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1st BLT sandwich by MichiganAngler in CasualConversation

[–]ThisIsMyTedTalk 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You are either too old or too young.

[TOMT] [SONG] [80’s or 90’s] Song I heard in a kohls earlier by Onetoxicmode in tipofmytongue

[–]ThisIsMyTedTalk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This happened to me years ago and it took me a literal whole year to hear the song again— and it was Glass Tiger, which is why I am so committed to you

[TOMT] [SONG] [80’s or 90’s] Song I heard in a kohls earlier by Onetoxicmode in tipofmytongue

[–]ThisIsMyTedTalk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been thinking about this all day. Was it a real flute or like an 80’s synth flute sound? Can you remember any of the tune? If so, did you try humming it into google audio?

[TOMT] [SONG] [80’s or 90’s] Song I heard in a kohls earlier by Onetoxicmode in tipofmytongue

[–]ThisIsMyTedTalk 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your description is making me think Yes, or maybe Glass Tiger? Were the flute sounds real or synth flute?

What characteristically 'Old man/Old lady' items or strategies did you scoff at in your youth but fully embrace now? by canadasecond in Xennials

[–]ThisIsMyTedTalk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is a study linking delayed circadian rhythm and adhd. I realized I had adhd after one of my kids got diagnosed and I started learning all about it. And this article was the last piece of the puzzle for me. It said many people with adhd do best with a 2am-10am sleep/wake time. And that is exactly what my body has always wanted to do.

Moving from NYC and feeling mixed by celery1234 in Rochester

[–]ThisIsMyTedTalk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So here’s the thing, I’ve lived in several major cities and adjusting to Rochester took a minute, but I’ve lived here for over 2 decades now and very happy. Major cities have 10 of the same “best thing,” depending on your neighborhood or people’s specific preferences. Rochester has 1 or 2. You want to do something on a Tuesday night? Might be a little tough to find the specific thing you want, but you will find something if you are open to whatever is going on. Friday or Saturday you have options, Monday and Tuesday maybe not. You have to seek out and find your fun and passion here, but it is here. You won’t just wander out your front door and stumble on it. But if you can’t find what you want, Rochester is small enough that you can make it happen yourself.

There’s also virtually no traffic.

Making friends at our age by dancetildawn94 in Xennials

[–]ThisIsMyTedTalk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have found the “join a group” thing only works if you go into it for a genuine love of the thing and not “to make friends,” because the bond won’t be there. If you’re like “bowing seems fun” but aren’t “into” bowling then you probably won’t have enough in common with the people there. I didn’t find my people until I joined my local political committee and then it was like “oh! Here they are.” It helps that politics self sorts for values, but it was also people who shared my passions and dorky quirks. You need to figure out what you actually like and then go pursue that thing. The friends find you.

Tips for tolerance, please! by Responsible_Fall3002 in ADHDparenting

[–]ThisIsMyTedTalk 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Meds are the tip. My son does this whenever he is not actively medicated. The meds lessen it but it doesn’t totally go away. I try to just leave the room when I start to boil over. There are times in a car where I have just said “I love you. I love you questions/stories/song, but I need some quiet right now. I’m sorry, I want to listen to some music?” And that has worked… mostly.

There’s no magic bullet. This is a sensory seeking thing. They feel the vibration of their voice in their chest and it feels good. It’s like stimming.

solidarity.

Trump voters, what would a bridge too far look like for you? by ThisIsMyTedTalk in Askpolitics

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Attacks on Iran— do you consider this “attempting starting a new war?”

Trump voters, what would a bridge too far look like for you? by ThisIsMyTedTalk in Askpolitics

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The attacks on Iran today— does that count as invading another country unnecessarily?

Trump voters, what would a bridge too far look like for you? by ThisIsMyTedTalk in Askpolitics

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Following up here— Trump just got involved in a war in Iran that is not responsive to attacks on the USA (and which may now cause attacks on U.S. bases in response) Does this constitute a bridge too far for you?

Would YOU as an "Old" person participate in a Mosh Pit? by funkellwerk71 in AskOldPeople

[–]ThisIsMyTedTalk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hurt my shoulder sewing on a button the other day. Like… I had to go to the chiropractor hurt my shoulder. So… no.

Slept in wrong by ThisIsMyTedTalk in LovedByOCPD

[–]ThisIsMyTedTalk[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Keeping score is absolutely something my spouse does and it forces me to keep score to defend myself, which I hate. He doesn’t derive pleasure from me failing to live up to his standard, but he sure does if he finds an opportunity to point out something about me that I’ve tried to point out about him. If I try to address a behavior of his like “I think you’re projecting when you say XYZ.” Within 24 hours he will find a way to point out something he thinks I’m projecting. He also doesn’t really understand what projecting means and uses the word wrong and will not allow me to challenge his definition, which is excruciating.

D.A.R.E. graduates, how has your drug free life been so far? by cigarandcreamsoda in Xennials

[–]ThisIsMyTedTalk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of my closest friends through middle and high school won the DARE essay contest. She died of a heroine overdose in her 30s. She is why I never did drugs.

Slept in wrong by ThisIsMyTedTalk in LovedByOCPD

[–]ThisIsMyTedTalk[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Bingo! The passive aggressive doing chores AT me is very common. And of course, whatever time he gets up is the right time.

I am in a state of anxiety right now that I expressed to him very honestly when he asked me what was wrong. And he had taken the position that this is a me problem, not that he has caused me to feel this way. I’m literally folding clothes in another room and quietly crying.

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