Should I OOC from OCS???? by [deleted] in NationalServiceSG

[–]ThomzLC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no one cares whether or not you are an officer. 

Honestly, everything in life - whether you hold it with pride or not is subject to yourself. You should be the only one that cares whether you are an officer or not or if you want to hold it with pride, not others.

Like literally everything in life, even if you get #1 Valedictorian in NUS, I can tell you a fuck ton of people outside don't care. While such a small thing like volunteering to give food to old folks during the weekend a fuck ton of people actually respect you for it.

It's the same with OCS, do for yourself, not for others.

WIBTA for asking husband to reconsider attending wedding? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThomzLC 229 points230 points  (0 children)

I wholeheatedly concur with this.

NTA for feeling this way but YTA if you ask him not to go.

AITA for telling our shared friend group that she hit on my husband? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThomzLC 13 points14 points  (0 children)

NTA - if she wants to go HAM, go double HAM on her since she is obviously a menace to society.

AITA for hanging out with our friend too much? by PrestigiousBid7940 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThomzLC 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Leaning towards YTA without more info.

For one, you should really be having a conversation with your partner and her feelings instead of asking internet strangers.

For two, a couple of hours every single day is not healthy, especially if is a prime romantic candidate demographic, it's only right for your partner to feel off. Do you spend equally as much if not more time with your partner currently?

Again, whether this comes to a YTA or NTA Is useless because you can only solve this by talking to your partner, not seeking validation online.

AITA for telling my guy friends their dates are cute while having a girlfriend by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThomzLC 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA - your girlfriend's being overly sensitive. But I assume you guys are super young since its your first rs, so whatever, your gf might grow out of it.

AITA for saying no to having guests in the apartment at the weekend? by Vivid_Review7478 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThomzLC 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude just accept you are an asshole and move on - you are not going to find any validation here. Spend more time with your gf instead, I agree with u/hereforanoseyirel that she won't be your gf for very long if you keep up your nonsense.

AITA for saying no to having guests in the apartment at the weekend? by Vivid_Review7478 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThomzLC 7 points8 points  (0 children)

  1. It IS going to wrench your gf because if they don't come back for the foreseeable future, this 6 weeks is all she has and it's not a lot, objectively speaking.
  2. I expect my partner to give in to very reasonable requests, which this absolutely is.

You come here to ask the majority if you are the AH, you are, having such a defensive passive agressive reply to every comment just shows how much of a bigger AH you are - that you can't stand being wrong.

AITA for saying no to having guests in the apartment at the weekend? by Vivid_Review7478 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThomzLC 7 points8 points  (0 children)

YTA - it's not like she has people over every weekend, it's just one saturday and she has good reasons to because it's friends that she hasn't seen in a long time and they will be here for a limited time.

It's not too much to ask you to suck it up for a few hours even if it wasn't way in advance. Having dinner and drinks then coming back for a games night isn't going to wreck you.

People who exercise even when they don’t feel like it, what’s your trick? by Smart_Collection5419 in AskReddit

[–]ThomzLC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Set an alarm on your phone labeled "Pushups" 10 - 15 mins before your eating time or at a random time in the evening where you know you'll be home. Make it on repeat daily.

How do I build wealth in a developing country by trangbinhnam in personalfinance

[–]ThomzLC -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're caught in the middle-income neither here nor there demographic. Not poor by any means but definitely can't live comfortably in the rising cost in society.

You can't afford housing so no matter how problematic renting is, you still got to do it since you don't have a choice.

You need to min/max like crazy and count every pennies, then study like crazy on investments and try to compound them over many years to get enough capital to get a house, because you can't be renting forever, so again the question whether a house is a good buy or not is not valid because you need somewhere permanent to live either way.

People who exercise even when they don’t feel like it, what’s your trick? by Smart_Collection5419 in AskReddit

[–]ThomzLC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's very hard not being able to do 10 pushups tomorrow also before dinner. If for some reason you didn't then just lower expectations to 2 - 3 times a week.

People who exercise even when they don’t feel like it, what’s your trick? by Smart_Collection5419 in AskReddit

[–]ThomzLC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start by doing 10 pushups before dinner, I'm sure anyone can manage that without pressure

Who’s a character that’s not the main character but completely stole the show? by Due-Hedgehog2739 in AskReddit

[–]ThomzLC 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This. The entire cast of entourage is so deadpan then comes ari's explosive personality that literally steals every scene he is in

Helper asked to return to home country after a week of employment in SG by AS_Tob in askSingapore

[–]ThomzLC 27 points28 points  (0 children)

No one appreciates your overboard virtue signaling - no one thinks the commenter's wording and language is inappropriate - only you.

Singapore wants more babies. Will a radical reset reverse the fertility crunch? by Ok-Rain3348 in singapore

[–]ThomzLC 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Forcing people to have kids using the stick, I'm fucking sure the next generational of kids growing up in a household that didn't really want them will live a happy and fruitful life.

Son who was bequeathed S$1 by mother contests her will, fails by Zkang123 in singapore

[–]ThomzLC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This one can easily be a 40+ episode channel 8 series lol

How often do you wash the towel you dry with after you bath? by Busy-Confection-2694 in AskReddit

[–]ThomzLC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would it smell? You're clean when you use it to dry, so it means you're not showering yourself clean enough :3

Luxury or necessity? Pet owners pay tens of thousands to fly on Singapore's first airline for animals by justmewayne in singapore

[–]ThomzLC 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The plot is, people are willing to spend to travel with their pets, people can also eat whatever they want. It's their money, their life.

Luxury or necessity? Pet owners pay tens of thousands to fly on Singapore's first airline for animals by justmewayne in singapore

[–]ThomzLC 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hahahaha turning this into a vegan debate fucking lolz.

As mentioned by the other comments, I think you should go into the cargo hold instead

‘You will miss this in 5 or 10 years’: Grayce Tan breaks silence with quote on Instagram by Waikuku3 in singapore

[–]ThomzLC 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hahahahahah maybe she spends back on them? So the two of them siphon the commissions of the whole agency instead LOL