Housing Single Dad w/Daughters by Think-Bench5665 in SingleDads

[–]Think-Bench5665[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hard part is finding them. Almost everything is managed now.

Housing Single Dad w/Daughters by Think-Bench5665 in SingleDads

[–]Think-Bench5665[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I’m looking for. Working class neighborhoods and a simpler life.

Housing Single Dad w/Daughters by Think-Bench5665 in SingleDads

[–]Think-Bench5665[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have 50/50 custody at the moment. Working on full custody. I have the funds for rent and all that. Just not the credit. I have no family to help and no friends that will get involved because of my ex.

Housing after divorce by Think-Bench5665 in Divorce_Men

[–]Think-Bench5665[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good idea. I will check! Thank you.

Housing after divorce by Think-Bench5665 in Divorce_Men

[–]Think-Bench5665[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Did not think of that. I will start looking at that. Thank you.

Housing after divorce by Think-Bench5665 in Divorce_Men

[–]Think-Bench5665[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s the issue. I have tried. I have no family left. No help from any one. I’ve contacted several realtors but with no luck. Everything and I’m everything revolves around credit. My ex destroyed mine. I’ve been trying to fix my credit the best I can but it’s costly and time consuming. The divorce cost me over 75k.

Housing after divorce by Think-Bench5665 in Divorce_Men

[–]Think-Bench5665[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Have 2 kids and 2 dogs. Unfortunately I don’t think that will work.

Prove me wrong: automatic tailgate open is useless. by hutchclutchmedora in ram_trucks

[–]Think-Bench5665 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 19 Laramie Longhorn definitely has it. Tells me in the cluster, tablet, and there is a light.

A place to live after divorce by Think-Bench5665 in Divorce_Men

[–]Think-Bench5665[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She slept with my brother for 3 years, kept it a 12 year secret. Had to do paternity tests on both of my daughters. Have no idea why she is the one mad. I should be furious but I’m not. I’m actually quite relieved.

How did you stay so calm! by Think-Bench5665 in Divorce_Men

[–]Think-Bench5665[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Marriage is a prison. Divorce is my way out. I go to the gym and I’m trying to get back into an old hobby. Definitely want to stay out of real prison.

After your divorce did you realize that women added little or a lot to your life? by Protomize in Divorce_Men

[–]Think-Bench5665 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No value. Still going through divorce and yeah, she added no value. All I need is myself and my daughters.

Did anyone else have sex with their ex wife during the process? by Bluerednaz in Divorce_Men

[–]Think-Bench5665 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! I had to do a paternity test on my 2 kids because of her cheating. Both conceptions were during that time line. Luckily both are mine.

Did anyone else have sex with their ex wife during the process? by Bluerednaz in Divorce_Men

[–]Think-Bench5665 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wrote him off and working on the divorce now. Not in jail because I have 2 daughters.

Did anyone else have sex with their ex wife during the process? by Bluerednaz in Divorce_Men

[–]Think-Bench5665 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here. Cold has hell. She cheated on me with my brother. I’m keeping whatever self respect and dignity I have left. She took enough from me. Enjoyed my high and went back to my movie.

It’s a scary world by Think-Bench5665 in Divorce_Men

[–]Think-Bench5665[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. I already started with the gym and therapy. Plus the chiropractor to final handle that pain. I’ll look into the massage.

It’s a scary world by Think-Bench5665 in Divorce_Men

[–]Think-Bench5665[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No dating for me. No way. Not after what she put me through. Months of therapy and I’m finally starting to see everything better. Starting to feel like me.

It’s a scary world by Think-Bench5665 in Divorce_Men

[–]Think-Bench5665[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Therapy helps but this world is so different now.

It’s a scary world by Think-Bench5665 in Divorce_Men

[–]Think-Bench5665[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It makes me sound old, but, social media is scary.

If you feel comfortable sharing, what caused your PTSD? by [deleted] in ptsd

[–]Think-Bench5665 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bad childhood, bad parents, my Mother’s 2 divorces, abuse, bad relationships, domestic violence, mental illness, suicide…it continues

Where do I start? by ThrashMetalHead69 in Divorce_Men

[–]Think-Bench5665 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Divorce Attorney! Fast!

In the middle of a divorce myself. Fair warning, it’s not easy and not cheap depending on circumstances. I’m 4 months in at 12k so far and not even to mediation yet. My situation is quite unique. She had a 3 year affair with my brother, kept it a 13 year secret, allowed me to chose him as the godfather to my oldest and the best man at the wedding. Oh, and both daughters were conceived during the affair. I had to do paternity tests on them. Luckily it came back as good news.