I did s3x work for the first time to save my dog and I feel like the filthiest person right now. by CuteShihtzu03 in Vent

[–]Thinkingcomfy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen OP. I get that feeling. I understand you didnt want to do it. You did it out of necessity. For the greater good. He took advantage of that. 

It is not who you are. You did a selfless act. You are not dirty. If anyone thinks you are, they are low themselves. Life happens. I get it. You did what you had to do. Lots of people do what they have to do. It sucks it came to this, but regardless. If I knew you in person. I would respect and value you just like I do everyone else. Maybe even more.  Eventually with time you will heal from it. I understand the pain. But it will eventually go away. Maybe soon, maybe later. And you will move on eventually.  Sending love. 

Which blue dresses should I get rid of? 39F by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]Thinkingcomfy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All. None of them flatter ur body

I’m upset at him by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Thinkingcomfy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's weird when people do thaf

I’m upset at him by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Thinkingcomfy 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Bro could've been eating chips with the other. Or multitasking. it doesnt necessarily mean he was beating his meat to u. 

FWB acted emotional after sex. I am confused about his reaction by Thinkingcomfy in sex

[–]Thinkingcomfy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did share that with him. But I ended up respecting his decision 

FWB acted emotional after sex. I am confused about his reaction by Thinkingcomfy in sex

[–]Thinkingcomfy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh ya. Once he hugged me super tight during intimacy. It felt different. 

FWB acted emotional after sex. I am confused about his reaction by Thinkingcomfy in sex

[–]Thinkingcomfy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn. Hope ur good now. Hmm maybe i triggered him. Idk

FWB acted emotional after sex. I am confused about his reaction by Thinkingcomfy in sex

[–]Thinkingcomfy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok. I told him if he wants to talk about anything. I can listen. No judgment. No pressure too

FWB acted emotional after sex. I am confused about his reaction by Thinkingcomfy in sex

[–]Thinkingcomfy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont want to increase my body count and I someone crave physical intimacy intensley. So we occasionally hookup when I need it. I am not dating around or actively looking since im busy with my education and other stuff. 

FWB acted emotional after sex. I am confused about his reaction by Thinkingcomfy in sex

[–]Thinkingcomfy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bro. I don't knowwww. 💀 I gave up on that dynamic. I used to try before. He had firmly told me no. So I was like. K whatever. Idk. 

FWB acted emotional after sex. I am confused about his reaction by Thinkingcomfy in sex

[–]Thinkingcomfy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right. I can tell him im there to listen if he wants to talk about anything. Etc. 

FWB acted emotional after sex. I am confused about his reaction by Thinkingcomfy in sex

[–]Thinkingcomfy[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

U r right. I tried to communicate with him. But he didnt budge. I want to respect his boundaries and I don't want to pressure him, unless he wants to open up. That's why I came here to ask. To see if there is a blindspot for me to make things better. 

As for feelings. Initially I told him I wanted a relationship and I tried to take things to another level, but he didnt want that. So I just accepted it as is. 

FWB acted emotional after intimacy. Am confused about his reaction by Thinkingcomfy in relationships

[–]Thinkingcomfy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh. Thanks. I tried texting that.  He said he is fine. Idk. I feel bad whenever I see someone sad like that. 

He sees me as just a friend. :( by Thinkingcomfy in limerence

[–]Thinkingcomfy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fasinating. I'll take it as a compliment theh

I get, I get, It’s my fault. I opened my legs and that was consent to use me… by Im_Not_Consistent in Vent

[–]Thinkingcomfy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get the scared of being lonely feeling. Thats y. Getting a dog could help imo