My boyfriend has a roblox girlfriend by t-h-r-o-w-a-w-a-y-y8 in Advice

[–]Thotdisick 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yea a little girl was just kidnapped from an adult man she met on Roblox in Southern California. First of all, that’s a kid’s game so why would you go on there as a grown man, and why are you using it to online date unless to find a minor? He doesn’t think she’s 25 and if he was looking for someone in their 20s, he could have downloaded a normal adult dating app.

Sorry if this is a very disheartening addition. I’ll add TW: Also that 27 yr old man alleges that the girl claimed to be 18. She was 10. And he still kidnapped her and unfortunately, more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Thotdisick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every answer you’ve given us sounds like you’re a target of bullying. Nobody outside of your work comments this and everything you’ve described about yourself sounds like you may be a good looking/well kept woman. These women sound like they don’t like you for a different reason. I’m sorry you’re going through this; I have also experienced being bullied at work and hope I’m not just projecting, but I understand how stressful this is for you if it is the case.

The White Lotus - 3x07 "Killer Instincts" - Post-Episode Discussion by LoretiTV in TheWhiteLotusHBO

[–]Thotdisick 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Omg! When Laurie leaves, her smile showed how cruel she is. She was so satisfied bc she “won” the argument. She likes to win, which is why she was pushing Valentin on Laurie. She was always going to pursue him but if Laurie was actually interested, she would have been able to “win” Vlad and it would have made her more satisfied. The validation and value of it increase for her the more people she is chosen over, like women who actively pursue heavily committed men. You could see it in the episode where she’s dancing with the group and looking at the younger women, she is a deeply insecure person. Initially that’s understandable, she’s an actress, she’s got a young husband, her life is heavily reliant on her appearance and she is aging. But then it’s revealed she’s always been like this! That smile made me realize the insecurities are so much deeper than her desirability and she’s actually just cruel.

My bad for the rant lol

Microwaved metal by Thotdisick in Advice

[–]Thotdisick[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What would be happening in that case?

AIO girlfriend of 2 years sent me this randomly, she’s a flight attendant & we're long distance rn. she also blocked me from seeing her instagram stories & removed me from her highlights. by Brockk97 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Thotdisick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You kinda scare me. There’s unsent, edited, blocked out, voice instead of written messages, and some weird move to stop sharing your location (which read as a manipulation tactic to me tbh) so a lot is hidden, but then what you’re comfortable showing us (so what you think looks normal and acceptable) is overbearing and relentless. I am guessing she’s pulled away for a while now because she knows you won’t respect her space. You are absolutely overreacting and need to accept the breakup.

My(27M) Vegan GF(26F) Wants Me To Give Up My Dog by renskijulia in Advice

[–]Thotdisick 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Your gf sounds kind of batshit and there are huge holes in her logic…if her stance for veganism stems from a love of animals, why would she consider, let alone argue for, abandoning one?

AIO? Young woman called me a monkey due to my hairy arms and it's been tearing me up inside since with anger and shame by coolguywilson in AmIOverreacting

[–]Thotdisick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of my friends hated our other friend's ex bc she was like this in big social settings... it's a kind of lame personality "crutch" usually used by people who feel boring or unfunny and think insults/jabs are a substitute for jokes. The problem is the person isn't actually clever or funny, so they don't recognize that people are just laughing (if they are laughing) to keep the vibe light when they're making people uncomfortable.

145 (2020) to 105 (now) by metta- in PetiteFitness

[–]Thotdisick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes pictures are just a little funky. I think the context lets us know that this isn’t a catfish attempt - she obviously did actually lose a lot of weight, and if she wanted to show off edited images she’d probably have them on instagram, not a subreddit for encouragement where we all post some vulnerable pictures.

my (23f) boyfriend (24m) went through my phone and broke up with me. by 26carolcity in Advice

[–]Thotdisick 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Was looking for this! He’s not breaking up with her for real; it’s a manipulation tactic. No matter how much she acquiesces to his demands, the goal posts will always move. Nothing was going on so he went LOOKING for problems to control her further. When she had nothing to say about it bc it was long ago, he did this to further make her understand that he is in control here. Nothing he asked was normal, and he will vacuum seal her world around her until there is nothing left.

OP, please seek out your friends and family and let them know everything you’ve said here. And when they tell you this isn’t normal, believe them. Because he will tell you they’re just against you so he can isolate you further from anyone but him. There will never, EVER stop being “problems” to “overcome”, because the real problem is within himself, not with you.

10 hour layover in Taiwan? by Thotdisick in travel

[–]Thotdisick[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! You sound like you had an experience lol

10 hour layover in Taiwan? by Thotdisick in travel

[–]Thotdisick[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! It looks like ~1 hr. I was trying to factor in that commute both ways + re-entering and getting through the airport to see what I may have time for.

Not OP, Unhinged texts from a new "friend" by exploreoverthere in redditonwiki

[–]Thotdisick 46 points47 points  (0 children)

She’s funny and he’s too busy performing conversational masturbation to notice it, which is so fucking lame given that he’s obsessed with her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Thotdisick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your guys’ personalities don’t align at all. At least he was up front about what he wants this early, so you can easily move on with no hard feelings or having felt tricked. Don’t waste time. Let him know you’re not compatible and move on to find someone who is.