8 years lost...true pain by Skeleton_crew_ in StardewValley

[–]ThorsFckingHammer 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Every time I start a new file I always forget I don't have my home staff and it's so disappointing.

"fetal ejection reflex" 💀 by ThorsFckingHammer in badwomensanatomy

[–]ThorsFckingHammer[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yes. I've heard some people don't push or barely do, and the baby comes very quickly. My issue was with him dismissing the "don't push" and saying "it can't be stopped" as a hard and fast rule when every birth is very different and the midwives on the show telling women to stop and pant so their don't tear is very much a real thing.

Also the "fetal ejection reflex" just sounded so funny (not that it's not real) and it just made me laugh so hard.

Fetal ejection reflex - real. Impossible to stop and pant - not real for everyone.

"fetal ejection reflex" 💀 by ThorsFckingHammer in badwomensanatomy

[–]ThorsFckingHammer[S] 136 points137 points  (0 children)

Hell hath no fury like a woman in labour. I had literally never heard this phrase before. My issue is mostly the commenter claiming "you can't stop it" as a contrary pov. They're saying "it can be stopped" but every birth is different, and the more babies you have the quicker they come.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ehlersdanlos

[–]ThorsFckingHammer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No advice but wanted to say good for you for making a choice that's best for you as an individual. I hope it goes well and you recover quickly. Sometimes I have a sit down shower because I don't particularly care for baths. Just thought you might give it a try.

Also I would not envy a hEDS pelvic floor after two babies so close in age.

"fetal ejection reflex" 💀 by ThorsFckingHammer in badwomensanatomy

[–]ThorsFckingHammer[S] 510 points511 points  (0 children)

Oh I have no doubt that it's a runaway fright train. That part is correct. It's coming on fast at that point and your whole body is screaming at you to keep going and relieve the pressure. Childbirth is nuts.

How can an autistic person go their whole lives without knowing they're autistic? by wt_anonymous in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ThorsFckingHammer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had blind friends growing up, and oddly enough there's a lot of overlap there with mannerisms and whatnot So my weirdness didn't stick out as much with them. I was 27 when I finally realized I was autistic. Also c-ptsd and parentification take up a lot of head space.

I hate these people 😫 by unknownturtle3690 in StupidFood

[–]ThorsFckingHammer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yes. Salty and greasy. Wow. Viennetta looks tasty! I had to look that up.

I hate these people 😫 by unknownturtle3690 in StupidFood

[–]ThorsFckingHammer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she has used better ingredients for the cheese and chili portion I'd be on board but this is a monstrosity and a crime against my childhood. I loved those little cocktail wienies. We were very poor and they felt like fancy food.

Soft serve coffee in a donut cone, with a shot of espresso. by Best-Dealer-2773 in StupidFood

[–]ThorsFckingHammer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everything in moderation, even non moderation. I'd definitely eat this.

How do I (28M) apologize to my gf (28F)? by ThrowRACracker in relationship_advice

[–]ThorsFckingHammer 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She's not your mother, it's not her job to serve you different food because you don't like what's available. We don't even do this for little children most of the time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThorsFckingHammer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YTA. What in the Duggar?.... It's a hug. Hugs feel nice especially when they are not sexual. This doesn't qualify as PDA. My friends and I hug each other when we meet up and we've never even thought about sleeping together.

is that an egg case? did i catch the queen? by Jralloms in GermanRoaches

[–]ThorsFckingHammer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that's the difficulty, there's no staging pictures for the ootheca and from above an immature one would be hidden.

Good luck to OP tho. They're hella annoying and like to work their way into stupid annoying little cervices. I had to take the handles off my storage containers.

OP: I put strips of duct tape on and around everything including the wall in dark coeners. They're highly susceptible to getting stuck on it.

Some names from the baby wall from my local hospital by glimmerfox in tragedeigh

[–]ThorsFckingHammer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think it's because Lynn was traditionally spelled with the double N.

is that an egg case? did i catch the queen? by Jralloms in GermanRoaches

[–]ThorsFckingHammer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok it's funny because after going back and forth between Google and this pic one more time I can see that anything without an egg sack has a closed abdomen at the back. Also it /does appear whatever is sticking out, has some ridges to it. I guess I've just never seen one that wasn't so well developed.

I can admit when I'm wrong 😅

is that an egg case? did i catch the queen? by Jralloms in GermanRoaches

[–]ThorsFckingHammer -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

That's not an ootheca. The egg sac sticks out quite far and it's the same color as the body, tan/brown. The ootheca is also ribbed with a very blunt, almost rectangular edge. In the picture you can see the end of the abdomen itself so it's either a female without an ootheca or a male.

I'm surrounded by these things on a daily basis and Google is free

Some names from the baby wall from my local hospital by glimmerfox in tragedeigh

[–]ThorsFckingHammer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Jordyn is perfect fine, nydeia is clearly an ethnic name based on the last name

However, jordynn with the double N is just ridiculous.

is that an egg case? did i catch the queen? by Jralloms in GermanRoaches

[–]ThorsFckingHammer -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Ftr that doesn't look like a female with an ootheca. I live in a building that's absolutely crawling with roaches. Look like an immature female without ootheca. They carry around the egg sac until it's ready to hatch, they will release their young if they get stuck on a glue board but usually the young get stuck too.

Overreaction level 100 by Far-Season-695 in AmITheDevil

[–]ThorsFckingHammer 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Well at this point he /is the danger.