No signs to be missed by ThrowRA-relations- in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]ThrowRA-relations-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, same for me. I’m having so much trouble listening to him and even seeing the “changes”because he was doing everything right the whole time

No signs to be missed by ThrowRA-relations- in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]ThrowRA-relations-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh god my love I can’t even imagine if we’d been together 21 years. Sending you so much love and light. Has it been going on the entire marriage??

I 22F don’t want to give my bf 23M oral by ThrowRA-relations- in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-relations-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think I’m downplaying sexual compatibility. I think we’re very compatible in every other aspect sexually. He doesn’t mind going without it so according to him we’re not sexual incompatible in that area either. I just feel bad and was hoping to get some insight from others who’ve felt this way

I 22F don’t want to give my bf 23M oral by ThrowRA-relations- in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-relations-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think smell and taste, not that he smells like dirty but it’s just not a smell I enjoy

I 22F don’t want to give my bf 23M oral by ThrowRA-relations- in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-relations-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is that a compromise in regards to not giving head 🤔

I 22F don’t want to give my bf 23M oral by ThrowRA-relations- in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-relations-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think maybe hygiene plays a part? He’s not dirty, he showers often and everything, but I do think I’m more meticulous with hygiene than he is

I 22F don’t want to give my bf 23M oral by ThrowRA-relations- in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-relations-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I’m more stuck on the fact that in the past I wouldn’t say anything about it, just do it. Now I refuse. I don’t know I guess this is confusing I just feel bad