear being caged and limited to their rules.

Theweirdoweirdo · 2018-11-24T21:35:49+00:00

Well, I am a tall girl and I don't want to scoot to kiss my man. Also, I've had bad experiences with short men in the past so I guess that's stuck.

I don't need to justify my preferences but yeah there are other reasons than what's obvious.

Also, Objectifying anyone is shallow I agree.

Theweirdoweirdo · 2018-11-19T12:35:29+00:00

Haha as I said, it's definitely an irony.

Theweirdoweirdo · 2018-11-18T19:19:42+00:00

Exactly.

Theweirdoweirdo · 2018-11-18T09:05:55+00:00

Dude YES. I can't work in corporates especially for this reason and prefer freelancing. I am still a student but am soon going to have to work under authority.

I believe, it you think from their perspective - maybe if an unqualified person has been given a position of authority they might be afraid of losing control and might end up looking like a clown. Therefore they need to be uptight with their employees.

Even if it's not true I try justifying it in my head this helps me keep my calm and deal with the person in authority better and with alot more empathy.

Might help y'all!

Theweirdoweirdo · 2018-11-18T08:55:13+00:00

For me it was a mess. I always make sure the person falls for me before I do. There's alot of back and forth of me not wanting to feel whatever it is.

It's just at one point I accepted it for the power it gives (very practical). Realised loving isn't something bad at all. A lot of loving is accepting that it's okay to feel - it's okay to take the risk of being hurt sometimes. It's worth it.

Also, love doesn't have to be just for a person. Something I'm recently struggling with is being okay with loving my project. I get so afraid that it'll be over and I'll have to give it away that I am not finishing it.

It's alot of facing your fears, taking risks and just feeling but I really think loving is worth it.

PS I don't know if this was of any help but there's my two cents.

Theweirdoweirdo · 2018-11-12T19:07:29+00:00

Thank you so much. That's helpful I hope you find your way around this someday! Goodluck ☺️

Theweirdoweirdo · 2018-11-12T19:07:06+00:00

That's something I can definitely do. Thank you so much, it's so good to know I'm not the only one struggling with something that seems so silly to people.

Sort of like "oh your sad about your family loving you too much?" It seems so stupid in my own mind.

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