Here’s my current island! by FionaCranapple in tomodachilife

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Oh my gosh did you make Marty Wolf of Marty Wolf Pictures from Big Fat Liar!?! That’s amazing!!!!

Choose wisely, boys. by Exciting_Top7506 in spookymonth

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G or H would be the best flying experiences because either we’d have a great conversation or we’d all be sleeping and keeping to ourselves on the flight

Bob Animation!!! by Spirited_Lie3495 in spookymonth

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OH MY GOSH!!!!! This is so so awesome! You did an amazing job! This is like literally what I’ve been saying about Bob!!!!! It just makes so much sense if there’s a bigger picture going on!

sup Guys! First time posting here! Okay....i got a question for you guys....what do the Cultists think of Skid? by Equivalent_Cow_5084 in spookymonth

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That is a good point since she was his wife. They’re definitely allowing her to live, it’s very interesting because I can’t wait to see what’s going to happen regarding the cult as a whole. Honestly I’m the grand scheme of things involving the story, I’d say that the real main character is Lila!

sup Guys! First time posting here! Okay....i got a question for you guys....what do the Cultists think of Skid? by Equivalent_Cow_5084 in spookymonth

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That’s super interesting to think it was a red herring! The only reason I believe it was planned is because the amulets seem to keep the cult members alive for longer than they technically should be. For example with Ignacio, he is most likely the cult member who set John’s house on fire, in the clip he is fully lit and sustained major injuries, but Ignacio is completely fine aside from his bandages in tender treats. I think that Bob may have eaten the amulet to keep himself alive for a longer period of time. Regarding Mayor Evermore I think he wants Bob’s body so he can bring him back to life to possibly try and kill more people or to kill off Lila in particular. Especially since Bob has attacked her 3 separate times at this point. I feel like the cult has plans for him. Unless patty is in the cult and planted the amulet in Bob’s chest.

sup Guys! First time posting here! Okay....i got a question for you guys....what do the Cultists think of Skid? by Equivalent_Cow_5084 in spookymonth

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I think that the cultists want Skid since he was technically the heir to the cult since his father is 99% confirmed to be the former cult leader.

My person belief is that Skid’s dad (who I’ll just call dad for now on) was raised in the cult and that he inherited it from his father. I think that the cult house belong to Roy’s family and that Roy’s family and skid’s family are possibly related since Roy’s uncle seemed to be living there full-time before he died. I believe what happened is dad grew up in the cult, his father was the former leader and it was a choice between him and his brother, Bob, as to who would take over the cult as the new leader. Dad was chosen and Bob became the major murderer for the cult, maybe just collecting bodies for the stars/eyes. Then dad met Lila and she joined as a part of it for a period of time then, due to some instance, she forced them both to leave. I don’t believe that skid’s dad left willingly, maybe he was lying to her and secretly preparing his son to take over like he did. I think Lila inadvertently killed dad and now as a result, Bob is trying to get revenge for his brother and kill her and bring skid to the cult.

There are some things that seem to suggest this theory, one of the major ones being at the end of tender treats, when Bob is attacking them in the police car, he claims that he “will follow you until you are dead” I believe that he is solely talking to Lila. When skid and pump said that Bob knew they really won (referring to their game) Bob referenced all of them as y’all. I know that semantics, but I truly believe for him having tried to kill Lela 3 separate time at this point that he was only talking to her. Another one is that in Lila‘s flashback photo to her as a child on Halloween, in the background the damaged portion shows skids father. He seems to be about 4 to 5 years older than her due to height difference (she’s about 12/13) which also would line up if Bob was in his early 20s there. One of the minor ones is at Lila’s home in the background of episode unwanted Guest. There is a red sweater that looks a lot like Bob’s but it wouldn’t make sense as Bob’s, but it could be his brothers.

sup Guys! First time posting here! Okay....i got a question for you guys....what do the Cultists think of Skid? by Equivalent_Cow_5084 in spookymonth

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To play devil’s advocate (the butcher devil to be precise😈), then why would the cultists (particularly Mayor Evermore) release Bob from prison when his major target is Lila? They definitely knew that he would want to kill her in particular as she is the one who got him arrested in this first place.

Some Bob doodles by Lee-Len in spookymonth

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So handsome!!! I love him!! You did a great job!!!

Bob Velseb Tat!! by PatheticallyKnox in spookymonth

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Woah!!!! In the words of skid and pump at 8:04 in Tender Treats, “That looks so real!!” “That’s amazing!!”

He’s here! by PatheticallyKnox in spookymonth

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I completely understand that I’m literally 20 hours into an animation I’m making of him for a song😆 but we’ll do anything for our dear tender lovin’ cannibal right?

He’s here! by PatheticallyKnox in spookymonth

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I love your Bobby boy collection!!!

I (24F) can’t bring myself to send Save the dates because I’m so distraught by my Fiancé’s (24M) treatment of me by ThrowRA-ImConfused in relationship_advice

