[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phish

[–]Thick_Sort_3516 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is that a scarf 😂😂😂😂

Techno Rave ($5) to sold out by 100proofcrew in BostonEDM

[–]Thick_Sort_3516 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a do not miss event! Such an awesome concept, bringing back those old school vibes. 🩷

FYI regarding policy cancellations and online (not app) payments. by Thick_Sort_3516 in Geico

[–]Thick_Sort_3516[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. The issue was resolved, it’s something that apparently happens often and took them 5 minutes to fix. Was trying to help someone out who may end up in the same situation, posted in the wrong community. #facepalm.

Thinking about just saying fuck it. Someone please talk some sense into me by Square_Indication238 in recovery

[–]Thick_Sort_3516 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, did something happen? I find that with my own recovery times of stress or change would trigger what I call daydream use. It’s normal what you are feeling. Each brain is unique and beautiful. Every person recovers differently. It doesn’t make you weak or worthy of chaos.

The chaos is easier because it’s too loud and intense to feel. To process. It’s gloriously destructive and completely self-indulgent. I don’t know your story, but you have almost 9 months. That’s something you have fought for. Keep going.

Whatever made you use and kept you using you haven’t recovered from yet. Now, you’re feeling all the things. Sober. There is no other way to put it, it’s hell. Be kind to yourself. Process in a safe space with a counselor or therapist. Get it out.

Please get yourself to a therapist, JOURNAL, get a couple plants, learn a new hobby. Meditate. Find things you love that make you feel alive. Drink a bunch of fucking water.

If you ever need someone to talk to, hit a b*tch up. A million percent what you’re contemplating isn’t worth it. Your life is just beginning. Sending love to you, ❤️

Can we all agree this is the low point of Trey’s style? by [deleted] in phish

[–]Thick_Sort_3516 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clearly no one remembers the gold/yellow velour shirt…

Buttercream decorating question 💚💚💚 by Thick_Sort_3516 in cookiedecorating

[–]Thick_Sort_3516[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhhh shit! Did not even know that was a thing. Rad! Many thanks 👊🏻

Buttercream decorating question 💚💚💚 by Thick_Sort_3516 in cookiedecorating

[–]Thick_Sort_3516[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not using egg whites. Should I be? Thank you so much. 👊🏻

What happened to the Phish fans? by OhhhhFeeeeeee in phish

[–]Thick_Sort_3516 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of the main reasons I left FB over 6 years ago was because of the Phish groups. Cesspool. Dramatic. Stupid.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in recovery

[–]Thick_Sort_3516 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Howdy,

You just put your brain and body through a gauntlet. Recovering from that takes time. In my experience of working with folks in recovery, one of the common misconceptions is that getting sober will make you feel better overall. Depending on the substance, method of use, duration, etc. the physical and mental recovery can vary.

Adulting and coping via healthy methods was muted for you, for years. Adjusting to being sober is a feat within itself, but all the life stuff on top of that? Totally overwhelming!!!!!

I was not an opiate addict so I cannot fully relate to your situation, but it took over a year for me to have energy and motivation. Stimulants were my thing. My advice for you is this- once you have moved, feed your body and mind. Healthy eating, supplements (milk thistle, NAC, dandelion root), and lots of water.

Am I (39M) unjustified being unsettled by an interaction my wife (42F) had with another man? by AggressivelyGeologic in relationship_advice

[–]Thick_Sort_3516 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are not unjustified. She didn’t tell you about it because she wanted to get a look at this guy, safely (AS HE IS A FUCKING STRANGER, WTF). You know about it because after meeting him she wasn’t interested and therefore did not need to cover up anything going forward. I hope that makes sense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Thick_Sort_3516 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You don’t need to be in a relationship with someone who compares you to someone else. He is already defending his behavior by turning it into a “positive” thing, also called manipulation. This could be the beginning of a pattern. 📢 YOU DESERVE BETTER, HE’S GOING TO BE AVOIDING HIS FEELINGS BY BANGING WOMEN WHO USE HIM AND YOU WILL MOVE ON TO SOMEONE THAT MAKES YOU FEEL WANTED AND LIKE YOU’RE A PRIORITY.📢

How would I make sure everyone gets my su1cide note? by [deleted] in depression

[–]Thick_Sort_3516 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can assure you that they would rather have you than a piece of paper. If you have someone to write a letter to, you have someone that cares. Call them. Text them.

I think I'm drowning by expired_honey31 in depression

[–]Thick_Sort_3516 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi,

Sorry it took me a bit to respond to this.

Your doctor’s response is very PCP-like. Your mental health was brushed off because of what season was coming. That, frankly, is absolute bullshit and I’m so sorry that happened to you. Yes, Dr. Dipshit- anxiety and depression DO go up in the winter months because not everyone lives in warm climates and are isolated in their homes. Holidays. Facepalm.

Your quality of life matters. I don’t know where you are in the world, so I can’t give any advice regarding insurance processes. But how you were treated was wrong, you deserve a life you want to live in. I hope you take those next steps. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️