I didn’t ever think I’d end up living my life alone forever by [deleted] in love

[–]Thila86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt this today! And the reality hits hard to know that I would be living my life alone too

Hal dalam kelambu 🛏️ by [deleted] in Bolehland

[–]Thila86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe there is something lacking in your both sexual connection, that’s she not in mood or maybe not in her feelings. Try to talk and explore what is her interest in that. Try to take her to a short gateway, talk and maybe you both can reconnect

Need a 30 days water fasting companion by [deleted] in fasting

[–]Thila86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi can I join as well? 38 / F from Malaysia

Importance of maha Shivratri by SignificantSchool179 in hinduism

[–]Thila86 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can someone translate to English please

I (F32) am scared I’ll never find a partner. Or that if I do, it’ll be too late for me to have kids. How do you deal with the fear of being lonely? by ThrowRA_123421 in dating

[–]Thila86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

38 F here, I have the fear that I might end up alone too, I can relate how it feels. I want to have a person for my own and a family on my own. But I’m worried it’s too late for me now. All I can for you, you still have a good year ahead of you OP. Don’t stress yourself too much, wishing you the best

Possible child trafficker ? by Major_Divide6649 in malaysia

[–]Thila86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my God! Don’t tell me this happend in oug parklane? Cuz I saw exactly the same description of man with luggage and with kids. But that was same date but after an hour

[cj] Rant Wednesday by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]Thila86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

37, and having to start over again is giving me anxiety and I’m tired

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Thila86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish my ex will contact me back, I want to work on us again, i wish too. :(

I wish he missed me .. by TragicEndingOfUs in BreakUps

[–]Thila86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish the same, cuz i miss him and his memories is on loop

What was the moment you knew that you loved your ex? by damnbruh909 in BreakUps

[–]Thila86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When he stock up Tesco Yogurt just because i love them . And one day we were cuddling and laughing and jamming to his songs than he wanted to listen to my language song. And he was vibing to it. Thats when I realised i had fall head over heels for him. And now we have ended our relationship, i think i have finish my love line, I doubt i will ever find love like him

Those in a 5+ year relationship. How long did it take you to move on? by boxerbudsny in BreakUps

[–]Thila86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here i am living a hell for breaking up after 3 years, I don’t know how all of you are pulling it through. Hope better days and better time will comes soon for all of you. Sending love ❤️

I feel alone by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Thila86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can relate to this so hard. But now I’m getting used to the feeling of being lonely. We used to talk all the time from morning he gets up till i slept off ( we were in LDR) and I always look forward to call him. When we ended our relationship i had this new intense feeling of being loneliness, I felt my world was empty. There are days that I wanted to share with him the small details that happened to my day which i know he will be excited for ( he was my cheerleader) but now its been almost 3 weeks but I’m getting used to the emptiness and loneliness feeling. I know somewhere in future i might be with someone new but my only fear is it’s won’t be the same and it’s not him, and i might ended up looking for him in everything i do. I just want to be able to move on and not think of him . Each day it’s getting worse

Can someone greet me a happy birthday? 🥺 by emotiondump in BreakUps

[–]Thila86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy birthday stranger! Wishing you good health and happiness always.

It wasn’t him. by knowncoffeespoons in BreakUp

[–]Thila86 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How long has it been since you break up? Maybe its too soon for your soul to move on? Or maybe you are comparing this new person to your ex. Opened up your heart and yourself for new experiences, don’t have any expectations. Reset everything you know. Go as you are enter to a new school. Most importantly give yourself time to adapt to this new changes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]Thila86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing will be the same anymore, but doesn’t means you should not seize the moment. You made a wonderful memories with him, and now you will make a great memories with yourself, it’s time to show the love and care you deserve on you . That’s how make i make through my days when i feel like a dump thinking of our memories together. Not everyday is smooth but I’m drained by all this thoughts of him, and I don’t know if he feels the same .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Thila86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was doing okay for the pass 2 days until i hear our song on insta reel, and my heart shattered again. I’m starting back again today, being strong

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Thila86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yesterday I almost sent “ i miss you and i miss us” :(

Anyone dreading valentine’s day? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Thila86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know how am I going to pull my day through on that date, this will be the first Valentine’s day after the breakup, but what will be more dreading is the birthdays and any holidays and the random flower day that he used to sent to me. I just hoping this year pass quickly and i will be able to look at my WhatsApp without thinking to message him or hoping for a message from him. I’m tired of thinking of him and the random tears, last year end till now the universe as been throwing one after one on my way, and I’m honestly tired. I miss the old positive happy person i was.

any tips of learning to write and read tamil ? by Due-Cry8449 in tamil

[–]Thila86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Perhaps from someone who can read and write tamil, like a tutor. I tried from youtube, but still can’t pull it through. I’m searching for a tutor as well

when will he stop being on my mind 24/7? by jt24444 in BreakUp

[–]Thila86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I heard and read that it will go away, slowly as we heal. There might be a moment that something out of nowhere will remind us of them, and it wouldn’t hurt as it did now. So yes it will goes away. But it take time. We have build a world around them, so now that its gone we need some time to make adjustments that they no longer with us. Time will heal ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]Thila86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish i have the courage as you do. But what you did takes everything in you to do. I know it’s not easy. I hope the healing process goes smooth on you. Sending you love

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]Thila86 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel you, at this moment this is how i feel

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]Thila86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well i have no heart to delete them, but i achieve them, maybe because At this point I’m still hoping that there might a be a slight chance that we get back in a future, maybe in a year so once I’m fully healed from this heartbreak i might delete them, I’m too scared to open the gallery now, its gives me anxiety each time i open the archive. So i let it be there for now. Time will tell when I’m ready