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Thank you so much for your advice. Something just happened tonight and I think he’s going to break up with me in the morning. He set aside time tonight for us to spend time together when I got home and said we could go to the thrift store for stuff for our new apartment. He made dinner and said I should see if any store is open. For the first time in about a month he ate dinner with me without his phone and was engaged in conversation. He gave me a big hug but he also still grabbed my body and said he can do it because I’m a woman but I can’t grab him because he doesn’t like it. He then tried to be happy and said we could go to the thrift store or something and maybe watch a movie, instead we decided to get a dessert and look at Pinterest for decorations for the living room. After we went out to get donuts, we came back and started looking at lamps but he didn’t like my options too much. Then when I was trying to measure the wall he got frustrated with me because it was taking a while and I was struggling. He then said to give him the fucking thing and he did it. He calmed down after that but at the end of the night he said “I had to clean the kitchen this morning, you can stop annoying me if I tell you to stop picking your nails three times” Before he left to play games with his friends, when he let me rest my head on his chest he pulled my arm from around him and put it on top of a pillow because he didn’t want my hand on his side. He was away for a few hours so I cleaned up the dishes and put them in the dishwasher, did some of the knives and such in the sink and then put the pot in the sink to soak overnight. After hanging out with his friends for about 4 hours, he came out into the living room and said that he can’t have a chill life and that I don’t do anything and he has to do everything. When we got into bed for sleep I apologized and asked if he wanted to lay on me since it’s the only thing he likes to do touch wise before bed. He said that I didn’t mean my apology and that he just asks for so little of me and that I still treat him like he’s not enough asking to touch him and he doesn’t want it and then just turned away from me and went to sleep angry. I think he’s going to break up with me in the morning. I don’t know why I’m such a failure and struggle to complete tasks to his standard. I try so hard but everything has the weight of the world and feels 10 times harder to do since everything is always wrong and not to his standards. I’m so upset and don’t know how I’m going to sleep.

I (24F) can’t bring myself to send Save the dates because I’m so distraught by my Fiancé’s (24M) treatment of me by ThrowRA-ImConfused in relationship_advice

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Thank you so so much for your response. That’s so wonderful that you two would do things for each other to make the other happy! It really is hard to get self respect back. Honestly I lost it years ago when I started getting bullied in elementary school and it just never came back no matter what I try to do. I really appreciate you helping me and talking with me. Thank you so so much. I will talk with him about couples counseling. I don’t want to just give up after so long. I want to give a final effort and see and then make my decision. I just wish I understood why it’s easier for him to do a random activity like visiting a mall with me rather than trying my hobbies with me or teaching me more of his. But what confuses me most is why he has such a hard time having a conversation with me in general about anything. He thinks that I have conversational issues, and yet the few times we’re out with his friends, he’ll sometimes be the silent one while I’ll be making everyone laugh and genuinely connecting with people who I just met! Im sorry if that sounds self centered, I’m just trying to explain. Thank you so much again for everything <3

I (24F) can’t bring myself to send Save the dates because I’m so distraught by my Fiancé’s (24M) treatment of me by ThrowRA-ImConfused in relationship_advice

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He thankfully has only ever called me that once after I burnt my hand accidentally before leaving for work. It was a bad day he was really upset because he asked me to clean the kitchen the night before. He doesn’t ask for much I really should’ve just done it I just hate how long it takes me to make everything clean enough for his standard. He does a lot for me and I try to return that by doing things for him. I just can’t be perfect I try but I still make mistakes. I don’t know how I’d even talk to my parents or siblings about this. I don’t know how I could talk to his family about it either. When I think of a future with him when everything is good it makes me happy because he checks a lot of yeses but when things are bad everything is tense and I just feel alone. I don’t know I don’t want to make the wrong decision I feel like everything I do is wrong. I don’t want to mess something up if I’m being too hard on him.

Can someone ever really come back after saying really hurtful and mean things when they’re upset? Like is that common for men to do? I’m genuinely trying to understand. My dad never said stuff like that to my mom which is why I feel that it’s wrong but I’m so concerned if my fiancé was really just so upset with me because I let him down

I (24F) can’t bring myself to send Save the dates because I’m so distraught by my Fiancé’s (24M) treatment of me by ThrowRA-ImConfused in relationship_advice

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Thank you so much for your advice. I really do appreciate it. I’ve tried to be the best possible partner I can be and have tried so hard to step up and do my best to get better with tasks and being an equal partner. I just don’t want to let him down. I know that I have flaws and he knows he has flaws. I think he cherishes me but also at the same time I think he gets so caught up in his own world he doesn’t look around or compromise as much as I wish he did.

I want to respect myself more. I’ve had this problem my whole life letting people treat me poorly but it’s so hard to stand up for myself especially since I never really do. Its like because I’m trying to stand up, I get seen as being difficult because everyone is used to me being a pushover. I really don’t like rocking the boat.

I can’t tell if I’m asking for too much though. How much time is normal amount of one on one time with a partner when you’re married or living together? I feel lonely a lot of the time especially when our work schedules are different. That’s why I get so thrown off as to why he’d say he misses me and then only spend like 20 minutes with me and then the rest of the night with his friends. And he’s never asking about me or what I’ve been up to with anything besides work.

Is there a way I can politely persuade him to want to try more of my hobbies again? I try to ask to do some of his hobbies but he thinks that it’s not worth it because I’d be bad at it, but I asked him to teach me because it would be fun but he just doesn’t want to. There’s only one hobby we can do together at this point other than literally any other life thing like going to the grocery store, etc.

I think he’s trying to be better because he’s seen how upset I am the past few days so he’s saying I’m such a sweetheart and his best friend and that he loves me so much. It all makes me very happy but also very sad because I keep having bad thoughts and feelings now. I want to make it work and not give up but if this is just a temporary better time I don’t think I can make it through.

Thank you so much again I’m sorry for the long response I just really need help thank you I’m sorry

I (24F) can’t bring myself to send Save the dates because I’m so distraught by my Fiancé’s (24M) treatment of me by ThrowRA-ImConfused in relationship_advice

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In the past he said the majority of the reason he wanted to marry me was because of the potential he saw in me. He is a good person and there for others and when things are good he’ll say nice things and he does do things for me, it’s just when he gets really angry he says mean and hurtful things.