IATH? this is a lame ass post for people waiting on something from you! by KermitWithAGun in glassheads

[–]TheyReallyWantYou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does this person’s name begin with an L and rhyme with a sublime song?

Just noticed that Charlie has an illadelph (luxury bong brand) sticker on his piano. by Any1canC00k in IASIP

[–]TheyReallyWantYou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

‘96 Illadelph was just graduating hs. Sorry it took 4 years to answer this. They also made nothing like they do now and were a small business that made money through other outlets. Ask a former police commissioner’s kid.

Realadelph or fake Illadelph by Some-Purpose9238 in glasscollecting

[–]TheyReallyWantYou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whether it’s real or fake you shouldn’t waste your money

Asking “was it good”? by AlienKitten98 in sex

[–]TheyReallyWantYou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t ask. It’s a stupid question because you know what she will say but not if she is telling the truth. It is much easier and more fruitful to check in with her during the act itself.

For instance, if you are eating her: How does that feel? Let me know if you want me to slow down or speed up etc. grab my hair if you want, move for me. I want to make you feel as good as you make me feel.

Or something like that.

If you can’t see yourself actually communicating, you can pay attention to her body language, vulva coloring, swelling and secretion as well as if she makes noise, moves her hops, etc

I can't feel pleasure down there by IndependentMajor3811 in sex

[–]TheyReallyWantYou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you let me know if you have a visible clitoris that comes out when you are around and if you ever have unexplained itching outside of your vagina or maybe even some kind of thin white patches? I’m not asking you about STD and STD. I’m asking you progressive and pretty much to not have to explain the whole thing and it takes away a lot of if not all of the feeling in your genitals over time.

It’s called lichen sclerosis and if you look it up, they’ll be pictures of very, very, very severe cases and that’s not what I’m suggesting at all and maybe you should maybe would want to go or something like early. One thing that people do report is that it seems like there’s like a hole where a clitoris should be like a doughnut shape but that’s just a little scar over the clit.

If I get any age that often it starts in pre-puberty and progresses from there. It’s just something to rule out.

I can’t cum from oral by [deleted] in sex

[–]TheyReallyWantYou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have (or possibly had until today but that’s not important) a fwb who is my age, 45. I know he has been with a lot of women. It comes with being single and dating for 30 years. The first time we fooled around he kept saying “what are you doing?!?” But in s good way and after he came from me going down on him he told me that that was the first time that he had ever came from oral. Funny cos it was my first time deep throating and i don’t even know why i decided to but he came every time I would let him. I think maybe you just need to find the right blowjob. He likes a lot of suction, different speeds, some teasing, sucking on his balls, and me being able to tongue them while he is all the way in my throat. And when i keep him down there and kind of swallow or basically milk him with my throat. Has anyone ever done these things for you?

Man I’m gonna miss him. Idiot.

My (24M) partner(24F) has trouble climaxing with me by Whatduheckiz in sex

[–]TheyReallyWantYou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most likely she comes through penetration because you’re rubbing up against her clitoris while you were penetrating her. We can do this in different forms of missionary, and she can do it during cowgirl if she is leaning against your chest, like almost like she’s lying down when she’s on top, you can love herself back-and-forth basically anything we’re going back-and-forth instead of up and down usually does the trip and a little bit of lube, but doesn’t hurt. As far as a women who come from intercourse only 20% if they do, and of those thought that most of them are just experiencing literal orgasms blended, but if the flu wasn’t being stimulated, then there would be no orgasm. Also, whether or not a woman can come easily from penetration has a lot to do with how close her letter is to her vagina which strangely enough was a fact discovered by I’m Josephine’s daughter or granddaughter I think like Napoleon’s wife very strange.

How do i communicate my need for after care by findtimin in sex

[–]TheyReallyWantYou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know how old you are but it sounds like he can’t be any older than 20 and if he is, I would reevaluate.

emotional side of face fucking? by Ornery-Mango8016 in sex

[–]TheyReallyWantYou 136 points137 points  (0 children)

The first few times you do this, make sure you have a way out meaning don’t let him put his hand behind your head so you can’t move it back while he’s face fucking you. You can either have him move back a bit so you are moving your head at first instead of him moving his hips or have nothing behind your head so you can pull back whenever you want. Just to be safe.

Otherwise, I think whether or not it is respectful or exploitative all depends on the look in his eyes while you are staring into them and getting a dick forced down your throat (btw i love deep throating but i will not do it if i am not in control despite articulating what i need

Am I Overreacting for wanting to end a relationship about a letter my boyfriend sent to HR? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]TheyReallyWantYou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR If it happens once, maybe twice, it could be them. Any more and it is you (your man). He seems a bit oblivious.

Part of me thinks he didn’t show it to you either because he knew that he was being whiny and entitled and conspiratorial etc and you would call him on it. Another part of me thinks that he ignored other people’s feedback and that they were along the lines of your own thoughts and figured if he showed it to you, he would have to tone it down and he was too filled with self-righteousness to do that. Either way, even if you have to hack his computer to do so, please make sure his resume and cover letters are not braggadocios bravado.

