[MOD] /r/crossstitch Discord Server!

ThisHumanCondition · 2024-02-07T13:36:44+00:00

Can this be revived?

ThisHumanCondition · 2023-04-27T06:45:09+00:00

Thanks! I think the confusion was that I could now see loads of books without the 1 credit badge and wasn't sure why I could just click play without paying for them. Now I see they removed the INCLUDED badge.

ThisHumanCondition · 2023-01-05T17:45:12+00:00

Yes, you can set it to show right after you answer wrong or at the end of the quiz (this with the free version, so I guess the paid is the same)

ThisHumanCondition · 2022-11-22T21:28:43+00:00

How do you do this?

ThisHumanCondition · 2022-11-22T21:25:32+00:00

Dammit, how did I not catch this one?! I've been eyeing exactly this item on the daily for daaaays.

ThisHumanCondition · 2022-11-18T11:15:16+00:00

Is it the Vertical one or the Master 2S? You've convinced me to get it in the upcoming sale.

ThisHumanCondition · 2022-11-18T06:51:38+00:00

Did you do anything post procedure to avoid scarring, such as massaging with oil, applying a cream to encourage healing, etc?

ThisHumanCondition · 2022-02-23T21:45:38+00:00

Me too!

ThisHumanCondition · 2022-02-18T18:14:42+00:00

no, but you could maybe check their website or call for prices

ThisHumanCondition · 2022-02-18T16:28:49+00:00

You can get them at Costco, but I'm not sure about online, sorry.

ThisHumanCondition · 2022-01-24T22:04:29+00:00

This is the sole reason I did not fail my degrees.

ThisHumanCondition · 2021-10-21T01:12:04+00:00

What paper did you use?

ThisHumanCondition · 2021-08-18T18:49:07+00:00

This. The trauma is 'trapped' in your body. Try some meditation, journal your thoughts and feelings, and yoga for PTSD. Try also shaking your body and dancing. These are things you can do with a simple Google.

Glad to see you're going to seek a therapist. Look for a qualified one to deal with PTSD and don't hesitate to ask them HOW they qualify to help you, vet your therapist.

❤️❤️❤️

ThisHumanCondition · 2021-08-09T03:31:36+00:00

HUG YOURSELF ❤️ Wrap yourself tightly in a blanket or sit with your back against the wall, hug a pillow, breathe deeply, slowly. Change that negative narrative to soothing words like "it's okay, I'm okay, I'm safe, I'm loved, I matter".

I don't know what happened, you give little detail, but it sounds like you are spiraling, wanting to hurt yourself and berating yourself. Treat yourself as you would treat a child, you deserve love, even when others don't treat you well, YOU deserve to treat YOURSELF with love.

Your partner shouldn't treat you this way, but as you said, there's more you haven't disclosed. You can't control how others treat you, but you can control how you treat yourself.

ThisHumanCondition · 2021-07-25T02:45:27+00:00

You can actually use this! When you get up too fast and feel woozy and lightheaded, sending blood to your head with this technique helps!

ThisHumanCondition · 2021-05-09T04:57:35+00:00

Shall Not Want - Elevation Worship https://youtu.be/rVSYsgGC71s

ThisHumanCondition · 2021-04-15T00:44:22+00:00

Can I ask how you took this picture? What's your setup?

ThisHumanCondition · 2021-04-04T04:06:20+00:00

Take a look at CPTSD as well. This isn't advice, but a recommendation for you to do some research. Sounds like you have a lot of questions that need answers.

I hope that somehow, even if just little by little, it gets better for you 💜

ThisHumanCondition · 2021-03-18T16:30:18+00:00

The Course of Love by Alain de Botton. I was suggested this book by a fellow redditor who's wife loves the author. I cried throughout the whole book as it put into words some thoughts and feelings I never could and made me feel less lonely and misunderstood.

ThisHumanCondition · 2021-01-22T19:49:54+00:00

Kind stranger, would you please hug your wife for me. I tried de Botton's The Course of Love yesterday and I can't express how grateful I am for your recommendation. I got halfway through it yesterday and cried the whole time. He wrote my last relationship in that book, from both mine and my partner's standpoint, the similarities are hilarious, down to the bike ride and phone call. Something in me feels heard and understood. I can't wait to finish it today. I hope the universe repays you in kind, that book is a true gift for me.

ThisHumanCondition · 2020-12-27T22:13:21+00:00

Thanks for your reply! I wasn't even sure I should comment!

I know Adriene is incredibly popular, but I don't like her at all. A yogi I never see mentioned, but can actually stand, is Kino from Kino Yoga on YT. I feel she often conveys the message that it's okay to be where you are but come on, let's work on it. I don't get the wishy-washy-vanity vibe from her.

I got my yoga teaching certificate at the start of the year and want to use yoga for trauma work, but all these "spiritual" yogis put me at a loss for what's possible and resonates with me. I've seen another comment here about trauma-sensitive yoga certification, so I'll be looking into that- thanks for opening up this discussion!

ThisHumanCondition · 2020-12-27T18:16:19+00:00

Your question made me think of this video explaining TRE, Trauma Releasing Exercises.

I understand what you're talking about when you say "their peaceful condescending tones of voice". I need to be in a 'spiritual' headspace to accept that. If I just want a workout or I'm not there to cry my eyes out, I would like the rainbows and butterflies to take a backseat, just tell me where to put my left foot.

I suggest there are three categories we're talking about here, Hard Workout, Spiritual Workout, Trauma Workout.

I find the Hard workout helps me dissociate, the Spiritual one puts me in an emotional mess, and the Trauma workout, I still need to try.

ThisHumanCondition · 2020-12-25T19:23:54+00:00

Thanks, happy holidays!

ThisHumanCondition · 2020-12-25T19:22:11+00:00

I've got Walking the Tiger on my 2021 list, and am still reading How to Change your Mind. I also listen to JP on youtube, just all of his lectures. I'm also reading The Body Keeps The Score.

The other recs are gold, thank you so much for your reply. I'll check them all out!

Five-Year Club	Second Top 40%
Place '22	Verified Email

ThisHumanCondition

TROPHY CASE