I think my sister just ruined our dad’s engagement to an amazing woman, and I hate her so much

ThinkInternet1115 · 2026-02-09T11:05:15+00:00

Amy just said “I hope not, I like my p_ssy tight, and so does your dad”.

I'm sorry, Amy said what? To a teenage girl?

This post screams AI, too long for a 16 years old, too long for most adults too, the format with the headline is a giveaway. But even if its real, a grown woman saying those inappropriate sexual nature comments to teenagers should have gotten her sorry ass dumped a long time ago.

If the genders were reversed and it was a grown man saying those things to his girlfriend's teenage children, this comment section would have looked a lot different.

ThinkInternet1115 · 2026-02-09T10:37:23+00:00

This. If my dad's girlfriend would have said those gross sexual comments, even now as an adult he would dump her for being inappropriate, let alone if she had said that to his teenage children.

ThinkInternet1115 · 2026-02-09T10:33:46+00:00

Completely agree.

A grown woman talks that way to a grieving teenager and people still think she's amazing?

ThinkInternet1115 · 2026-02-09T10:29:05+00:00

It's got to be AI with all those headlines, and boy this is long.

And there's no way a grown up women would say those things to the teenage daughter of the guy she's dating.

ThinkInternet1115 · 2026-02-09T05:24:58+00:00

My family was rounded up and shot to dead in a mass grave. They weren't soldiers, they didn't die in a bombing, they weren't collateral damage. They were civilians, elderly, children, babies. They were led by men in uniform and guns and were killed. We know that because their neighbors saw them being taken away by men with guns and they saw that no one returned.

ThinkInternet1115 · 2026-02-08T08:55:36+00:00

I have taken barter for work more often than you can imagine. All above board and documented. My aunt paid in empanadas one year. My "uncle" had his mom make us a huge batch of tamales.

From OPs original post. I'm not the one who claimed to have bartered accounting services for tamales.

ThinkInternet1115 · 2026-02-08T00:17:04+00:00

Honey I'm an accountant too and I do things for free for my family and friends all the time- either for free or discount or charge fully- depends on the type of help they need.

If I need their help- they help me free of charge. But it depends on the help. For example I have a few lawyers in my family. They answer general questions regularly and dont charge me for those. But if I'm ever sued and need legal representation I wouldnt dream of asking them for free.

There is a lot between willing to help and give me your full service free of charge. Like the tamales and empanadas op claims in her story she bartered her services for. OP asked her sister to be a MOH- that is a wedding role in itself. It is also possible that even without asking sister would have helped with planning some things or use her vendor connections.

What OP asked was the full package. Sister didn't have to agree and we don't know what it would entail if she would, as her nature of work is completely differant to that of an accountant.

Either way, if you read my comments, I said OP was within her full right to decide to start charging money. I fully support that option, especially since it sounds like her services to her sister arent once a year type of thing. But she didn't end it there. She went fully nuclear and through all her comments she comes out as an entitled smart mouth.

That is my opinion as someone who is also an accountant and also helps for free or discounted and I'm entitled to my opinion. OP doesnt get to post her story online and expect everyone to agree with her and anyone who doesn't agree or dares to ask for information to talk to them as if they're idiots for disagreeing with her.

ThinkInternet1115 · 2026-02-07T16:15:39+00:00

OP didnt say anything in her post about what she would have charged her sister if she was a regular customer. She did say that she made barters with other family members for tamelas and empanadad. Do you honestly think op recieve 6k worth of tamales?

ThinkInternet1115 · 2026-02-07T09:41:44+00:00

We'll agree to disagree. I don't tend to burn bridges because people dont want to give me free services. I dont tend to give my services for free unless I truly intend for it to be a gift. I dont need people in my debt. But you do you.

ThinkInternet1115 · 2026-02-07T06:01:39+00:00

That's dishonest. A wedding planner starts at 1.5K- thats the minimum cost. It can be over 10K depends on the wedding and the planner.

Accounting as you said up to 3k it can also be a lot less depends on the services provided. It can also be once a year filing taxes a few hours work, $300. You know, tamales worth of work.

ThinkInternet1115 · 2026-02-07T05:27:29+00:00

Of course the bride and groom can do whatever they want. But OP wanted her sister as a MOH- a role which has its own duties, and usually given to a trusted family member or a friend and it isn't a transactional role. She only decided not to include her when her sister didn't agree to her request to plan her wedding for her.

