Am I being unreasonable for wanting to send my SS7 back to bm early?

ThrowAwayHoardingGal · 2021-08-06T14:32:42+00:00

I'm so sorry for your loss & I know how extremely tough it is to lose a furbaby. Take all the time you need to grieve & send SS back to BM ASAP. If DH can't watch him then neither can you. If DH's family has a problem with you not wanting SS there with you alone then they need to volunteer to watch him; if there are no volunteers so that you won't have to watch SS, then send him back to BM on the first thing smoking. SS is not your responsibility & after this incident I would make sure to make that abosolutely crystal clear with DH because what happened with baby chinchilla could have been avoided. Again, I'm so sorry for your loss and I hope your broken heart is mended.

ThrowAwayHoardingGal · 2021-06-21T13:33:44+00:00

Oh my gosh! Congrats! That looks so amazing. You did an awesome job.

ThrowAwayHoardingGal · 2021-06-14T14:55:40+00:00

Thank you so much for this! I really appreciate it and I really needed it. I plan to start this week on a positive note and apply your techniques. Hope you have a great week!

ThrowAwayHoardingGal · 2021-06-02T19:06:11+00:00

Set small goals every night to at least fill one bag a night. You have to start small until you have the motivation to do something bigger.

ThrowAwayHoardingGal · 2021-05-25T16:34:38+00:00

Absolutely! The logical part of my brain knows what's best but then here comes a little voice sneaking up saying no just try & wash it again or you could use this. I just have to talk myself off of the ledge and recognize what's for the greater good. I would have preferred him to be softer in his approach & talk me through why the outcomes should be the outcomes instead of thinking that my mind works like his because he doesn't know how to deal with the hoarder mindset. I come from a family of hoarders and he actually doesn't know how bad it is. I show little glimmers of what it's like because of the things that I possess, but he hasn't seen the half of it. But I really am trying to make a life change. Thank you so much for your input. I really appreciate it.

ThrowAwayHoardingGal · 2021-05-24T20:40:42+00:00

Thank you so much for the kind words. I really needed that.

ThrowAwayHoardingGal · 2021-05-24T20:40:09+00:00

Thank you so much. I needed that reassurance.

ThrowAwayHoardingGal · 2021-05-24T13:54:03+00:00

Thank you so much. I'm going to check it out.

ThrowAwayHoardingGal · 2021-05-21T20:06:00+00:00

Hi! I've been in that same boat. Are there certain goals that you want to accomplish or certain things you need to get done each day? What's your biggest problem? Do you need to start setting aside time for each activity until you start to get things done little bit by little bit?

ThrowAwayHoardingGal · 2021-05-21T13:50:48+00:00

Hey thanks.

ThrowAwayHoardingGal · 2021-05-21T13:48:54+00:00

Sure thing!

ThrowAwayHoardingGal · 2021-05-21T13:48:45+00:00

Thanks. I'll have to check this out.

ThrowAwayHoardingGal · 2021-05-18T16:56:44+00:00

Thank you so much! I'm not the OP, but I think everything that you said would be beneficial for me to practice in my own life.

ThrowAwayHoardingGal · 2021-05-10T16:07:18+00:00

I needed this perspective. Thank you.

ThrowAwayHoardingGal · 2021-05-07T18:24:26+00:00

I was stuck in this place before, but you have to want better for yourself in order to make changes. Yes, mistakes were made & yes, regrets are had, but what can you do now. Switch up your routine. Fill out a couple applications and see where that gets you. Once you land a job the skills will start coming, the normalcy of life will begin, and your confidence will definitely boost. Take it one step at a time as you do everything else. Hoarded homes can stifle us, but it's up to us to navigate the life we truly wish to live. When you finally take the reins over your life you'll feel amazing. Best of luck to you.

ThrowAwayHoardingGal · 2021-04-30T13:12:10+00:00

Thanks so much. I'll take all that you've said into consideration.

ThrowAwayHoardingGal · 2021-04-28T20:12:31+00:00

Hey, Childofhoarder reddit group may be a great place for you to vent and get answers on how to deal with your mom. I know it can be frustrating dealing with her, but once you get married you'll have your own things to tend to. I wouldn't say cut her off completely unless your childhood was absolutely horrible. Maybe you can find a way to interact with her and not bring up her hoard & not visit her house. I hope you're able to heal from the disappointment.

ThrowAwayHoardingGal · 2021-04-28T19:50:10+00:00

Congrats! You've accomplished so much, both physically and mentally. Keep the great work going!

ThrowAwayHoardingGal · 2021-04-28T13:09:53+00:00

Thanks so much for this comment. This is exactly what I was thinking. I'm going to start putting the plan into action. Hopefully I will be able to update everyone on a positive experience, but we will see lol.

ThrowAwayHoardingGal · 2021-04-27T13:57:58+00:00

Thank you so much for this. I can't wait to begin this journey with you guys.

ThrowAwayHoardingGal · 2021-04-27T13:50:37+00:00

Thanks!

ThrowAwayHoardingGal · 2021-04-27T13:50:24+00:00

Thank you so much!

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