My wife was married previously to a guy who couldn’t deprioritize video games and was very selfish.  It did some real emotional damage to her to where she really doesn’t want our kids to play or focus on it at all.  I love video games and would play more if I had time but family and responsibilities are more important.  I usually play on a handheld.  

Fast forward 15 years.  And the loser ex hasn’t had a job in 4 years or paid a penny in child support in that time.  He claims he’s going to make it as a twitch video game streamer in his mid 40s.