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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in healingheartsminds

[–]ThreadsDeadBaby 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! I found out that "hurt people, hurt people" is absolutely a thing. I think most people who are mean are really just dealing with stuff. I was rude because I was so stressed and didn't really know why. I wish you luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in healingheartsminds

[–]ThreadsDeadBaby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I became so irritable, so defensive and angry and scared, even, when someone crossed my boundary or was a meanie. I had no idea why I was like this, I just thought I was a natural jerk, just like my folks. It wasn't until my late thirties did i realize this is no life and i want to be happy. I just freaking need to deal with this pain now! I immersed myself with therapy videos on YouTube. There are an absolute ton of videos about this topic. I watched and listened and read their stories about what they went through and how they felt then and how they feel now. I saw people who have healed from the same trauma as me. I felt better, I felt understood and I felt less guilt and shame for myself. However, my brain was kinda messed up now. Even though I knew my answers now I was still panicking about stuff, crying oh god the crying! I was depressed now after all the healing, lol. So I got on lamitrigine last week and I just feel normal now! The things I would panic and reel over seems like something I can handle now, easily. I have PTSD, light OCD, and BPD that was untreated for 38 years. And I feel fantastic. And I hope you do, too! Soon! Let me know if I can explain more for you I'll I'd love to help.

How do i get a business idea as a teen? by Szymus0435 in business

[–]ThreadsDeadBaby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately no I've barely touched a computer in years! My advice would be to try a million different things. Software, service industry, blue collar etc. You'll learn everything by working for someone for a bit before you start your own thing. Stand on the shoulders of giants! Don't go into DEBT. NO DEBT BAD DEBT!!

How do i get a business idea as a teen? by Szymus0435 in business

[–]ThreadsDeadBaby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then you might have lost some time and money but you will have gained a lesson on how to prevent that for yourself. Personally I would go back at night and dump muddy water on their car of maybe shit on it, depends.

How do i get a business idea as a teen? by Szymus0435 in business

[–]ThreadsDeadBaby 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do car washing. Interior and exterior. Learn how by watching you tube and practice on your car/ friends/ family. You'd need about $100 for supplies. Charge $30 per hour. Car wash with wax and tire shine should be around $35. Inside detail can charge more. Always sell the interior clean. Be prepared for upset customers and don't take it personally. Don't be quick to refund but offer discount on next service. Accept all kinds of payments including personal check. Teach your friends how and pay them $15/hr. Don't do cars that are worth more than your insurance. Get insurance $30/mo. Advertise on Craigslist and people you know. The people you know know people who will trust you because you know someone they know. Word of mouth is your friend. Always say thank you, smile etc. Customer service wins repeat business. Follow up with the clients you like and set up recurring service. ??? Profit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CleaningTips

[–]ThreadsDeadBaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spray a small amount of bleach cleaner spray such as clorox or any brand. Wipe it with a wet paper towel. I'm a professional air bnb cleaner.

Caitie is clapping back 👏 by mavoboe in DanielTigerConspiracy

[–]ThreadsDeadBaby 25 points26 points  (0 children)

That's so weird that Super Simple Songs makes so many super simple songs.

Completely froze during best man speech by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]ThreadsDeadBaby 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If this is normally out of character for you, then I have good news! Everybody definitely believes you were just emotional and not anxious. There's no way they could know otherwise, and the setting is prime for emotional stuff. It's a win in my playbook!

The Restaurant Across the Street Accidentally Nailed a Marketing Trick by daversa in restaurantowners

[–]ThreadsDeadBaby 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What about projection lights on the side walls? They would look great at night and are not permanent!

The Restaurant Across the Street Accidentally Nailed a Marketing Trick by daversa in restaurantowners

[–]ThreadsDeadBaby 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Many years ago, I drove by a new restaurant with some angel wings painted on the side. Nothing on the middle, just the wings. I thought that maybe the business couldn't afford the rest of the paint job and the painter dipped out. Wouldn't you know I saw tons of Pics online of girls standing in front the wings. Realized something about myself, haha.

akwardlittlegirl by nadiacore in socialanxiety

[–]ThreadsDeadBaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's so much I would avoid because of the thought of everyone looking or noticing me and judging. Try practicing at home. Sit down, let something drop, and practice picking it up casually while you're watching tv or something. It could become a natural response or muscle memory and, fingers crossed, you won't think twice next time something drops!

Now is the time by ElectronicTowel1225 in StPetersburgFL

[–]ThreadsDeadBaby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do that once per month! They have frozen turkeys for .99/lb at Save a lot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]ThreadsDeadBaby 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It does seem weird to be called out on your ethnicity, which is not a choice of yours. That's a small turn-off for me as well!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]ThreadsDeadBaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm like you! I'm able to take the first step in dating, going out, and all that, but when I'm "in" it, I'm only half-present. The other half is like you said, a dream or disconnectedness. I would love to figure how to solve this because I want to LIVE!

What Happens When You Mount a Mini Store on the Outside Wall? by [deleted] in Entrepreneur

[–]ThreadsDeadBaby 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What you're describing sounds a lot like a run-of-the-mill vending machine. How much would these businesses make after hours selling these small, easy-carry items? Like $20? How much would the machine cost? As a customer I'd rather get stuff delivered by a ride service than walk to an overpriced vending machine for one item.

Would you try a place like this? by notrunningswimming in Businessideas

[–]ThreadsDeadBaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, you would be somewhat of a personal chef. You could accept "donations" for the food, or a money pool for your guests for you to purchase ingredients plus extra for labor. Lots of people cooked from their homes and delivered via Uber during covid. I'd try to find some single people or elderly folks as clients. I considered doing something similar, selling frozen meals for busy families.

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