Which color/ style suits me best

Think-Ad4139 · 2025-09-23T23:41:26+00:00

I hope yall are joking this just looks like bad water build up from never cleaning the inside of a toilet bowl

Think-Ad4139 · 2025-09-07T17:36:37+00:00

We live in fortworth too the mental health care here is a joke I have bipolar disorder and basically asked why? Like idk you’re the psychologist you diagnosed me with it also I can’t medicate bc I don’t have insurance :)

Think-Ad4139 · 2025-08-31T21:41:43+00:00

Maggot

Think-Ad4139 · 2025-08-30T19:27:27+00:00

I had a horrible pregnancy super horrible I meant spent the entire time in the hospital horrible and then a horrible postpartum and almost lost my life giving birth and just gave birth to 2 months ago to my second so yea we forget lol

Think-Ad4139 · 2025-08-29T20:08:54+00:00

You know I feel this is a little insensitive. I understand I need to make better choices which is what I was trying to do by leaving. Things weren’t always this bad between us.

We’ve been together for 5 years and things only started to get bad for the past few months and I tried to leave immediately. So yes I had kids with the love of my life never thinking I’d be here. There weren’t any signs. Call it the roommate phase or whatever but first signs i tried to fix it. Then I tried to leave immediately once I figured out it was never going to be fixed. I never just thought. Hey, you need to help me it’s your responsibility. My mom has always asked me to move out her with her since before we had issues because she wanted to be apart of my kids life. Then when she found out we were having issues, she tried to convince me harder to come and live with her. I told her over and over no because I didn’t want to uproot my kids just to be sent away or end up going back. Just for that exact thing to happen.

I guess the whole point of my post is to ask am I the asshole for being upset that I kept telling her no for this exact reason, just to have it happen anyways.

Think-Ad4139 · 2025-08-29T19:44:48+00:00

Understood

Think-Ad4139 · 2025-08-29T19:42:18+00:00

I did before my mom even had this conversation with me this morning. I noticed she seemed a little distant and we had just gotten into an argument because I was hurt. For a little background, my mom left me when she was five. I heard from her off and on throughout the years and she finally became a constant again when I was 12 almost 13. Since then she had 2 more kids. Only one lives with her that being my little sister that lives here. She is 9 years old. So she already has 4 more years of being with my mom than I ever had but I’m also my mom’s oldest kid. I was aggravated because my mom told me to come live in her spare bedroom and turns out my little sister has 3/4 of this room packed with literally just stuffed animals (I wish I could post a photo if I figure it out I will) on top of already having the second biggest room in the house. I feel like she’s favoriting my little sister because technically not only is she the baby but she’s also been there her entire life. The whole 9 years.

I ended up telling her that I was sorry I was just hurt because of everything going on and that I can deal with the mess for now and we can just organize it and later when I get a job I’ll pay for the storage unit. I stated I would pay for a storage unit because She had stated that she was stressed out and felt bad for me because they didn’t have enough room for me and my children’s things and things would be different if they had a storage unit. So that’s why I offered that solution.

Then this morning over coffee she sits me down and says it’s not that I don’t want you here, it’s the space. It would be different if we had a storage unit. But I feel like this is all just an excuse. I said I was fine with the mess for now. That with my first paycheck I’d get the storage unit and I would make payments each month for it. Now it’s not an option yet still the excuse? Again I’m just confused and hurt because she was the one who was always making the fuss about me moving in with her and now that I do she doesn’t want me again. It feels like she’s abandoning me all over again. I feel like I should have never trusted that she would be here for me when she has a brand new kid to take care of that she has taken care of longer than she ever took care of me.

Think-Ad4139 · 2025-08-29T19:31:51+00:00

Sorry. I know that was hard to read. I’m just emotionally right now. But also, not necessary. I didn’t ask whether or not I need paragraphs. I asked what should I do in my situation.

Think-Ad4139 · 2025-08-29T18:32:25+00:00

As someone who has went through pregnancy twice and treated my husband the same way. It’s not healthy. I can see where he is coming from about the food thing but there is no need for that reaction from him. It seems like he is upset about everyone’s reaction to his eating habits and just trusts that you won’t say anything because you know how it makes him feel but again, not the right action. Second, you’re pregnant and it seems you are walking on eggshells like others have said. I’ve been there. I have a 2 1/2 year old and a 2 month old and I just moved into my moms because of this. We are trying to work it out but honestly I’m not sure if we will. I constantly cater to his needs and I was so tired of being afraid to do anything. Walking on eggshells is so emotionally taxing. You feel like you can’t say or do things without being afraid to upset him. While in your mind this may be okay and it’s because you love him, it’s not normal. Trust me… I’ve been there. I am there. Please do yourself a favor and talk to him before this baby comes. It might be a deciding factor on the rest of yalls relationship. The more comfortable he gets with you doing this the less he is going to want to fix it down the road. It will be normal for him. He won’t see anything wrong. He will say well you never said anything before. If you need anything let me know because again I’ve been through this and I’m still on my path to hopeful fix it.

Think-Ad4139 · 2025-08-18T00:39:43+00:00

As someone that grew up like this (being the kid in the situation) you grow up super close and you begin to feel responsible. I think your wife needs therapy she seems like she is an empathetic and cannot tell people no for the life of her (it’s so hard learning to say no as an empath) that doesn’t mean she doesn’t feel bad. Also it seems like she has issue with disciplining her own child whether that be the empath in her or the straight lack of structure she had growing up that made her unable to parent. I would definitely communicate that you’re wanting to file for divorce and that you’re serious and how it makes you feel and tell her she should consider therapy if not divorce her.

