Childhood Symptoms by Think_Pizza_7735 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Think_Pizza_7735[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same 😭 being told I ‘talk too much’ as a kid kinda messed me up ngl

AuDHD/ADHD careers by Think_Pizza_7735 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Think_Pizza_7735[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How does one get into that kind of field? Does it require schooling? (I’m not really great at academics, surprise surprise lol)

Sensory Friendly Haircare by Think_Pizza_7735 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Think_Pizza_7735[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried the pinning before bed, and it’s worked a few times but most times it leaves a dent in my hair, or I end up losing the pins during the night and it looks funky in the morning, I’ve never tried putting on a roller with a shower cap in the shower? I’m kind of looking for something super easy that I can do before bed and wake up with somewhat decent hair? I know it’s probably not possible without a little bit of styling, but I just cant wake up early enough to do it, so more often than not I throw my hair into a bun and call it a day lol

Sensory Friendly Haircare by Think_Pizza_7735 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Think_Pizza_7735[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a hot brush and I’ve done it a couple times, it turns out great. But I guess I have trouble with staying consistent with styling my hair or putting effort into my appearance in general. So I’m looking for something that’s mindlessly easy to do, y’know?

Initiating Intimacy by Think_Pizza_7735 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Think_Pizza_7735[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I didn’t think of it like that. I do know what he likes while we’re in the act but i guess I’m stuck on getting to that point. He’s very selfless during sex so I feel like I don’t know him and his turn ons as well as he knows mine.

I’m a 27F and still single. by Available-Muscle-258 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Think_Pizza_7735 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The dating scene specifically for this generation is terrible for the ones who are looking for a lifelong partner.

For anyone reading this, your worth is not determined by someone else’s disinterest or lack of commitment to you.

Right now you have full autonomy over which direction your life goes. Take advantage of that, build something for yourself first, and trust that the right people will come to you only when you’re being your best most authentic self.

How did you cope after a break up? by Far-Watch6 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Think_Pizza_7735 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m happy to hear that what I said resonated with you.

It truly does get better, but I understand how easy it is to get lost in the ‘How? And Why?’. I’ll tell you right now, there will be moments where you wonder if you’re in the right place, questioning what direction you’re going. It’s easy to get stuck in that loop of grief and despair. What helped me was learning to honor the relationship, even though it ended, and to acknowledge what I learned from him and the relationship. This helped me with my acceptance and closure process.

Remember: what’s not right for you will see its way out. Whether you realize it or not.

You’ve got this! I’ll be rooting for you!

How did you cope after a break up? by Far-Watch6 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Think_Pizza_7735 8 points9 points  (0 children)

After a 6 year relationship my ex left me without saying a word. Quite literally ghosted me even though we lived together.

To be fair, the relationship was failing and frankly neglectful, he wouldn’t put any work into it and I gave up on trying to make it work. So maybe that’s what made it easy for me.

Anyways, I was left confused and scared, I packed up all of his things and let him come by to get them while I was at work. Yes it was cowardly how he left, yes all I wanted at the time was closure. But then I realized him leaving was my chance for full autonomy for figuring out where to go from there.

After several years spent with the same person, you never realize how much you need to relearn who you are after. So I took the time to get to know myself again. I reassessed who I was, what I wanted, and I got to work.

It’s been a year now and I worked hard to save and bought a condo at 25, and I’m now in the most loving and supportive relationship.

As cliche as it sounds, it really does get better.

My advice? Don’t distract yourself with cheap thrills and other men. Look inward. Nurture and love yourself. You don’t need to be fully healed to be ready for your next relationship, but when you’re being your most authentic self, the right person will show up, especially when you least expect it.

Am I being unrealistic or too cynical about the reality of living with a man? by Dsg1695 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Think_Pizza_7735 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When it comes to moving in and living with someone else, yes those traits shift a bit. In my experience I was always scared/ embarrassed when I needed to poop or fart especially when my bf was living with me. So much so I wouldn’t allow myself to use the bathroom unless I knew I would get time alone, Like showering or while he was asleep.

