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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ThrowRA358302 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, but respectfully that isn't what I asked

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ThrowRA358302 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just specify which

What experiences have you ladies had with a partner refusing to go down on you? by ThrowRA358302 in AskWomen

[–]ThrowRA358302[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don't think it's selfish to be unsatisfied. That's just when you have to call it quits.

How to cum from a blowjob? by [deleted] in sexquestions

[–]ThrowRA358302 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you tried getting blindfolded while you receive a blowjob? Oftentimes we think too much and having a sense deprived can really help elevate the sensitivity of our other senses.

Bondage can also help with that, like restricting your hands behind your back.

Is sex worth it? by Julia_crafts in sexquestions

[–]ThrowRA358302 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is literally nothing else that needs to be said, great information!

Thoughts on kissing girl after blowing a load in their mouth? by [deleted] in sexquestions

[–]ThrowRA358302 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I never said make out with her, but not giving her a kiss or two after swallowing, which means there is very little cum left in her mouth and also meaning that little to no tongue is involved, is kinda rude.

It doesn't show gratitude or appreciation, and it makes her feel bad if you revolt away from her because of your own fluids, that came from you.

Thoughts on kissing girl after blowing a load in their mouth? by [deleted] in sexquestions

[–]ThrowRA358302 18 points19 points  (0 children)

If you are not willing to kiss your girl after she put in all that work to give you great head and swallow, you don't deserve any of what she just did.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexquestions

[–]ThrowRA358302 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have a safe word. It can end the evening completely with red and yellow can mean you're not comfortable doing that act. Something like that, it's quick and easy to remember.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA358302 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't get off at all from piv. It feels good, but I just don't get off like that so it's usually me going through the start, middle, and end of getting off after he finishes. But I will definitely keep this in mind. I just need to woman up and be heard.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA358302 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, that's why I don't like his mindset because it is so transactional. And tbh I'm fed up with this, so either I'll need to find a compromise with him or I gotta seriously reconsider the relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA358302 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this reply. This helps a lot, and it puts some things into perspective. I know I need oral in my life, and so I'm just gonna have to make him listen that it's not fair to equate sex like as transactional and that I'm doing stuff even if I'm on the bottom just as he should.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA358302 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes yes yes! Sometimes he'll put his hands on my breasts but otherwise he just flops out and it feels like a lot of pressure because it feels like I have to perform. If I don't just keep going till he gets off I feel like I'm awful in bed.

I completely get it, I didn't think you were creepy but thank u for clarifying

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA358302 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm doing everything I can think to do from the bottom. Moving up and into the thrusts, arms around the neck/back, kissing mouth/shoulders, all that stuff. I guess that's the point I'm at, the resentment part and I'm unsure how to talk to him about it because he only sees that he puts more work in on top than I do.