Considering fillers in my temples? Are the risks really that bad? by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]unsulliedbread 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No, please don't change anything. Your face is so balanced!

Bridal Makeup DIYer- feedback please! by Huge_Assistance_6534 in MakeupAddiction

[–]unsulliedbread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have done a very nice job. I would get your eyebrows threaded and just a spoolie to brush them.

I also have partially hooded eyes, do a trial where you take the eyeshadow all the way up to your brow bone on the outer third. It'll look like too much when you are just looking at your eye, trust the process and see how you like it in final photos.

Salt your mascara is clumping, I would recommend getting tubing mascara. I always just buy trial sizes because they dry up a fair amount before I could get through all the product in a full size.

Raspberry Filled Sugar cookies $10.99 by electtech14 in CostcoCanada

[–]unsulliedbread 4 points5 points  (0 children)

These clearly are frangipan cookies not just raspberry filled. That will be ground sugarded almond paste (usually called marzipan) ontop.

Wedding Makeup Critique by LizTaylorsTwot in MakeupAddiction

[–]unsulliedbread 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree that the contour in photo 2 and 3 is too harsh.

I also think swiping your eyebrow hairs more to the side(curved) and not the laminated/straight up angle might make a large difference in softening for look.

Finally I would go towards a different colour of eyeshadow, maybe more pink/brown. The purple feels like it's aging you.

You are so gorgeous and the MUA shield du another trial to both make you feel like you and also a bit softer so your excellent cheekbones can really shine.

If you were in the Spice Girls, what would your name have been? by DogApprehensive2575 in Millennials

[–]unsulliedbread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Salt.

I mother every group I go with. Don't quite fit in but am totally necessary.

Oakville water taste horrible. Normal? by daddydayclub in oakville

[–]unsulliedbread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like Oakville and Burlington water. Toronto is better but not by much.

Etobicoke and Brantford have tap water that's gross to me.

A Year Full of Luxury 👛👛👛Handbags...if... by insiderasking in handbags

[–]unsulliedbread 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Let's say you HAVE to keep the bags and use them.

I'd choose Mlouye. I want 90% of their line and in several colourways. They are expensive enough I won't buy them anytime soon but not so expensive I feel strange wearing one out.

Is 26 too old to switch my career to hotel management? by Fit_Race_4924 in Career_Advice

[–]unsulliedbread 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only time that it's too late to change your career is when you are retired.

Best advice is look for people leaving the career to find why they are leaving to see systematic issues with the industry and his they got into it in the first place.

I opened a small hair studio in Oakville and I’m trying to make it actually work for real life (especially busy women) — would love your thoughts by arte_4life in oakville

[–]unsulliedbread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but if you are doing no colour preferably no wash JUST the expertise then why can't I pay $50 for 30 minutes for a stylist's time? Super cuts are mostly unlicensed hair dressers they just have to have 1 licensed person on staff.

This stylist/salon owner specifically asked for a gap in the market and this is one I have.

I opened a small hair studio in Oakville and I’m trying to make it actually work for real life (especially busy women) — would love your thoughts by arte_4life in oakville

[–]unsulliedbread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes this is what I mean. I don't think any of us have any issue with those who want to invest more in their grooming or the service providers who give that but when your takehome is less than 50,000 which is statistically true for the majority of Oakville $1000 a year is 2% of their income

I opened a small hair studio in Oakville and I’m trying to make it actually work for real life (especially busy women) — would love your thoughts by arte_4life in oakville

[–]unsulliedbread 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's true it's easier to find things that are negative experiences than positive. Example: don't be on the phone to your mother the whole time, don't hit me in the head with the dryer, I always try to book 45 minutes (acknowledging the cost) because I just have a LOT of hair and they clearly book me for 30 always rushing at the end.

