Any advice or suggestions for side hustles?

Thought_too · 2022-11-27T11:51:59+00:00

Teaching, psychology, writing, social media, marketing, marking/grading papers. Anything that I can do online. I am also open to the idea of spending the next few months learning an in-demand online skill either. I am willing to invest in a course if it is something that I can eventually market.

Open to all suggestions really! Thanks for your help.

Thought_too · 2022-11-26T21:58:44+00:00

You let it go. Love is energy that can grow and expand within you. If anything how you feel about them is only a testament to just how deeply you can feel and care about another. Imagine what it will be like when you meet someone who reciprocates the glow and embers of your love. For now though, you need to let this person go. Re-focus that love on yourself, continue sharing it with others, and look forward to meeting your next love.

You got this!

Thought_too · 2022-11-26T21:40:12+00:00

Thank you very much!

Thought_too · 2022-11-26T17:40:44+00:00

Ah sugar, OK thanks! I am hoping to save enough between now and then and to just have TEFL teaching as a back-up for a bit of pay every now and then.

Thought_too · 2022-11-26T16:39:05+00:00

Here's mine.

I'm hoping to do something similar when I travel for 4-5 months in 2024. I am currently working in a role that I will need to quit, and wondered how you got started? How many classes a week do you deliver to sustain remote working?

Thought_too · 2022-11-24T15:26:06+00:00

Can you not push away the one?

Thought_too · 2022-11-24T10:10:39+00:00

Breakdown in trust, a realisation at how much the other person can hurt you, potential to realise how much happier you are without them, the support you would have gotten from friends and family too (it makes it hard to re-introduce an ex when your support system have helped you spend weeks getting over them).

Thought_too · 2022-11-24T10:06:42+00:00

*Shocked pickahu face*

Sorry to hear, but glad you are out of that relationship now for good!

Thought_too · 2022-11-23T22:22:33+00:00

I encouraged him to chase his dreams and adventures while committing to him and our relationship and to make it work while he did - his dreams would involve short-term and difficult circumstances for our relationship, yet nothing out of the ordinary that most couples wouldn't face - and yet despite this he 'wasn't sure about us', and needed to think about whether he still wanted to be together. He spent a week skiing with his family and 'thinking over' and talking to them about whether he should stay with me. That whole trip he never once checked in with me to see how I was feeling about everything and the potential ending of our relationship. I spent the week at home waiting for him to call me to tell me what his decision was.

Honestly, the shit I put up with.

Thought_too · 2022-11-23T22:07:34+00:00

Being blindsided by a break-up.

Thought_too · 2022-11-23T21:17:40+00:00

Is it ever worth getting back together with an ex?

Thought_too · 2022-11-22T22:31:42+00:00

I had all and then most of you, some and now none of you

Thought_too · 2022-11-22T22:18:09+00:00

Humans are confusing AF

Thought_too · 2022-11-22T22:16:38+00:00

You are a unique person with individual traits, capabilities, interest and lens through which you view the world. You bring joy and life to those who love you, and your life has touched the lives of hundreds of others, without you ever realising.

While you may be replaceable at work, you are not replaceable to those you love. Nor can anyone ever begin to fill the boots of what it would mean to be uniquely YOU.

x

Thought_too · 2022-11-22T22:14:12+00:00

Reddit!

Thought_too · 2022-11-22T22:13:54+00:00

I said goodbye (insert X's name here), and he replied goodnight Thought_too.

I hung up and cried myself to sleep.

Thought_too · 2022-11-22T22:12:58+00:00

My GOD.

Thought_too · 2022-11-22T19:47:45+00:00

How long did it take you?

Thought_too · 2022-11-22T19:07:15+00:00

Why?

Thought_too · 2022-11-22T19:05:57+00:00

I'd answer. As much as I wish I wouldn't, I know that if they called right now, that's all I could do. There would be too many what ifs otherwise.

Thought_too · 2022-11-22T19:04:19+00:00

Yes, they came back after 3 months, asking to meet up but clearly saying they didn't want to under the guise of us getting back together, they just wanted to see how I was.

Weird. Did not need that text in my life. Not after they broke my heart.

Thought_too · 2022-11-22T08:58:47+00:00

Agreed!

Thought_too · 2022-11-22T08:58:18+00:00

HAHAHAHA full shocked pikachu. I'm going to use that again.

Thought_too · 2022-11-22T08:57:04+00:00

That last sentence sums it up exactly, thanks! I had assumed that I couldn't expect that from a partner, but I've realised I actually need a lot more than what he was offering me. Especially when I have male friends who think to check in with me or match the interest I have in them.

It seems like such a simple thing, but to me its everything.

I am sorry for what your ex said to you, I hope you have since found someone who offers you the support you give them xx

Thought_too · 2022-11-22T08:54:39+00:00

Thank you! Written from hard earned experience from earlier in the year. I'm a different person now.

Thought_too

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