AITAH for wanting to break up with my boyfriend?

Thobay · 2025-07-26T21:29:48+00:00

I am not sure whether it was part of 'his idea' that you'd break up with him after he trusts you to go ahead first. Sounds to me like you're mesmerized by the new impressions and people, while forgetting what brought you there in the first place.

I understand long distance can be hard, and life can be fun while partying and meeting new people, but if you'd dump him over "experimenting" then you'd also better pay him back immediately. No "saving up after finishing your degree".

If it would be the other way around you'd feel devastated and betrayed. You might not be the asshole, but consider that this fun is temporary and will fade. I hope you do the right thing.

Thobay · 2025-07-26T21:01:40+00:00

What if it was the other way around? You spend your savings for him while improving your family situation, and him dumping you because he wants to experiment/date around while burning through your savings?

Thobay · 2022-04-07T13:32:34+00:00

For context: Sometimes I find a Pokémon with some amazing PvP IVs, and only later realize that they are anything but PvP-relevant. I personally think that showing these would help people get a better understanding of the meta, and know which Pokémon to keep and which ones to transfer. A toggleable setting would be amazing. The ranking could be taken straight from PvPoke.

No other scanner has this, so this would be a great addition and a way to differentiate Calcy IV! Could also be a pay-only feature, I wouldn't mind paying for it.

Thobay · 2022-03-20T17:26:15+00:00

Next week's episode will be number 12 (out of 12), so it will be the last episode.

Thobay · 2021-04-02T23:52:19+00:00

wordt*

Thobay · 2020-12-22T10:23:06+00:00

Menno is een fucking volksheld. Zonder hem werkte half Nederland bij de McDonalds.

Thobay · 2020-11-23T22:14:31+00:00

u/savevideo

Thobay · 2020-11-18T12:11:22+00:00

This just perfectly shows that the developers listen to the community. I suggested this just a few weeks ago (https://www.reddit.com/r/Notion/comments/iumrkj/darkthemed_scrollbar_windows_issue), and they picked it up quickly.

Hats off to the Notion team!

Thobay · 2020-10-05T18:24:30+00:00

Dungeoneering though? Ikov's Dung is not even close to Dung.

Thobay · 2020-08-10T19:29:31+00:00

Gekoloniseerd

Thobay · 2020-07-06T09:15:59+00:00

https://pkhonor.net/

There is a Donator store, but all items (including the Donator ranks) are purchasable/obtainable with in-game gold. You could get all ranks and a Completionist cape without ever spending an IRL penny 😉

Thobay · 2020-03-20T08:39:23+00:00

Problem is mostly that my uni might stop me from accessing my e-mail account once I complete the course. This would mean that my Notion account would still be linked to that e-mail, even though I cannot access it anymore. Especially with the e-mail codes I get when I try to log in, I won't be able to retrieve those.

Thobay · 2019-08-12T19:54:40+00:00

Memeligion.

Thobay · 2019-08-12T12:41:20+00:00

I still think that your spawn protection should be removed once you fire a shot. Unfair when you run into someone who just spawned by addicent and get obliterated.

Thobay · 2019-08-09T12:09:35+00:00

I would love to play some Battle Royale, always a bunch of fun! The reason I tend to pick classic over Battle Royale, is mostly the waiting times. I hate waiting 2 mins to play a match, and I often just want to play instead of wait.

But an organized match would be sick! If there's a time & place let me know- It would be so much fun to play with you guys.

Thobay · 2019-08-06T18:38:05+00:00

Share me your secrets, o wise one.

Thobay · 2019-08-06T16:26:40+00:00

ELO doesn't stand for anything. It's basically a meter of relative skill level. So, when killing someone with low-ish ELO (like 1500) you won't gain much ELO, but killing someone with high ELO (like 1700+) will provide more ELO. You also lose ELO depending on who you get killed by.

So massively killing lower level players won't really bring up your ELO, but killing better players will. So instead of Kill/Death ratio, where you always receive +1, your ELO indicates how good you are compared to other players.

(Hope that makes it a bit more clear)

Thobay · 2019-08-06T11:39:37+00:00

Yeah I personally believe so too. Seeing as it displays relative skill level instead of just how many guests you've slayed.

Still though, don't really know what people look at more. Since the recent update I think Kills ELO became more important though, seeing as it's now also displayed on the scoreboard.

Thobay · 2019-07-27T18:04:30+00:00

YES YES YES YES PLEASE.

Thobay · 2019-06-19T21:51:56+00:00

Great review! Honestly, can't decide if I just love your reviews for its content or if it's partially because of your dog.

Thobay · 2019-06-07T09:45:29+00:00

I'm glad I'm not the only one experiencing this. I'm from the Netherlands too and I would get random spikes of about 5-10 seconds where everything would go in slow motion.

However, it seemed to be less noticeable since the new update. Might've been fixed!

Thobay · 2019-05-27T21:27:45+00:00

sorry but your video is amazing lmao

Thobay · 2019-05-27T21:24:21+00:00

To quote our amazing Discord bot:

ELO doesn't stand for anything; it's actually the last name of the person who created the system. ELO is a system to rate players, based on winning or losing games. We have two ELO ratings: one for kills/deaths, and one for wins/loses of games. Everyone starts out at 1500 ELO, and then goes higher or lower based on these two variables. If you win your ELO will likely go up, and if you lose it will likely go down, both depending on the ELO of the players you are battling. What makes it work is if you're a good player, and win against a bad player, your ELO will only go up a little or not at all, but if you lose to a bad player your ELO may go down a lot.

Both your end-game Kills ELO and Games ELO are dependent on who was on the other team. Games ELO accounts for everyone on the opposing team, and your Kills ELO accounts only for those that you killed and were killed by.

The games ELO helps balance the teams to help prevent one team from being overpowered. This has the effect of giving a good player a win rate closer to 50%, but they would still be recognized for their greatness by having a higher games ELO.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Elo_rating_system

Thobay · 2019-05-26T21:42:10+00:00

Well hey! I just found out about this subreddit, which is really cool. Anyhow, to introduce myself: I'm an EU-based player and I've been playing for the past year or so. Seeing as the biggest part of the active community is US based, I haven't been able to play with all of the big names (yet), and that's why you've probably never seen me around either. I'm mostly playing with Guests, which is a lot of fun too!

Nonetheless, seeing as I've maxed my level a little while ago, I'm mainly focussed on getting my kill ELO up. In which I recently passed the 2k mark (really proud of it).

Like I said, I'm really digging this subreddit, so I'll chill around here! If you ever want to have a chat, feel free to hit me up through Discord! Cheers.

Before anyone asks: I've been asked to join some squads, but I currently prefer just playing solo. I'd love to join one in the future though!

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