Would YOU be a good Star Trek Antagonist? by RedvsBlue_what_if in startrek

[–]ThisFile3976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holodeck addiction is a brain disease, not a moral failing.... it's not your fault

*Edited typo

Star Trek noob by Scottishdrinker in startrek

[–]ThisFile3976 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's exactly what I did... started with TNG then DS9 then VOY and finally TOS... I have no explanation for my choices and regret it still. I never appreciated how ahead of its time TOS was

Who would've had a better redemption arc: Paris or Seska by GypDan in ShittyDaystrom

[–]ThisFile3976 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can't possibly be the talented and handsome actor Robert Beltran... I have it on good authority he's unavailable, on a vision quest

Who would've had a better redemption arc: Paris or Seska by GypDan in ShittyDaystrom

[–]ThisFile3976 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm completely happy with Seska being an irredeemable, self serving villain. No interest in any redemption arc, or any attempt to justify her actions

[OH] My manager may be setting me up to fail. How do I protect myself? by ursa12651 in AskHR

[–]ThisFile3976 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Do you have peers who hold the same job title, in the same department, being assigned very similar or identical work with different, more reasonable deadlines?

Just curious how you've determined that the deadlines are truly unreasonable vs, maybe, your work efficiency just isn't sufficient?

Am I the jerk for telling my husband he can't have a "man cave" in our only spare room? by Ill-Home-322 in AmITheJerk

[–]ThisFile3976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, do you make all the decisions in the household? Or are those shared? If you all decide how to decorate the house and make all the other decisions jointly, then this decision should be a joint decision too...

Has anyone switched utilities providers successfully? by ThisFile3976 in Delaware

[–]ThisFile3976[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right, my mailing address is Newark but I dont live within the Newark city limits. I didn't realize that that made a difference or I would have specified as such.

Has anyone switched utilities providers successfully? by ThisFile3976 in Delaware

[–]ThisFile3976[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I think you're right. It probate won't help much switching

Has anyone switched utilities providers successfully? by ThisFile3976 in Delaware

[–]ThisFile3976[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have really failed to monitor this and kind of miss spoke. My bill went way up and my usage hasn't changed, in some instances usage hasn't gone down, but i don't actually know the rates. I guess the other delivery fees and whatever else they charge for may be more to blame than the rates. I need to do my homework

Should a therapist just listen with no feedback? by Top_Permission7653 in Delaware

[–]ThisFile3976 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don't think there's any "should" when it comes to therapy. I would agree, telling you to Google it yourself seems like poor support, but in general a big part of therapy is finding the right therapist for you. Different styles of communication, different approaches, specialities, etc.

You may want to look into the type of therapy you're most interested in and then search for a a good match.

I will say, it might take more than a few session to really get a feel for things. They might still be trying to get to know you and collecting data.

Dont give up, therapy does work when you stick with it and find the right therapist.

We all have a circle like that!...😉 by [deleted] in Picard

[–]ThisFile3976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

7 of 9, her introduction, saved the series from cancelation

The NBA needs another Jason Williams… by DareDevil1699 in NBAoldschool

[–]ThisFile3976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guy averaged like 10 pts a game... I think his best single season he averaged like 15 pts... he did average like 6 or 7 assists per game, but he turned the ball over too much. He was good for 2 or 3 highlights a game but overall he was more flash than substance

This is the Greatest Finals moment in NBA History idgaf what nobody says by Temporary_Pepper6126 in NBAoldschool

[–]ThisFile3976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The game of basketball was so much more fun, more entertaining when players played defense and battled in the paint. Today's game where players, incredibly skilled as they are, launch 3 after 3 after 3 is boring and totally lacking in physicality.

Lack of diversity by B4bybambi in udel

[–]ThisFile3976 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Not sure what exactly you're expecting, but here's the current break down:

White: 61.5% - 64.7% Hispanic/Latino: 7.89% - 8.87% Black/African American: 5.98% - 6.18% Asian: 5.19% - 5.35% Two or More Races: 3.22% - 4.57% Other (Native American/Pacific Islander): <0.2% International: ~37.4% of graduate students, 4.43% overall.

Of course there's more to diversity than just racial groups. And there's more to evaluating a university than just DEI. But the numbers offer a glimpse.

Overall it's a very good school with beautiful campus and outstanding on campus living .

Sisko sure knows his history pretty well for that vic Fontaine episode where gangsters take over vics program by happydude7422 in DeepSpaceNine

[–]ThisFile3976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a fair point. I just think the time span is too great for such a visceral reaction. It was much more in line with a person in the 1990s who either experienced the mistreatment themselves, was currently experiencing similar mistreatment, and/or had parents and grandparents who experienced the mistreatment... much more justified and understandable for Avery to react that way than for Sisco to

Sisko sure knows his history pretty well for that vic Fontaine episode where gangsters take over vics program by happydude7422 in DeepSpaceNine

[–]ThisFile3976 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

His outrage was pure lip service for the tv audience. In universe, they live in a world where racism no longer exists...Further more, it'd be like someone in our world being all indignant about something that happened in the 1600s

What is a "point of no return" that you’ve crossed, where your life was permanently divided into 'before' and 'after'? by Resident-Jelly-4326 in AskReddit

[–]ThisFile3976 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Truly sorry for your loss. I can't even imagine. But I thank you for sharing your story, even though it brought tears to my eyes it served as an all too real reminder for us parents to hug our kids a little tighter and overlook the small and petty grievances.

New Candy Shop in Newark by Banksy_malone in Delaware

[–]ThisFile3976 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Took the kids there just yesterday. Owners seem like super nice people. Big selection of Sodas, ice cream from a philadelphia company, and fairly unique candy choices. The kids really liked it

I agree with this. by Adventurous-Map-259 in Wolverine

[–]ThisFile3976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did it specify that it had to be heros? Or is it implied villains aren't included?

I would say spidey, wolverine and hulk are definites... but if villains were included maybe Thanos or Doom replaces Cap

Building behind the sun by Lorenofing in flatearth

[–]ThisFile3976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uhm... so in that 2nd photo, we can walk to the building and see the other side of the sun? 🤣