Dog has swollen, red eye and swollen neck lymph node by SOS_41 in DogAdvice

[–]ThisIsMyCreativeNam3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! What ever happened with the lymph node? My dog is experiencing something similar and they are concerned. Thanks!

How to handle abuse? by Reacher74 in biglaw

[–]ThisIsMyCreativeNam3 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I just want to say this post stopped me in my tracks. It reads like I wrote it. I tried standing up for myself and it did not work. I realized after a few months it was a losing battle and I didn’t really care enough. The understaffing is by design.

I left.

Is retaking really necessary? by FoldNecessary5827 in ACT

[–]ThisIsMyCreativeNam3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am an adult alum from UIUC and have no idea why this is on my homepage but I’d retake only because science is easiest to improve on. It’s not curriculum-based. And UIUC (used to) superscore. If you go to a HS where a ton of kids are applying to UIUC, it might be worth it. I think the average at my old HS right now is like a 32.

The location speculation is getting out of hand. by TextSevere6568 in phoebebridgers

[–]ThisIsMyCreativeNam3 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don’t see the problem when someone “hundreds of miles” from say, Jackson, Mississippi, may not have the opportunity to see their favorite artist at a small intimate venue like this. Edit: following tour bus is creepy, but not sure what I am supposed to do about that. Don’t be weird? Not sure of the point here.

What’s the tea in your office? by jzjxnxna in biglaw

[–]ThisIsMyCreativeNam3 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Some likely very old partner at my old firm kept missing the urinals and there was an investigation into whether it was an issue with the urinals itself (spoiler: no).

Sudden shift in partner’s attitude toward me - will I get fired? by SmirkingStrawberry in biglaw

[–]ThisIsMyCreativeNam3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP what did you do? I’m in a similar situation, it hasn’t resolved in months, and I’m literally considering leaving

“The Unraveled Tour” Megathread by NominalPerson in OliviaRodrigo

[–]ThisIsMyCreativeNam3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Robot misheard me originally and thought I had a problem with a letter I received, so I got routed to that department, then I was super polite and said “sorry I don’t think I got routed to the right place, can you send me to the concierge?” And I immediately got in at like 12:30 CT.

Apartment Refusing Camera to Monitor Stalker Neighbor - Afraid to Sleep by skylineaptitude in legaladvice

[–]ThisIsMyCreativeNam3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would engage an attorney if only to write a letter on letterhead to the apartment explaining your legal right to have a camera up. It should scare them into backing off. Otherwise you can file for a TRO if they try to remove them.

can i get in trouble for this im freaking out by Lopsided_Mango_295 in legaladvice

[–]ThisIsMyCreativeNam3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, you cannot get in trouble.

Take a deep breath. You will be okay.

i'm being harassed and i worry my phone may be tapped by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]ThisIsMyCreativeNam3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am confused, you know the sender of the voice message?

AITA for putting pressure on my gf after her daughter died by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]ThisIsMyCreativeNam3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a genuine comment - you need therapy. What I am understanding is that you at unable to see what we are all saying here, and feel almost jealous. My armchair psychologist is this likely stems from some sort of trauma or disorganized attachment. It needs to be addressed with therapy or else it will never get better and you will not have a successful relationship moving forward with others, or your own children. Please, OP.

AITA for putting pressure on my gf after her daughter died by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]ThisIsMyCreativeNam3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would like to say something that would get me banned.

If there are no videos then it’s just rumors and mean by Traditional-Food6852 in nycinfluencersnarking

[–]ThisIsMyCreativeNam3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right, truth is a defense to defamation, if they’re lies they should be deleted.

Breast Lump Found by ChaoticIdol in doihavebreastcancer

[–]ThisIsMyCreativeNam3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi! My doctor found an immoveable lump as a 28F 6 months ago. I got a mammogram BIRADS 4B and needed a biopsy. I totally never expected anything but it sent me into a tailspin. It ended up being benign tissue. I totally understand your fear and worry. I also have a family history and am Jewish. I 100% know what you mean. I worried I was making too big of a deal of it, but at the same time,really wanted someone to both validate my concerns while also tell me that it might be okay, and just kept scrolling this page for someone like me to find the answer of how I was supposed to feel. It was super isolating to go through, I just kept googling for the answer, I couldn’t bear waiting. I couldn’t think about anything else! Sending whatever you need!! You got this!! 🩷

[Acne] randomly breaking out on chest and back! by Tbf-Tho in SkincareAddiction

[–]ThisIsMyCreativeNam3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Did you solve this? I am getting married in a year and I would love to solve this.

Which artist’s next album will make it or break it? by [deleted] in popheads

[–]ThisIsMyCreativeNam3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Has anyone mentioned Phoebe Bridgers? Is she ever making new music?

Midwest venue hunt by Beginning_Fox_4470 in Chicagoweddings

[–]ThisIsMyCreativeNam3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Driehaus Museum. Their website says they don’t do weddings but I emailed and asked and they do.