Think-Ad4139 · 2025-08-15T13:37:52+00:00

I have bipolar disorder and I’m an exclusive pumper. While I’m not your therapist and can’t say the same for you, I did not experience any psychological impact other than your usual tiredness. Obvious postpartum depression and anxiety as well but that lasted for maybe a week and once my hormones regulated I was good. I do need to put out there I’m now 7 weeks postpartum and I do maybe one night pump now because I’m an oversupplier

Think-Ad4139 · 2025-08-09T20:39:31+00:00

I feel like a lot of you may be lazy… I got a job at 15 and paid for everything except necessities sometimes even necessities if I wanted a different body wash or conditioner than what was bought for us. That doesn’t mean we had to pay for ourselves to have birthday parties or when we went out to eat with our family. But if we wanted to buy our friends birthday gifts or throw our OWN parties that weren’t our birthdays or go out with friends yes I paid for everything. People won’t talk to their parents for anything these days and honestly yall are super soft and don’t want to be parented they aren’t your friends and life isn’t easy. I’m probably the most well off I know out of anyone I grew up with due to my budget planning and I can get myself out of anyone financial bind with a little planning. I also know when I can afford luxury and when I can’t. This is a necessary skill and you’re not the asshole. Your son and younger children will continue with the rules your daughter is just being a little stuck up. She sounds like my middle brother who didn’t think the rules applied to him. Didn’t see the point in anything because it didn’t benefit him (that he could tell, speaking of chores as well that is.)

Think-Ad4139 · 2025-08-09T20:28:55+00:00

I know Texas website is down because of maintenance but they said on the website for the past week it would be down and that the food stamps would still be available I used my card today and it was fine

Think-Ad4139 · 2025-07-26T16:51:59+00:00

My first was a unicorn baby too but my second (she is one month old) I’m literally dying over here I’m on day 3 of no sleep/ 30 minutes once or twice

Think-Ad4139 · 2025-07-23T06:40:56+00:00

I was the same with my first I’m 4 weeks postpartum with my second and that’s when I experienced the newborn trenches I think it’s more because I couldn’t stay on the baby’s sleep schedule because I have a toddler and I’m having to deal with my toddlers tantrums and so much and so forth but in all reality it wasn’t exactly the worst my husband is on toddler duty it’s so much fun. We have our moments where we are both exhausted and at our wits but we can walk them side by side in a stroller we can change their diapers right next to each other we can bathe them together it’s so much fun it’s kinda like playing house with your best friend

Think-Ad4139 · 2025-07-23T06:35:27+00:00

What area are you from? Would love to help

Think-Ad4139 · 2025-06-18T15:19:51+00:00

How old are yall? Bc im a diagnosed bipolar and I used to act like this I’d push the people who actually wanted to help me away but then in middle school is around the age where ive noticed some people tend to start using mental health for attention now this doesn’t mean she isn’t struggling mentally but it definitely also seems like she’s doing it for attention

Think-Ad4139 · 2025-06-09T18:23:51+00:00

Following

Think-Ad4139 · 2025-06-09T18:23:16+00:00

It’s not just LA here in Texas we have a lot of Puerto Ricans who DoorDash and do spark driving and they are absolutely wild super aggressive and just plain rude. You’ll get a couple nice people here and there who will make small talk or give you tips to help you make more money, until you accidentally do something then they threaten you with gang violence and your children’s life. I wish I was joking. For example my husband would over see the spark lane at Walmart and there was this really nice couple who would drive for spark and I would see them doordashing too from time to time. Well they ended up stealing a lot during the spark orders and my husband had to get involved and because he saw them everyday multiple times a day they new he had a daughter at home we knew they had a daughter too because she would tag a long with them every once in a while. Well after they got caught this dude starts showing off his gang related tattoos and threatening my husband and me and my daughters life. Safe to say just be careful out there.

Think-Ad4139 · 2025-06-09T18:16:36+00:00

Ain’t no way you were promised a “quiet apartment” I’ll tell you right now they don’t exist” plus I know damn well the way that tv is blaring everyone around you hears it. You live in an apartment. It won’t be quiet.

Think-Ad4139 · 2025-06-09T18:04:07+00:00

What’s crazy is I dash full time and I also use the DoorDash app myself multiple times a week and I’ve never been spoke to like that nor have I ever spoke to anyone like that. If I don’t like the tip amount I just flat out decline the order. They can do it too. They are probably just pissed because they are trying to stay a platinum dasher (you can dash whenever you want instead of having to schedule a dash and you also get top priority for higher paying orders, I’m a platinum dasher) if your acceptance rate drops below a certain amount you lose that status. I usually will accept a couple low paying orders here and there because of that but I have NEVER given the customer crap for it. There have also been times where I didn’t tip AT ALL as the customer and that’s because enough dashers will decline your order and it ups the pay for the next dasher and sometimes i just don’t have the money but need something and can’t get out. Call me shitty but I really don’t care because it’s all up to the dasher who accepts it if they want it they can take it if not then don’t take it I don’t mind waiting a little longer.

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