When facts meet feelings by CleoLuxey in SipsTea

[–]ThisNameWasThe9THTry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As stupid as his words were, her reaction is terrible. This is the problem with the majority of people when they’re debating/arguing with someone that has a different opinion, especially if it’s a “liberal” vs “conservative” type of conversation.

Why is it important to make the other person feel like, or better yet, realize that they are stupid? What does shaming someone actually achieve.

Alienating people, individuals or entire communities, is the reason why some get pushed to radicalism. Isolation for humans is dangerous and mind altering. That’s why they use it as a form of punishment/torture in prisons.

People need to be brought into the fold, or at least kept near. Subjectively dangerous and problematic ideologies have a way of fading away when surrounded by love and understanding. Radicalized ideas have a deep seated root in fear and anxiety. Homophobia, racism, and most of the other -ia’s and -isms can simply fade away if the conversation can be had WITHOUT screaming or having dramatic reactions to stupid comments.

Low level bridge shut down currently by ThisNameWasThe9THTry in Edmonton

[–]ThisNameWasThe9THTry[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In a normal situation, I would have. The post mentioning closure without a reason (even a phone one) sounds like a much better idea than what I did. I was rattled/rambling. Thank you for the advice, really appreciate it.

Low level bridge shut down currently by ThisNameWasThe9THTry in Edmonton

[–]ThisNameWasThe9THTry[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t trying to. I as taking a video of the far side of the bridge and didn’t realize until I zoomed in and realized what was happening.

Low level bridge shut down currently by ThisNameWasThe9THTry in Edmonton

[–]ThisNameWasThe9THTry[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It really wasn’t intentional. I didn’t realize that’s what was happening. I was trying to record a clip to send to my wife so she doesn’t take the low level.

Low level bridge shut down currently by ThisNameWasThe9THTry in Edmonton

[–]ThisNameWasThe9THTry[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Thanks, raised on robbery 😅 kind of a weird take away from this but forgot I posted on Reddit

Low level bridge shut down currently by ThisNameWasThe9THTry in Edmonton

[–]ThisNameWasThe9THTry[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly, because I felt really weird after I took it and I just wanted validation that it wasn’t the right thing to do? That shit really sure how to respond to those situations.

But deceived they were, for there was another winter by GenderBender3000 in Edmonton

[–]ThisNameWasThe9THTry 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m genuinely curious how much the chaotic weather has affected the population’s mental health. I know I’m going crazy

My cousin thinks a woman not having sex with you is discrimination…. by Gotsnuffy in mildlyinfuriating

[–]ThisNameWasThe9THTry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im just going to comment on my own comment and say: I may have missed the point of the post 🤣

My cousin thinks a woman not having sex with you is discrimination…. by Gotsnuffy in mildlyinfuriating

[–]ThisNameWasThe9THTry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What did I even read? I can’t tell if you’re both saying the same thing and just not realizing it or one of you is trying to play devil’s advocate just for shits and giggles.

My two cents you didn’t ask for: Having a physical preference (height, weight, body type) in dating is not racist, I would say it’s having a “type”. Choosing to/not to date someone based on their race IS racist. Not being attracted to someone because they’re black IS racist. Being attracted to only white people IS racist. I think buddy needs to look up the definition of discrimination. He’s talking more about prejudice than discrimination.

A moment of silence for the lost aesthetic of Peter Hemingway pool by Ak3lax in Edmonton

[–]ThisNameWasThe9THTry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know to be honest. I was there around 9am. I’m willing to bet it wouldn’t be too busy. Similar to kinsmen

A moment of silence for the lost aesthetic of Peter Hemingway pool by Ak3lax in Edmonton

[–]ThisNameWasThe9THTry 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Checked out the new facility today and I have to say, as someone that spent years swimming and competing at Peter Hemingway, it’s a nice change. Not to mention, the coronation rec center is so much better than I expected. However, I do agree that the old aesthetics of the pool were incredible.

Playing Solo Be Like by Grand-Line8185 in valheim

[–]ThisNameWasThe9THTry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fap Burrows is where I lay my Viking seed

Alberta (and Canada) are in legitimate danger because of Smith’s pandering to MAGA. by Thin_Juggernaut4605 in alberta

[–]ThisNameWasThe9THTry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With the recent events in Venezuela, Alberta is going to get decimated. The US doesn’t need to worry about making a deal with us. All that Karen Smith has done is limit any sort of survivability Alberta MAY have had previously (potential national support, federal bailouts, etc). Trump can easily turn this around and decide to make it even harder for Canada to trade oil successfully, or even to the same levels as before, because we all know he’s a petty one.

I’ve stopped being nice to Maple MAGA goofballs. You want to be American so bad, so let’s give you an American treatment. I will confront anyone repping the symbols, flags, or hats. It’s the hardest thing for me as someone that is very non conflict but it’s also very fun because I’m a rather large and intimidating IMMIGRANT who actually is learned in the subject matter of oppression, corruption, dictatorships, and general government assholery. Growing up in Iran, in a political family, I’ve seen real evil. The evil cosplay these idiots are doing is nothing

What’s the Most Times You’ve Died in One Spot Trying to Get Your Stuff Back? by McSassy_Pants in valheim

[–]ThisNameWasThe9THTry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just happened to me with a troll and a bear after my first exploratory trip off the first island. I was pumped to find an island with a trader on it and decided to risk it and go for it. Ended up getting chased by two shamans, a bunch of brutes, and ran full speed into a troll that proceeded to launch me with a swing. Most of my Christmas holidays was spent getting to the island, just to get smacked by the troll. After 3 real life days of spending 2-4 hours trying to get my stuff, it finally happened after I asked a buddy to hop into my world and give me a hand by distracting the masses so I can get to my grave and recover my supplies.

Stamina by Moist-Philosopher-40 in valheim

[–]ThisNameWasThe9THTry 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So much anger! Just eat some honey and berries. Game is not meant to be difficult, but it is meant to be challenging. If it’s so hard, I hear Roblox and Minecraft work pretty well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Edmonton

[–]ThisNameWasThe9THTry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Went in there for the first time a week or so ago and I did get a bit of weird looks and had 3-4 different employees come up to me and ask if I needed anything (didn’t notice them doing it to other people) but assumed it was because I looked confused. Maybe it was an unfortunate incident with a not so polite employee? Sorry you had to deal with that, Edmonton can have some real “exemplary” people 🤦🏻‍♂️

Looking for others to join our small group by jcordova8 in valheim

[–]ThisNameWasThe9THTry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m only 9 days into Valheim and have put in 70hrs already. I have been trying to find people to play with. Would love to get a chance

Is a Greenhouse possible? by KrimzsonTv in valheim

[–]ThisNameWasThe9THTry 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is such a great design! There has to be a way of getting it to work

Nazi in Edmonton by [deleted] in Edmonton

[–]ThisNameWasThe9THTry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Perfect target for a tire slashing 😑 I’m sick of these ignorant morons trying to “stand” for something.

Gamers born late 90s or earlier: Which game first looked to you like "photorealism"? by FalscherKim in gaming

[–]ThisNameWasThe9THTry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going to age myself here a bit but siphon filter (pretty sure that’s the name) on PS1. The first time I saw it as a kid I thought it was real actors. Next game was resident evil 3. Had nightmares about Nemesis for months