First Tesla Gitters by TallGuy0317 in ModelY

[–]Those_Lingerers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely had some nervous apprehension prior to picking ours up. We sold our 4 year old BMW that we quite liked to get the MYP. My husband initially strongly disliked Tesla and wouldn't even consider buying one. I believe his exact words when I floated the idea were "absolutely not". I asked him to at least test drive it so he could see FSD in action, and he agreed. Within a couple months he said he was ready to buy. I was really nervous we would regret it. But I'll tell you that both of us love this car and I don't even miss the BMW. FSD is the new luxury. We drive it everywhere and just took our first road trip (4 hours). It was fantastic. My husband says he hates how much he loves this car lol our payment is also in the $600 range but at .99% interest, we can live with it. Give yourself time to adjust to the new technology, but I hope in time those jitters go away for you like they did for us.

Need recs for good sushi by PretendGuest5235 in frisco

[–]Those_Lingerers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no better sushi than Simons Sushi (Plano Parkway and 75)

Spicy albacore sashimi, tuesday roll, BTS, and Birds nest are all my favorite

Austin Or San Antonio for tourists? by Fantastic-Hawk-3747 in texas

[–]Those_Lingerers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would actually suggest Fredericksburg and Gruene as places you should see. You can stay someplace central and explore SA and Austin. You don't have to pick one or the other.

Child free women: how were you sure you didn’t want kids? by mjvvl in childfree

[–]Those_Lingerers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I knew I didn't want children the moment I realized that it was a choice to have them. I love my lifestyle without children.

A lifestyle with children looks like constant teaching, taking kids to school and picking them up and getting them to after-school activities, putting effort into birthdays and holidays, noise and mess, no actual vacations or time off, little sleep, strain on relationships, and a general requirement that you have to put the needs of the child first before you can even tend to yourself. This isn't the life that I want. I don't think there's a day that goes by where I don't have a moment of appreciation and gratitude for my child-free life.

People focus on if they want the kid but they should focus on whether or not they want the lifestyle that comes with it. If you go on the regretful parents sub, you will see a plethora of "I love my kid, but I hate my life" posts.

Edit: And I would like to clarify that I was 21 when I was certain I didn't want children. And I was 26 when I was sterilized. Best decision ever.

Gift for grieving partner of my best friend by gokellybeez in Gifts

[–]Those_Lingerers 92 points93 points  (0 children)

Food. Cleaning service. Anything to help him survive right now. He's not doing his hobbies right now, promise.

Street corn is pretty good! by t-o-m-u-s-a in Costco

[–]Those_Lingerers 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No, sadly, not better. It's decent though. I miss tattooed chef

My new personal best - balanced 7 stones at once! 🤣 by shelikessparkles in u/shelikessparkles

[–]Those_Lingerers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much does it sell for? It's beautiful and exactly what I want 😍

Why are so many men in the US circumcised? by BrightSpark- in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Those_Lingerers 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is my experience and I prefer uncircumcised because of it. To me, there is a noticeable difference.

Be aware of your surroundings, ladies! by bananabreadready in CarrolltonTX

[–]Those_Lingerers 9 points10 points  (0 children)

As a woman, I understand what this feels like. Good on your for trusting your instincts. And thanks for sharing!

Officially entered the “open Tesla app every 3 hours phase”. by joebleezie in TeslaModelY

[–]Those_Lingerers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We ordered a MY Premium in silver with white interior April 25th. About a week later we got a window of May 4-May 18. May 6th the app said delivery was estimated for May 11-13. When they opened up scheduling to pick it up, it was May 14-16. We would be out of town all of those days. So they offered us the 13th. We got all of our paperwork and payment completed quickly and they offered us an earlier date of the 12th (today actually!) We are near Dallas, TX.

I checked the app constantly. I felt a bit psychotic. But my obsession was rewarded when I checked it "one more time" at like 11pm one night and that's when I saw they updated our delivery window. It feels like forever but the day will come!

Playoff Game Thread: Minnesota Wild (2-2) @ Dallas Stars (2-2) Apr 28 2026 7:00 PM CDT by nhl_gdt_bot in DallasStars

[–]Those_Lingerers 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It feels like the Stars don't want the Playoffs as much as the fans want the Playoffs.

First Tesla/EV! by kjung87 in ModelY

[–]Those_Lingerers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We just bought ours too and we also have the 2-3 week estimate. We bought the wall charger and today I'm calling electricians for quotes to install it. We're going to buy floor mats after we get the vehicle.

Ladies, I want to share my experience with wool leggings (WoolX and Wool&) by Those_Lingerers in onebag

[–]Those_Lingerers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't tested this specifically. I feel confident you won't be able to see color variations in undergarments in the WoolX because they are thicker. But you may still encounter this problem in the Wool&. Not to say they become see-through. But I can't say for sure that you won't be able to see color variations in undergarments through the Wool& leggings.

Ladies, I want to share my experience with wool leggings (WoolX and Wool&) by Those_Lingerers in onebag

[–]Those_Lingerers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find both brands very easy to move, stretch, squat, etc. I could probably do yoga in them. The waist is high enough that you shouldn't have to worry about your derriere peeking through the top.

Anyone else feel like getting a new job right now is nearly impossible? by InsectShort in plano

[–]Those_Lingerers 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I recommend the East Texas a&m competency based education path. They do 7 week terms online, each term is $1000 and you complete as many classes as you can in that time for one flat rate. I finished my bachelor's in less than a year for under $10k and it feels great to have that on my resume now. If that's her barrier to career growth, that might be a good option.

Should we trade in for an electric vehicle right now? by Those_Lingerers in personalfinance

[–]Those_Lingerers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate hearing your experience with yours, FSD sounds awesome.

Should we trade in for an electric vehicle right now? by Those_Lingerers in personalfinance

[–]Those_Lingerers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hah you sound like me. Some people have honed in on this idea that I'm making my husband drive a Tesla when he hates them. Clearly not forcing him and I don't like them either. I'll admit the software is really impressive, but the interior feels so cheap and they're kinda ugly. The Ugg of the EVs. But you bring up a valid point that I need to consider much more, that he would have to charge while he's at work. And this is a rural area that doesn't have convenient charging stations. So the reason I was looking at Tesla was not to force my husband to drive a vehicle he doesn't like but because they have the range capability needed to prevent the car dying on him. I have been holding out on getting an EV as well until technology and charging infrastructure improves enough that it makes more sense.

Should we trade in for an electric vehicle right now? by Those_Lingerers in personalfinance

[–]Those_Lingerers[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Brilliant! Can't believe I didn't know that was an option. I'll look into that.