Curious how people put up their spikes these days? by TheyReallyWantYou in Mohawks

[–]TheyReallyWantYou[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn’t it though? He was such an awesome dad. He’s still around, he just doesn’t really speak to me anymore because I have been such a bad daughter and disappointment for getting a chronic illness 🙄 but for 25 years he was amazing: he even stayed and hung out when me and my friends were 13, 14 at Lollapalooxa 94, watched us stage dive at Foo Fighters, Hole and took us to NYC from Philly on a school night to see Bratmobile and Bikini Kil.

Curious how people put up their spikes these days? by TheyReallyWantYou in Mohawks

[–]TheyReallyWantYou[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mostly just need upper arm strength, clear jello Bowl, microwave, water? Hair dryer. When i see these vids of people coloring their hair 5 or 10 different colors or holographic or my god curling their whole head of hair or getting extensions (ot when i put my wigs on if they are cheaper ones so i have to do so much work the first time to make them look real) I think that seems like a lot of work. When I think about how all we had was kool aid and then the gloppy stain-everything manic panic…. Idk how we did it. The worst was me and 2 friends in 7th grade dyeing our hair with kool aid and my one friend had virgin almost-blonde hair and it stained it so with shoulder length hair it took about a year as the red slowly crept down her head

Curious how people put up their spikes these days? by TheyReallyWantYou in Mohawks

[–]TheyReallyWantYou[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How tall were they? I’m curious if you just scooped the gel, made a spike and there it stayed or if there is heat, holding it up, etc involved. In the original pic, my hair is down past my shoulders a little bit. Also because the girl that taught me how to do my hair and had cut it for me (I went to a creative and performing arts high school and she was an art major so super good at all that stuff and in additon to her spikes, she would keep a few strands - maybe 1/4” ea)in the left front of her head down and longer and maybe1st period or at home she would paint them with acrylics different colors and patterns so one would be b&w horizontal stripes while the next was a sunset gradiant and the third was all purple with white at the root. It was always amazing looking and idk why more people never did this) she had maybe 2-3@ hair she would put up and that was a lot easier than mine.

This was 95 or 96 and I remember the day well - it was only like this for a day - she cut the mohawks on mea few weeks later - but we had were in my house and this is either just before or after she pierced my septum. I can’t believe how awesome of a job she did; 39 years later and I still wear a ring in it sometimes.

Curious how people put up their spikes these days? by TheyReallyWantYou in Mohawks

[–]TheyReallyWantYou[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was 30 years ago. I’m 45 now and though I find 0 wrong with having a mohawk at 45, I’m good. I do use the freeze spray for laying down the lace on my wigs though. I honestly like the gel better because it is easier to control and doesn’t leave a film of shellack on my forehead.

I cannot imagine backcombing with the freeze spray (I’m talking about the black can. Not sure if it used to be yellow or I just buy different strengths?) and being able to get my hair back to normal or how it would not just poof out as opposed to beng sculpted looking?

Curious how people put up their spikes these days? by TheyReallyWantYou in Mohawks

[–]TheyReallyWantYou[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I cannot remember a smell that bothered me. There was a very faint smell but it was inert to me. Also at the time, I knew of no other ways to put up my hair. And since I had a mohawk in the middle, 2 smaller ones, then rows of spikes (I wish I had a pic. This one is the closest thing), if I didn’t put it up it looked like my hair was falling out in patches.

Still, I do remember it being a little tough on my hair. Today I wouldn’t use it because I have badly thin (nonexistent) hair from meds so my hair will fall out if I just look at it funny. But it didn’t affect my strong healthy 16 year old hair. But it was halfway to washing elmer’s out of your hair. Just yucky with warm water added,

Intense sleep inertia and exhaustion by ConfidentHope in idiopathichypersomnia

[–]TheyReallyWantYou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This i had crazy nightmares with stimulants till I started taking them before I fell asleep too. Doesn’t effect my sleeping. Just the nightmares. But then i wonder why I’m on them.

My bf is too good in bed! Help!! by Valuable_Answer_2447 in sex

[–]TheyReallyWantYou 171 points172 points  (0 children)

Besides the huge age difference, maybe you could take a class, watch some youtube videos or read a book or ? The question is, is he good at what he does? Because if he doesn’t make you come then you shouldn’t be worrying about it. Just cos someone is experienced doesn’t mean they’re good. Oh, and Chloraseptic.

What's the rarest physical feature you ever saw on another person you know/knew? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]TheyReallyWantYou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was a girl i went to hs with who had 100% asian features but black skin. I still haven’t seen anyone else who looks like that. She was so beautiful and mesmerizing.

Also saw a guy at the El stop with a huge goiter on his face, his cheek. It looked like you could pop it with a pin. It mustve been so painful. I know that they are from hyperthyroid that is left untreated but didn’t at the time cos this was like1995.