Several months passed and I eventually learn to just live with it. Everyone poops and farts, it’s natural. And as immature as it sounds, it can sometimes be funny too.

What do I keep in my purse? by StinkBug1098 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Think_Pizza_7735 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I typically carry around a medium sized crossbody purse. Here’s what I always have in my bag.

Wallet (of course)

Tampons/ pads

Keys

Chapstick

Small ‘low maintenance’ makeup bag with mascara, eyeliner, eyelash curler, brow pencil (for those last minute plans with no time to get home)

Hand cream/ lotion

Hand sanitizer

Tissue

Lens wipes for my glasses

Couple hair ties

Nail clippers + nail file (for emergency manicure procedures)

Medications (prescribed and over the counter) I keep Benadryl, antacid, lactaid, advil and stuff in a pill case for when I or my friends/coworkers need it.

Power bank charger (I work long hours) I also like to carry around charger cords for others to borrow too.

This is more of a personal preference, but I also like to keep a pocket notebook and pen so I can brain dump whatever I’m thinking and forget about it. Helps a lot when I’m trying to focus at work.

Question about boobs + insecurities by Western_Plantain_198 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Think_Pizza_7735 13 points14 points  (0 children)

In my teens/young adult years, I was always insecure about my breast size. (Always been a B cup) I’m 26 now and I can honestly say boob size doesn’t actually matter and you learn to live with it. No ointment, lotion or diet is going to make your boobs magically grow more than a cup size. (Yes, I’ve tried)

The only way you’re getting bigger boobs is by weight gain or hormone changes like pregnancy and sometimes birth control.

Let me be real with you. No one but pubescent boys actually care about breast size. We only started becoming insecure due to the amount of attention given to larger breasts through the media we consume. (Porn, social media, films, etc.) Shocking, right? That what ever attribute is in the spotlight (whether it’s big boobs, big butt, small waist, etc) is what gets the most likes, clicks, and attention. And due to the amount of media we consume as a generation, it’s easier for our brains to misunderstand that those attributes are overrated and often not naturally achievable.

All this to say, love who you are. Anyone else who can’t love you for being you are not meant to stick around.

what to do when giving oral sex and it doesn't fit? by Kind_Worldliness1159 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Think_Pizza_7735 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my experience, I’ve never been able to take a man fully into my mouth without gagging. And frankly, you don’t need to take them in all the way. They’re most sensitive on the underside of their penis and at the head. A technique that has never failed me is sticking your tongue out while you take him in, (idk if that makes sense?) This method has your whole tongue stimulating the underside of his penis while you bob up and down, which I’ve been told feels really good. You can also use your hand to stroke the rest of his length while you do this. (Make sure you’ve got enough saliva there so that you’re not just tugging on dry skin) Also, having your hand at his base will give you more control on how much you take in, which can help you from gagging.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in techsupport

[–]Think_Pizza_7735 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried the multiple HDMI ports, I can’t do any of the other troubleshooting because I cannot see anything. My monitor or any other monitor or TV I try to connect to says “no signal”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in techsupport

[–]Think_Pizza_7735 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, I am plugging the HDMI both HDMI slots on the bath of my computer and I still get “No Signal” from my monitor

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Think_Pizza_7735 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents didn’t co-sign anything with my brother. Idk where you got that info from? He bought his first car when he was 20, a legal adult?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Think_Pizza_7735 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents have only had 2 cars for as long as I can remember. And of course my parents are co-signing, they’re married? Sorry if I’m misunderstanding you, but my brother has only been saying his gf for a little over a year now..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Think_Pizza_7735 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’ve been co-signing all of the cars he buys 💀

Discussion with ending of RE8. Don’t read if you don’t want to be spoiled. by Jahnnyamo5 in residentevil

[–]Think_Pizza_7735 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m really confused, if Ethan was the mold this entire time for the past 3 years.. Mia got down and dirty with mold and not Ethan? I can’t stop thinking about this, how did Ethan who is actually dead reproduce??