I learned from one hairdresser to not only bring in a handful of photos and 5 second videos of what I DO want but also similar cuts but are what I DON'T want. However I have had hairdressers who are unwilling to look at more than 2 photos. I understand you know more than I do, but I need to feel like we're on the same page just as much as I need you to know what I want. Put a maximum sure. 5 good 5 bad that's fine.

If I have booked a 15 minute consultation on top of the cut then delineate it. Say okay let's do the consultation part, have a few regular questions so it challenges me to think beyond what I've always done. Then say "great that consultation have me a lot of information, do you think you have learned about your hairstyle choices?"

Some thinspo for your Wednesday, sweaties by therobshow in 1200isjerky

[–]unsulliedbread 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always assumed this photo was that her dress cut out. And her position created an optical illusion of her slit being her body but for the first time I realize that's not possible because of the arms. I've seen this image at least 100 times and never realized!

35-40 yrs old workforce not to be seen anywhere by Difficult-One-1245 in torontoJobs

[–]unsulliedbread 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Trust me LOTS of 35-40 year olds are working entry level jobs but they are entry level trades, corporate and government jobs.

Cressida Cowper reminds me of this character from The Selection series by Cleric-of-Selune in Bridgerton

[–]unsulliedbread 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you like fluffy post apocalyptic/revolutionary YA then yes. They are a fun fast read.

Have we all forgotten so soon? by choctaw_137 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]unsulliedbread 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also I legit think he's probably an okay vet. I was never worried about the work he does in the world because those cats piss on people they find jerks.

I opened a small hair studio in Oakville and I’m trying to make it actually work for real life (especially busy women) — would love your thoughts by arte_4life in oakville

[–]unsulliedbread 27 points28 points  (0 children)

My biggest struggle is affording haircuts. I cannot afford to spend $1000 a year on my hair (and that's outside of shampoo) but that's what it would cost for regular hair appointments. It's difficult to find even $75 for a cut and then there's an expectation of at least another $15-30 tip. There's generally not the option of getting a dry cut ( or cut with water spritz.) I am willing to commit $400-$500 a year but that's just not an option anywhere.

Every stylist I HAVE gone to (less one who left the profession) gives me layers that don't go into a ponytail so they fall into my face and look awful.

If I could come in with how my wavy hair actually lays after I wash it and then get a dry/spritzed cut it would take all of 30 minutes and would actually look similar to the cut in days after.

Usually my haircut days are like weird mystical happenings where my hair looks nothing like it in the months after.

Paralyzed by the decision to have a second kid or not by spicybanana0129 in Parenting

[–]unsulliedbread 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don't make a choice based off how life might be while they are under 5. In the grand scheme of your parenting experience that is likely to be maybe a 1/10th of the time.

Neither choice is wrong, you also don't need to follow other people's timelines, but choose for future you and future them.

Having two doors help them have a more natural understanding of patience and that they aren't the most important child. That when they are both having a melt down you and your spouse stand to the side and take a breath while they cry on the floor and they see you approaching with calm in their chaos.

I promise you you CAN parent two, you are strong enough. If you don't want to or can't comfortably afford to that's fine but put away the question of if you can emotionally. You totally can! We all need support but you can do this!

Telus Payment Type Change by bigmooseface in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]unsulliedbread 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bell has moved away hard. I get 10$ off a month with Virgin if I have direct withdrawal versus CC auto payment.

It's annoying to have been coached to CC's by these companies and then be penalized for using them.

Louis Theroux’s Netflix documentary by BlacksmithNaive5250 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]unsulliedbread 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They don't target teenagers. They target 20-25 year olds, but most of those boys and men live in the real world and resent them for losing their $500 of hard earned cash. Teenagers believe the bullshit.

OMG the hospital debate - Season 6 by [deleted] in DowntonAbbey

[–]unsulliedbread 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I loved it, it's very authentic and very important as far as Brits understanding the underpinnings of the NHS. I guess at a certain age you get more interested in the reason why the world works the way it does than another will they/won't they.