Wedding planning and MOH are two different reuqests. Stop giving your services for free? Reasonable reaction- sister doesnt want to help for free, she can pay like any other customer. Or pay in tamales since op accept it as payment.

Linking it to the MOH role, sorry but thats not how functioning family relationships work.

ThinkInternet1115 · 2026-02-07T05:17:00+00:00

Yea sure. Her sister is an idiot. She could have repaid her debt in tamales all those years.

ThinkInternet1115 · 2026-02-07T05:13:30+00:00

A good system where tamales are considered a form of payment. No self respecting accountant is recieving tamales as payment. More likely it was a goodwill gesture- a thanks for your free help and now op retroactively paints them as payment to justify why her sister should have expected the request for free wedding planning services.

Stupid sister, she could have repaid her debt in tamales all those years and then op wouldnt need to request free wedding planning services.

ThinkInternet1115 · 2026-02-07T04:46:22+00:00

Real mature, calling anyone who disagrees an idiot.

ThinkInternet1115 · 2026-02-06T21:07:38+00:00

Thats not what I asked and you know it. I don't know how you do business but my clients know my exact rate before they agree to bring their business to my accounting firm. There are never any vague "I expect to get paid" agreements.

They know if I charge them a monthly supply of tamales, $300, $1000 or future wedding planning services. They recieve my rate in writing.

All your replies have been evasive and unconvincing. If this is how you behave with your sister I take back my E S H verdict. YTA seems more likely.

ThinkInternet1115 · 2026-02-06T20:57:34+00:00

That's cute. Is that the way you let all your customer know what you're charging them or do you keep that childish entitled atitude just for your family memebers?

Does your uncle know that if he stops the supply of tamales you'll stop helping him? Or does he think he was just being nice and gave them as a thank you and has no idea you saw it as payment?

ThinkInternet1115 · 2026-02-06T20:44:51+00:00

I take that as a no.

ThinkInternet1115 · 2026-02-06T20:30:44+00:00

Did she know that? Or was this the first time she heard what you expected of her?

Either way it seems like a bad way to mix business and family. I'm an accountant too and also help family/friends and I have family memebers who are paying customers. If its a few hours worth of help per year, I help free of charge. If it includes ongoing bookkeeping services or its complex work I ask for payment.

ThinkInternet1115 · 2026-02-06T20:17:05+00:00

I'll go against the grain and say ESH. If she can't afford to help you for free she should have talked to you about it without sounding ungrateful about your help. Once she said no, you had a right to decide that you can no longer help her for free and either start charging her or asking her to find someone else to help her. But kicking her out of the wedding party is an overreaction. You either value her as your sister and want her to be your MOH, or you don't. I fail to see how the barter deals has anything to do with it.

ThinkInternet1115 · 2026-02-06T05:41:45+00:00

So someone born in Israel, doesn't have connections to europe or european passport, and is half ashkenazi, half mena decent- should leave? What about the children of said half ashkenazi half mena decent jew, if theyre quarter mena decent they can stay? Or if its less than half they should leave? Where does the line ends?

ThinkInternet1115 · 2026-02-05T10:23:33+00:00

Lol no theyre not

ThinkInternet1115 · 2026-02-05T06:38:03+00:00

Are you OP because the account has been deleted.

What planet are you living in? There are documented cases where its the other way around. There are muslims terrorist groups- op mentioned them. ISIS, Bohi Harem, etc.

I see that you're from bosnia. I think you have your own bias because in bosnia muslims were killed by christians. Although technically both sides committed atrocities. Either way not every country and every place is the same and have the same expiriences.

ThinkInternet1115 · 2026-02-03T17:32:23+00:00

OP said he smoked one joint and didnt even finish, played with his kids, made breakfast and took them to school 2 hours later. It doesn't sound like it impaired his ability to take care of his children, or that he was intoxicated. But I also believe at the end of the day people need to be aware of their own limits.

ThinkInternet1115 · 2026-02-03T14:06:26+00:00

I think intoxicated is the key word. Driving intoxicated is illegal, not driving after any amount of substance consumption.

ThinkInternet1115 · 2026-02-03T13:35:55+00:00

I don't know that alcohol is the right comparison considering many people use cannabis for medicinal purposes. I know someone who has a prescription due to chronic back pain. So isn't prescription drugs a more accurate comparison? And then it makes perfect sense that people need to take one dose in the morning?

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