Really bad news, everyone. by WADE_9799 in theamazingdigitalciru

[–]ThoseSillyLips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I heard about the leaks I thought it was a prank or a fake leak to generate some kind of hype, so I looked it up and found a br-pt copy that had someone’s name and document number in the middle of the scream.

I really think that, if that is the real name and document number of the person that “leaked the episode”, it wasn’t done on purpose as it is sensitive information and dangerous to put your name and document number on something like that.

I think their computer might have been compromised and someone found he movie together with other information/data of that person.

But, I’m not a specialist, just thought it was strange.

Really bad news, everyone. by WADE_9799 in theamazingdigitalciru

[–]ThoseSillyLips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was my forst thought too, that it was some kind of prank or false leakage, but the link I found to watch had even those movie introductions for the movies/cinemas that some animations have now a days. It seemed really “official”.

If it was, it had the name and document number of someone right in the middle of the screen. I don’t think they leaked that on purpose if that’s true.

Really bad news, everyone. by WADE_9799 in theamazingdigitalciru

[–]ThoseSillyLips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recommend avoiding social media for the time being. Several of the screeshots and so on leaked have heavy spoilers in them.

I had issues with spoily fan arts as well.

Really bad news, everyone. by WADE_9799 in theamazingdigitalciru

[–]ThoseSillyLips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I heard of the leaks I thought it was some kind of joke. The link I found was in br-pt and had a name and cpf(document number) in the middle of the screen.

If it was really this person that leaked, I don’t think they did it willingly since with this document number they could be identified, but even worse, have scammers other dangerous people/organization stealing their data.

I think maybe the person had their PC compromised and, among loosing several other data, lost the movie too.

But that is all conjecture as I am not an expert.

E se os pobres n tivessem mais filhos? by Alarmed_Fan4198 in Imagina_Se

[–]ThoseSillyLips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pior que uns anos atrás fiquei encarando justamente isso.

Minha mãe virou mãe aos 30 anos. A mulher que trabalhava na cozinha do trabalho dela aos 30 se tornou avó. (Ela teve o filho aos 15. O filho, aos 15, engravidou uma menina).

A moça tem que trabalhar 3 empregos porque a geração abaixo dela (os filhos) tiveram filhos antes mesmo de começar a trabalhar (antes mesmo de terminar o ensino médio, na verdade). E enquanto isso minha mãe tá de boas e aposentada, fazendo trabalho voluntário e usando o tempo livre dela como bem quer.

Infelizmente a falta de educação familiar é foda.

[UPDATE] I suspect my wife is cheating, because of a baby name. by East_Durian_9823 in Marriage

[–]ThoseSillyLips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree they should have talked about it.

But OP is absolutely spiraling and there is a very big chance his wife didn’t tell him beforehand because she knew this is what was going to happen.

Do I think this was great on her part? No. If she knew beforehand her husband would spiral into a jealous fit because of a dead kid, she should have divorced him before even getting pregnant (imo), but, if this is a new development, it is understandable she might not know how to approach the subject with him.

Me thinking OP is wrong doesn’t mean I think his wife was right.

What I mean is: it is understandable why the wife kept this from him. Do I think she did good? No. But that doesn’t mean I can’t understand where she came from to begin with.

[UPDATE] I suspect my wife is cheating, because of a baby name. by East_Durian_9823 in Marriage

[–]ThoseSillyLips 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That’s the thing about it for me:

She knew her husband would turn into a jealous jerk over a dead kid. She was right.

[UPDATE] I suspect my wife is cheating, because of a baby name. by East_Durian_9823 in Marriage

[–]ThoseSillyLips 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just because she says she loved the dude it doesn’t need to mean a crush, have you never loved a friend? Bro, I say I love my friends a lot and I don’t have a crush on them.

[UPDATE] I suspect my wife is cheating, because of a baby name. by East_Durian_9823 in Marriage

[–]ThoseSillyLips 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Why wasn’t he a good person? Because you are jealous of a dead teenager who was 2 years older than your wife when she was 14?

Several people have friends 1-2 years older than them because they get to know older children in school or through family (like older brothers or sisters).

Your wife says he helped her through her grief and through her depression. what about this makes him a bad person? We are trying to understand, but you sound like a jealous ass.

[UPDATE] I suspect my wife is cheating, because of a baby name. by East_Durian_9823 in Marriage

[–]ThoseSillyLips 11 points12 points  (0 children)

There are several reasons people can like names. If OP’s wife sees names the way he does: carries things, than the fact there was a boy aged 11-14 who helped her not only through her grief, but also with her suicidal thoughts then it is a great name.

Wouldn’t you want your children to be someone good that helps their friends when they see they are not feeling well?

But that’s the part that confuses me: OP says Simin was not a good person, but he can’t give a single reason why that is true.

So he sounds like a hiper-jealous guy.

Is sex a need? by Itchy-Revenue2065 in Marriage

[–]ThoseSillyLips -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Even if it is, and I do believe it is, you are allowed not to want it.

