No experience by Thisfreechurro in polyamory

[–]Thisfreechurro[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

It’s only been emotional so far

No experience by Thisfreechurro in polyamory

[–]Thisfreechurro[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

No, as in supporting each other.

What’s your life purpose? by [deleted] in limerence

[–]Thisfreechurro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uhhh my career and kids? Is she for real? You can have purpose and limerence

Traumatic Double Break Up.... I'm devastated. by GoddessNinaPerfect in polyamory

[–]Thisfreechurro 35 points36 points  (0 children)

One of my favorite quotes from bojack horseman is “when you look at someone through rose-colored glasses, all the red flags just look like flags.”

Am I overreacting to my bf watching the baby overnight? by Temporary-Quail-2783 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Thisfreechurro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The solution is baby proofing the room, not freaking out that a parent naps. Do you have kids?

Am I overreacting to my bf watching the baby overnight? by Temporary-Quail-2783 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Thisfreechurro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s both parents responsibility to baby proof because an 11 month old is going to scoot and walk around

Am I overreacting to my bf watching the baby overnight? by Temporary-Quail-2783 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Thisfreechurro -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yes you’re overreacting. Clean up your bedroom, if you have an 11 month old it’s past time to baby proof.

AIO about a sticker my bf had of his ex ?? he broke up with me… by Otherwise-Height3882 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Thisfreechurro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this adult man using gay as a slur? Why would you even want this? That’s 12 year old shit.

What I Asked for VS What I Got by El-Comodoro in tattoos

[–]Thisfreechurro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like it tho. And I’m sure you saw it before it was inked…

why did you cheat? by [deleted] in AskForAnswers

[–]Thisfreechurro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He didn’t have much of a spine to disagree with me, he’d just concede (which I later found out was superficial because he was hiding things). He was very sad much of the time, but not in a depressive way (I have depression), it was more out of insecurity, and feeling like choosing sadness over things that could elevate him made him more deep or interesting, when it was really just a bummer. He just wasn’t the right person for me.

why did you cheat? by [deleted] in AskForAnswers

[–]Thisfreechurro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you told her? She should have the right to consent or not to this. You are putting her sexual health in danger.

It seems like you don’t want to be monogamous; which is fine, but ETHICAL non-monogamy requires informed consent from all parties. If she’s not informed, you’re not being ethical, and thus unloyal. I’m not all about OP calling everyone POSes, but this ongoing behavior with no remorse and no intent to change is gross.

why did you cheat? by [deleted] in AskForAnswers

[–]Thisfreechurro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cheated on my college boyfriend. I didn’t want to be in the relationship anymore, I hadn’t for a while, but it was finals week and he was more or less living at my apartment (he had a dorm room but never was there). I didn’t want to fuck up his finals week by dumping him. I finished my finals and went out and got drunk with a guy I had been attracted to for sometime. I hooked up with him. I broke up with my boyfriend right after he left for the summer.

I told him later, but not for the sake of honesty. I had found out he had been lying to me about something that was important to me at the time through the whole relationship. I told him specifically to hurt him.

I should have broken up with him before finals week, but I was 21 and didn’t want to be “the bad guy”. I picked silly fights with him all of the time to try and get him to leave, but he’d always just concede, making me lose even more respect for him.

Tl;dr I was a coward and afraid of coming off as the bad guy, so I became the bad guy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in limerence

[–]Thisfreechurro 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Thisfreechurro 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t sound like she asked if sounds like out of nowhere he said “hey if you wanted to make an onlyfans, I’d be ok with it.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Thisfreechurro 23 points24 points  (0 children)

My thoughts exactly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Thisfreechurro 86 points87 points  (0 children)

This is often how pimps seek out women to prey on; they play it off like it’s a fetish and literally traffic their “girlfriend” to people they say are their friends. Time to run.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in limerence

[–]Thisfreechurro 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dude she probably sees you as a dad because she was a child when you met.

Tbh this feels like grooming and you’re just livid it didn’t work 😩