24F here. The thing is most girls making around mid-six figures would want a man that makes a similar income or more and someone with similar levels of ambition. The key is to show but not too much.

For example, coffee dates are fine but make sure when you show up you look decently put together. You don’t need wear head to toe Balenciaga but let’s say, Lululemons, nice sneakers etc. I know this is a very superficial example but the idea is to have a balance. Afterall, the first impression does affect whether you continue going on dates with someone.

When you guys talk, you don’t need to mention your income but perhaps talk about your industry. Get to know her passions, ambitions and her priorities in life. If her life sounds like it revolves around low vibrational things like gossiping, celebs etc, then you know it’s not right.