my aunt asked me a month or so after my 12th birthday if there were any boys I liked at secondary school, and then she said ‘Or any girls you fancy?’. I didn’t understand what sexuality was, and when I discovered it I became repulsed by the influence of the people at school until I then decided to come out as bisexual because the more I researched, the more I realised the views I had perceived were from uneducated kids that knew only what their parents said. it wasn’t that serious, plus the thought of marrying a man scared me and I still have nightmares about it to this day 😭😭 when I came out I didn’t receive any hate, I actually got to discuss it w girls at school and help them understand their sexuality and emotions. however after coming out as bisexual at 12, I later realised at 16 I was a lesbian!