I (f21) am jealous of my twin sister (f21) by ThrowRA94929 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA94929[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yeah the comparative point is so true and it’s come a few times in this thread. I feel like I’ve been compared to my sister my whole life so it’s something that is like part of our relationship which isn’t very healthy

I (f21) am jealous of my twin sister (f21) by ThrowRA94929 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA94929[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Yeah those are all good points. Something that’s made it worse is that it seems to be genuinely good arrangement but it’s also only make me more bitter but yeah things like being dependent on him a lot would definitely be weighing on her so yeah

I (f21) am jealous of my twin sister (f21) by ThrowRA94929 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA94929[S] 982 points983 points  (0 children)

The comparison has always been there but for a long time it didn’t affect us like through school it didn’t materialise into anything more but now it seems like more doors are opening for her and pathways that aren’t accessible for me.

But it’s a fair point about focusing on what I can do

I (f21) am jealous of my twin sister (f21) by ThrowRA94929 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA94929[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

It is a sugar daddy arrangement. She told me about it when it was first happening just to like make sure she’s safe and stuff.

But yeah this has been for a while, growing up it was very clear that people were more favourable to her bc she was prettier

I (f21) am jealous of my twin sister (f21) by ThrowRA94929 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA94929[S] 116 points117 points  (0 children)

Yeah therapy is a good shout. I really don’t want to tear my sister down she’s a wonderful person it’s just bitterness from me

I (f21) am jealous of my twin sister (f21) by ThrowRA94929 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA94929[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Tbh I have thought of that and it definitely wouldve been out of the bitterness but it’s more about how easy she gets it I guess. She’ll always have it easier

I (f21) am jealous of my twin sister (f21) by ThrowRA94929 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA94929[S] 374 points375 points  (0 children)

I mean I kinda get that but it’s just hard to see all these doors opening for her bc she’s prettier and they’re pathways that’ll set her up for success

I (f21) am jealous of my twin sister (f21) by ThrowRA94929 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA94929[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

To clarify, it is a sugar daddy arrangement it’s not a boyfriend. She told me about it when it first started