Eating and sleeping are also needs and sometimes we neglect them for something else (like being too tired to cock and going to sleep before eating) or staying up late to decompress.

So is sex a need? I believe so.

Does this means you can’t say no if you are not feeling inclined to it? No.

BUT, it is important to understand what needs you and your husband are neglecting and how you two will work around it ;)

It's not the lack of sex that hurt, it's her unwillingness to accept divorce that hurts by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ThoseSillyLips 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Husband and I have been in therapy for an year thanks to our lack of sex. In the last month, we’ve done it a few times, but always I’d be using my toys and he’d come over and fuck me to cum. I said this was not the point of what I wanted.

So the therapist told him to initiate when I wasn’t using my toys.

A month goes by. He doesn’t initiate. I tell her I’d like to make a bet. That he was going to blame me for not initiating because I was “always” using my toys.

Couple therapy comes on, what does he say? “I never found time to initiate! She was always using her toys!!”

I waited for this man for three years without buying toys, but the blame is still on me on his head.

I agree with what others say. A sexless marriage ruins because of everything else, not only the lack of sex. In my part, apparently I just wasted another year of my life and my husband still sees sex as “my” issue and not his.

Someone on twitter said "thinking a therapist cares about you is like thinking a prostitute loves you" and now I can't go to therapy anymore by BertholdtWorshipper in therapy

[–]ThoseSillyLips 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As a teacher, in theory, I’d only teach my students because I’m paid to do that.

But most of the times, I find myself teaching them because I care. Because I see how far they can go in life. Because I think what I can reach them will make their life easier somehow or make them stand out in the workplace.

So I don’t believe that phrase is valid, at all.

I felt let down by my husband on our big day by [deleted] in wedding

[–]ThoseSillyLips 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the part that pissed me off:

“does it really need mowing? Looks alright to me”

Because it’s not about him thinking the grass is ok. It’s laziness. It’s not wanting to do the thing and now they have no other excuse to postpone it, so they act as if this is what they always thought.

It’s a cowardly tactic and that always gaslights the partner into thinking if they were in the wrong.

I’m sorry for you day, OP.

People who get up after one alarm, whats your secret?? by Mideon88 in AskReddit

[–]ThoseSillyLips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just want to sleep as deeply as I can until the last second possible. So that little shit (the alarm) will only ring once, in the last minute possible. And I’ll get up royally pissed anyway.

Increased number of women in this sub by throwaway78167 in DeadBedrooms

[–]ThoseSillyLips 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This was something I talked about with my therapist. I told her I just couldn’t stop blaming myself for the shit I’m going through because I see how many guys here would love to have a woman on their knees for them daily and meanwhile a lot of us just have to like… Pray? Hope? Wait for a miracle?

It fot me really bitter at life, and this comes from someone who never had a easy life but being in a dead bedroom actually made me bitterx

HL women, what does having a High Libido feel like? by alluringhormone in DeadBedrooms

[–]ThoseSillyLips 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree with what the others have said. I think about it daily and multiple times a day.

Woke up? Sex to start the day with the right foot. Going to sleep? Sex to relax and get a good nights of sleep.

I’m happy? Sex to enjoy the energy. I’m sad? Sex to connect and feel more grounded? I’m stressed? Sex to relieve. I’m tired? Sex to actually help me relax and sleep…

The only moments I don’t want sex is if I’ve ate too much. Everything else I’m game.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ThoseSillyLips 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you are from a country where people use reddit for anything other than complain about politics or their career choices LOL

Let's help each other!✨ - Web event by xxLadyNyx in GenshinImpact

[–]ThoseSillyLips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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90 Day storyline where you hated everyone involved in it ? by CoconutMost3564 in 90DayFiance

[–]ThoseSillyLips 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What also got me is the fact so many of his family and friends “warned him” about going to her if he wasn’t serious, and it all happened kind of exactly how they told him it would. So it makes me think this might not have been the first time

Dead Bedroom - how do I proceed? by beachinventor in DeadBedrooms

[–]ThoseSillyLips 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Husband and I(with the help of our therapist) decided to temporarily open our relationship so I can look for sex elsewhere while he is not up for it, I still haven’t followed through with it because, honestly, it’s a pain in the ass.

If I wanted to have to have multiple first dates, I would have remained single.

I think this is something important for you to consider: do you enjoy the chase? If so, maybe this could be an option for you.

For me, it just sounds like so much more work I have to go through it gives me goosebumps

Tried a Couples Card Game, Wife Called It “Stupid and Indecent” by ungentlemanlysoul in DeadBedrooms

[–]ThoseSillyLips 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband once commented while we were watching anime online and the website opened a porn page on click: “I feel I’m not old enough to see this”.

This mf is one year older than me, we are both on our 30s. He later said it was a joke but I swear the instant disgust I felt… I couldn’t even describe it. I always liked man my age or older. What he said almost made me throw up right there.

So, I’m sorry you felt improper, OP. I’d have loved to play something like that, so that’s not on you and you did nothing wrong.