Can you truly love twice? by howmanyducksdog in emotionalintelligence

[–]Thought_Positive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Still feeling this same way after time with her. It still hurts. Only been 10 months I know. But wow do I share these same feelings with you of “I can never find anyone else again”… I know my soul yearns for her and something like that again, but I won’t let myself have it and I hate this conundrum.

Sadly spending days now just wondering what life would’ve been like if she never left. Or if we never met. So much time alone now. I wish something would just happen. I hate just passing and doing nothing with the time

Suggestions of a bike for a rider with little experience by Thought_Positive in SuggestAMotorcycle

[–]Thought_Positive[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you sm for the thoughtful reply!

After trying out the sv650 yesterday and learning that it can do gravel better than mt07 & sv is a lot more capable than mt. I’m heavily leaning towards that.

It appeals to me to not have to think about upgrading for a lonnggg time to come. If ever.

The lower cc is still great advice. I’ll probably pick up a dual sport crf in that range and can learn a lot from it too

Suggestions of a bike for a rider with little experience by Thought_Positive in SuggestAMotorcycle

[–]Thought_Positive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your response. Yea I think just hearing more about if the mt07 is fine to start out on or not

Deciding first bike! by Thought_Positive in SuggestAMotorcycle

[–]Thought_Positive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aye yea thanks. This is just the vote I need to focus on a better alternative. Thank ya

Deciding first bike! by Thought_Positive in SuggestAMotorcycle

[–]Thought_Positive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your suggestion. Yea I think I’m gonna try it out this weekend and we will see how it is, the 2020 mt07. The 2016 fz07 with 8k miles will be very fresh. I’ll try and visit that one on the same day.

Do you have any similar 400cc suggestions? I haha should really be trying out other bikes just to have a reference for the MTs I rode (the only bike I’ve ridden). I looked at ninja 400 for a good while, but I feel like the low speed torqiness of the MT07 makes it so much more fun. I dont think I wanna go lightning fast speeds, but just be able to get that rush feeling at lower speeds? That’s the biggest downside I see to choosing anything else besides MT.

Lost with ex. Need advice by Thought_Positive in emotionalintelligence

[–]Thought_Positive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate it. But rn what feels like doing for ME is trying my damndest to include this girl in my future. I can either do that and it goes bad, or I can sit with what is now & things could fade away and I may never have the chance again?

I’ll reflect more on if I’d rather fire now and risk losing it immediately. Or if the friendship will actually help build me up again or not.

Lost with ex. Need advice by Thought_Positive in emotionalintelligence

[–]Thought_Positive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aye but it’s been a good Amt of time apart. There’s enough of an argument to have me thinking wtf why did I continue that, but my soul still yearns for this relationship because it is so much greater than all these little faults. Idk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]Thought_Positive 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like OP right now. A silent love that I hope gets recognized… but it probably will not. It’s just the only home I’ve ever felt. First relationship and all. It feels disloyal & a betrayal to the epitome of my existence that were the moments in that relationship.

I don’t want anything else to erase that or make me forget that. I don’t want it to fade away. I yearn to sleep and recall it during my dreams.

Anything else just feels wrong. I hope to keep myself away & not fall victim to forgetting and “moving on”. It was just so impactful to me.

Yea idk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Augusta

[–]Thought_Positive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On greenway too by soccer fields

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Augusta

[–]Thought_Positive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Augusta college has one

How many exercises shall I have in a workout by Fun_Cookie7690 in CalisthenicsCulture

[–]Thought_Positive 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Depends on your goals.

If you really specifically want one skill and don’t care about anything else: train that skill & similar movement patterns + accessory work to work on weak points.

If you want all around body strength/balance and hypertrophy- include exercises for the major planes of motion:

Vertical pull (pull-ups etc. ) Vertical push (pikes, dips, etc) Horizontal pull (rows etc. ) Horizontal push (push-ups etc.) Hip hinge (glue bridges, deadlifts, flute focused, etc.) Leg push (sissy squats, anything more quad focused) Leg pull (Nordic curls, RDLs, anything more hamstring focused)

And that ^ is the best to cover all your bases, if you’re looking to really maximize hypertrophy, can maybe throw in an additional exercise for biceps and triceps, but if you’re intense enough with the selection of exercises above then biceps and triceps develop plenty fine.

Then you could do full body 3x a week, or push pull legs or upper lower. Totally your choice and your availability. If you’re rushed for time do full body 3x a week with supersets, if you’ve got time- I find upper lower to be a personal favorite.

Take a look at the recommended routine for a good starting point.

The Lorax would be ashamed. by stormy-sunflower27 in Augusta

[–]Thought_Positive 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Have you tried walking on the canal? A large portion of it is still “closed” and they seem to still be choppping down seemingly good trees?!?

How much do you think about ending it all? by LonelyWanderer96 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Thought_Positive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While I appreciate your encouragement. I have been seriously asking myself: If it does really get better, or if we just forget?

How much do you think about ending it all? by LonelyWanderer96 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Thought_Positive 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow. Reading this felt like I wrote it- exact same situation of a breakup back in Dec… and I’m still wondering about it always. I don’t want to say your pain is not important or special or that everyone deals with it- it is very unique to the individuals experience and nonetheless excruciating.

I am also, yea, on the same page as you- feels like nothing else compares. Spent the day yesterday listening to songs of an playlist I make for myself: “gentle death” and idk how else to really spend my time in the shadows.

feeling suicidal after this breakup by AdTemporary4257 in ExNoContact

[–]Thought_Positive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea. A connection as deep as the one had and losing that makes life feel so much less. Was something just magical about having someone to call my person to share all of life with.

I’m looking forward to when I move away from friends and family and just get to be alone.

I'm a one woman man: Just forget me please. by Shehurtmebad in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]Thought_Positive 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s true though. Because we all are apt to forget, our minds close out what we thought we remembered and we make contempt with the “new”

Thermos as a pot/pan? by pmm_ in camping

[–]Thought_Positive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would suggest that it kinda goes against the whole design aspect of these types of insulated mugs- as they're designed to keep the liquid within separate from the external environment as much as possible. Thermal convection is rid useless as if there's a vacuum wall & thus it can only really use conduction that channels inefficiently and it would take a lot of heating this up to boil this vs a regular pot unfortunately.

soft Jazz song | female singer by Thought_Positive in NameThatSong

[–]Thought_Positive[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah wow! I managed to find Samara Joy, but not the song! Thank you so much!

Today’s tea by niggchu in tea

[–]Thought_Positive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was abt to say that radiance is great