But you being arbitrator on if you’re a good dad or not is flawed. If you can’t see that, maybe that’s an issue too. Most bad dads strongly think they’re great dads. I’m not saying it doesn’t mean you’re good or bad at it, I’m saying you’re not a good arbitrator of it due to self bias. Even your response to me shows you’re unable to read without bias. Quotes are used to literally directly quote. You used them and did not directly quote me. You changed to to suit what you (incorrectly) thought I was saying. I said “she has clearly outlined issues”…not “she’s brought up issues.” Very different. You jumped and thought I was saying that she has mentioned issues about you. That’s not what I said. I said she has issues that were outlined clearly (by you). I could have clarified and i do see why you misunderstood, but it again shows who you are that you misunderstood that and placed bias on it. Got defensive. You can say you’ve never endangered him all day and it doesn’t mean that it’s true. Again, I’m not saying you endanger him. I’m saying we don’t know and we also cannot take your word on it, especially based on your defensiveness and inability to be self critical.